It s been 2 years since I broke up, should I still hold hands?

Updated on society 2024-05-12
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Some people tell me that nostalgia is a disease, but I have been pregnant for many years. I don't believe what other people say, and if it's really a disease, I hope it gets better. The truth is that there's no way I can't keep myself from being nostalgic.

    I'm just facing the facts. If you're like me, then go ahead and choose the previous one, there's no need to let yourself be"Nostalgia"Medium pain. Men will be better than the other, and there is no best concept in their hearts at all, only the man they pay the most attention to.

    If he is just as suspicious and needs you, you really have to think about it!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you really love.

    Then you should hold hands.

    Put love in the palm of your hand.

    It's not easy to appreciate it.

    It's been two years since we broke up.

    Not an excuse to refuse again.

    A pair of lovers destined by God.

    No matter how long they have been apart.

    Oh, my God. Or will they meet.

    Because. Other than that.

    It doesn't get any better than that.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe you and he still have an unfinished road to go.

    Maybe that's what God has arranged.

    Ask your heart, and if you think it's okay, put it together.

    Because what others say is useless, just on the surface, and the inner things still have to rely on themselves.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Choose the latter, because the memories with the former are too good, it is difficult to surpass, and after comparison.

    You will feel disappointed and eventually give up.

    The latter, you said, he is very suitable for you, and you still have to find a suitable fit for marriage and life in the future.

    Own.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Cherish your feelings. Trust your own vision. Look at which man is willing to pay for you without complaining. There will still be love in 2 years There are not many in this society now. Maybe he really loves you. Give them a try.

    See who will stand up for you when you're in danger

    The old-fashioned tricks are the most practical

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Although the love when I was a child was very pure, I didn't understand the real love at all, it was just a hazy like, don't mistake that hazy for love, the past is the past, and people should look forward!!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Love is your own, and only by grasping love can you be happy.

    If being with him makes you happy, then grab him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Soon after the breakup, he had a girlfriend, but I was sad for more than a year, and I can't forget him until now. ”

    Now is the beginning of your abandonment of him. I said to you that it may be the continuation of the first love, but he abandoned it and retook it, and he is no longer the one he was when he was the first love!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    To be honest, I had a class reunion yesterday, and there was a lot of similarity between men and women and you.

    Happiness is only a layer of paper away from you, poke it open!

    This is your second spring! Don't choose the so-called excellent, choose the one who really loves you. If you choose to love you, you can get real happiness!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you are married and live, choose a person who suits you.

    It is often said that what you love is not necessarily the best, but what you fit is the best.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Above!!! Otherwise, you will regret it later.

    It's best to give the first love for the first time, everything is perfect.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If both of you are interesting, it's good to continue the frontier.

    Table afraid of breaking up.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Choose the one you love.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    In my opinion, breaking up, that is, saying goodbye to the past, is ready to meet a new life, and the two are still in a long-distance relationship, and if they break up, they can't go on, if you want to see each other again, you have to have someone to pay something, from one city to another, but you are not sure whether it will disturb each other's lives, after all, after the breakup, the other party may be adapting to a new life, is making new plans, and your appearance may break some of the other party's decisions, It may also be that you are not willing to rekindle the old relationship between the two people after seeing each other and get back together, but there is an old saying that a broken mirror cannot be reunited, yes, how to recuperate the broken heart when you break up, and you must have endured great pain when you decide to break up, and getting back together again may lead to more serious injuries next time.

    There is another reason why it is not recommended to meet, even if you have broken up, even if you say goodbye, it will not necessarily change this fact, why bother, it is better to leave a good impression in each other's hearts, and after the breakup, you still go to see your ex, or trek to see your ex, in my opinion, it is not simple, and it may lead to the disgust of the other party, it is better to cut it in two, not to meet, after all, a qualified ex should be like dead.

    But if you still want to redeem it, you feel that the two of you still have a future, and if you can go on after redemption, it's okay to see each other, and you can also rush bravely.

    Long-distance relationships are mostly communicated by typing and messaging.

    Therefore, when faced with each other's quarrels, the way of sending messages on mobile phones cannot fully express their meaning, nor can they accurately convey their emotions, and there is no way to use a few simple words to appease each other's emotions, and the situation will get worse and worse.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    1.Although it is a long-distance relationship, love is in love, love is also in love, it is good to break up well, when you are in love, you get together less and leave more, the biggest problem of long-distance relationship is to lose to distance, the maintenance cost of love is high, the relationship can not be maintained efficiently, the problem that can be solved when you are together has become a problem in a long-distance relationship, this is the normal state of love, but here in a long-distance relationship, most of the time you have to rely on reason to judge the relationship, to believe what the other party says, and to have faith.

    2.People are lonely and vulnerable, and people need to have a reliance at this time, a person who can be "messed around" and can be bullied, but here in long-distance relationships, this part is missing most of the time, and I have also seen long-distance relationships finally achieve positive results, both parties are firmly determined to identify each other, and have something almost obsessive to hold onto, but most long-distance relationships can't escape the certainty of cracks in the end, which is in line with human nature.

    3.The long-distance relationship has broken up, you still have thoughts to meet, the effect will be much better, you can have a beginning and an end if you don't have a thought, say goodbye well, fill in the "regrets" of the past at the end, and see you if you want to see it, there is nothing that should not be done.

    4.I think it's better not to meet again, and if the long-distance relationship breaks up, don't meet. Even if we do meet, it won't change the final result, and it will make each other very uncomfortable.

    Break up when you say break up, don't have any hesitation and entanglement in this relationship, and don't have too many entanglements with each other, so that the rotten blind boy can end as soon as possible. Otherwise, meeting each other will only make each other unhappy and unhappy. Since we have all broken up, there is no point in meeting you in the gods.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    When we meet again after a breakup, it's one that we don't dare to look each other's eyesNormal

    This is the relationship between lovers yetCompletely cut offperformance. The deep affection generated by getting along day and night is not something that can be let go of it, it takes timeForgetIt takes a long time**

    If a pair of lovers don't meet again just after they break up, they can still look at each otherIt's like nothing happened。That's not normal, explainThey don't love each other deeply, and they don't care about each other

    I still think about each other in my heart, and I don't dare to look at each other directly, I should say yesI couldn't bear to look him in the eye。The eyes are the windows of the soul, and the eyes can best see a person's heart. After all, they loved each other deeply, and they still pretended to be each other in their hearts, and they didn't dare to face it.

    AfraidCan't hold back the tearsAfraidBring back memories of the past。Perhaps hiding is the best option, to keep your mind hidden for a while.

    Resentment in the heart, yesDon't look at each other's eyes。Having come to the point of breaking up, the relationship must have been hurt. Whether it's empathy, treachery, or disparate pursuit.

    Anyway, if you have a grudge in your heart, you can't open your heart to communicate, so you won't look each other in the eyesHolding back the anger in his heart, he was afraid that he would accidentally burn

    Both sides have been relieved, and they will not look into each other's eyes if they see it. Since we broke up, we have to divide it cleanlyI don't want anything to happen anymore and the revival of old feelings。The feelings that were finally forgotten can no longer be let into his heart.

    When you meet again after breaking up, you don't dare to look at each other's eyes, you can't bear to look at each other's eyes, and you don't want to look at each other's eyes. People who are not saints and sages can be ruthless, and they break upLet this love be buried in your heart, don't go into each other's lives again, don't entangle each other anymore, and let that love go away with the wind

    People have feelings, no matter how deep the feelings are hidden, the eyes can betray you. The most effective communication is the communication of the heart, which is through the transmission of eye contact. If you don't want to face it for the time being, you can dodge it, after all, it isHuman nature

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is no need to see each other again after a long-distance relationship breakup, because the result is already doomed, and meeting again will only add to the annoyance and is meaningless. My personal experience tells you that after a long-distance relationship breaks up, you will never get along, and it is best to break it cleanly.

    My first love and I were college classmates, he was my senior, two levels of college, so I was still in school after he graduated and worked, although we are in a province, but not a city, it is a typical long-distance relationship.

    Maybe it's because both of them are young and don't know how to manage feelings, plus he belongs to the kind of person who doesn't know how to care about me, so there is less and less communication between us, and he will not even send me a message for more than a week, if I don't take the initiative to contact him, he won't take the initiative to contact me, which makes me very annoyed, I don't feel like I'm in love, his cold violence and attitude made me completely dead, so I proposed to break up, and he didn't have any reservations, and we broke up peacefully.

    At the beginning, I was still very disappointed, after all, I was disappointed by so much pay, and he was so indifferent that I was extremely disappointed, but after a while, he took the initiative to contact me again, and suddenly became enthusiastic, and later I learned that he was coming to my city on a business trip, and wanted to see me, maybe I still didn't completely let go, I chose to meet him, and later he told me what happened after his work, how difficult it was, apologized to me, explained, and hoped that I would give him a chance, and we would start again.

    I thought he had a change of heart and wanted to change himself and be good to me again, but I was really naïve, it is impossible for people to change themselves all at once, he returned to work and was still the same, he didn't call me **, didn't send text messages, and even forgot my birthday, which made me know that it was all my own wishful thinking, self-inflicted, and I shouldn't forgive him once he came, so it's not worth it.

    So if you break up in a long-distance relationship, you will never see each other, give yourself a decent breakup, and also retain some self-esteem.

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Tell you a way, in these 2 years, you have to hold a few chess pieces tightly in your hands, provided that you are also a little interesting to those chess pieces, in case she agrees after 2 years, it is naturally the best, if she is unwilling, you at least have chips in your hands, and you will not become emotionally free (there are many ways to choose, so naturally you don't have to find a way), although this method is a bit treacherous, but it is a method with the best chance of winning, if you don't do it, then you can guarantee that during this time, Did she meet a better one, but still waiting for you?