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Marriage is like climbing a mountain, I always feel that this mountain is not as high as the other mountain, and I am tired of running around for several years, and sometimes I still feel that it is better to be in place. The choice is inevitable, but, it's better to be realistic, a perfect marriage is only in legends, operas or movies, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, every family is like this, there are very few people who don't have to be a wife after all, I wish you all the best and all the best.

Hello dear landlord.

I don't think you want to take it in your heart!!

Man is his own, not someone else's.

Take control of your own destiny.

If you really do, it's over.

I think you're going to lose a lot of happiness!

The first is the quarrel after marriage.

And the heart of someone you really love!!

Think about it. You can't put your happiness aside because of external factors!

Then you are too great!

If you say that, ten out of ten people will persuade you not to get married, which is the best policy.

Don't force yourself, even if you get married, can you let go of him? Decide for yourself, others can't help you, either forget about him and get married and live with peace of mind, or give up the marriage and confess to him, choose one of the two.

I'll tell you a story, it's been a long time, and I remember a little vaguely, so let's give me a rough idea.

A young man once asked God what love was, and God gave him an axe and said that in this pine forest, if you cut down the tallest and biggest pine tree and give it to me, I will tell you, but you can only go forward and not look back. The young man set out with his axe in high spirits, and found a very tall tree, which he wanted to cut, but then he thought that I had just begun, and that there might be a taller and bigger tree behind him, so he gave up. And so on and so on until he walked the whole woods, and came back empty-handed in frustration, and God said that this was love.

The young man then asked God what marriage was, and God told him to do the same thing and then tell him. With the experience of the last time, this time the young man quickly came back from cutting down a tall and big pine tree, and God told him that it was marriage.

In fact, sometimes we have missed a lot of picks and chooses, and we want to have both. Too many concerns are considered, often obscuring the real thoughts.

Back to the point, let's assume that if you get rid of your current boyfriend and be with the one you liked at the beginning, and he knows that you are close to getting married and you miss the appointment to be with you, what will he think, will he feel that he is a third party? You just like each other, you really want to live together, and some not-so-good habits of each other's habits and hobbies will see the light of day, can you still have such a good impression of each other at that time, and be determined to be together in the future. On the contrary, if you regret returning to your first boyfriend, I hope he will continue to marry you regardless of his previous suspicions?

Not all good things in the world can be touched.

It's up to you to find the answer.

Wishing you happiness!

In fact, marriage is very realistic, after a long time, there is no love when you and me, the other party's family, work is to be considered, you first determine whether you and the boy you originally liked is still possible, in the measurement of whether there is more suitable than him, if you are older, you should think clearly, if you are still young, there is still a chance, don't lose the watermelon and lose the sesame seeds.

Strive for your own happiness, or you will regret it later, and you will wait until you get married before getting divorced???

Marriage is like doing business, it is free, if you find out and don't come, let it be early, so as not to regret it, you say.

Let's not end it. Happiness is your own, and your family can't worry about you for a while. And a bad marriage is a lifelong worry for yourself. In addition, happiness is fought for by yourself, why can't you be thick-skinned? Don't hesitate any longer, it will be more difficult to drag it out.

That means you're not ready to think about it before you end it so that you don't regret it in the future.

It is possible to file for divorce. There are two options for divorce, the first is a divorce by agreement, and the second is a divorce by litigation.

As opposed to litigated divorce, divorce by mutual agreement is a simple and quick way. As long as both parties agree to the divorce and reach an agreement on issues such as property distribution, debt sharing, child support, etc. Both men and women need to bring their respective marriage certificates, household registers, ID cards, divorce agreements, ** and other materials to the civil affairs bureau where either party's household registration is located to register for divorce.

If one party wants to divorce and the other party does not agree to divorce, it can only be divorced by litigation, which takes a long time and the procedure is complicated, and if there is no statutory divorce, such as domestic violence, abandonment, abuse, drug abuse, gambling, bigamy, imprisonment, emotional discord and separation for more than two years, physical defects or illness, etc., the possibility of divorce by the court is very small, and it takes six months to conduct a second lawsuit to divorce the marriage.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1076:Where both husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1079:Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly initiate divorce proceedings in the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife.

Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

There are two types of people who want to divorce less than a year after receiving the license:

1. In the case of divorce by agreement, both parties reach an agreement on children, property and debts, and voluntarily apply to the marriage registration authority at the place where one party is registered;

2. In the case of divorce by litigation, the party who wants to divorce shall prepare a divorce petition and marriage certificate, and the evidence proving the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife shall be filed with the court of the other party's domicile.

Litigation Divorce Process.

The plaintiff needs to file a lawsuit with the people's court at the defendant's domicile (place of household registration) or place of residence (where he has lived in an area other than the place of household registration for more than one year) to file a lawsuit with the people's court to make a judgment for divorceFor divorces that can be accepted by the marriage registration authorities, the parties can also go directly to the court to file a lawsuit, but only one of the two ways can be chosen. To sue for divorce in the court, the parties should first submit the "Civil Complaint" to the court, which should indicate the litigation claims, facts and reasons for the divorce.

After receiving the complaint, the people's court shall file the case within 7 days, notify the parties, and send a copy of the complaint to the defendant within 5 days of filing the caseThe defendant filed a reply within 15 days from the date of receipt. The above is the content of the lawyer's answer for you, do you understand?

According to the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China, if the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration with the marriage registration authority in person. Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may mediate, or they may directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.