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It's a mess, there's no clue, the main contradiction is your father, and you only mention your mother briefly, there must be a lot of stories in it. The problem is not a day, and it is naturally not a solution that can be solved in one sentence. Find a counselor to do a systematic psychological consultation.
Seeing that you should be an adolescent child, everything will pass, and these questions of yours will find answers in your later life. I was also young, and I was also angry. Good luck.
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I'm not a psychology teacher, but I'm interested in becoming a psychologist.
What questions you want to ask.
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I don't know how your father taught you these things, but you will think of the bad things that your father taught you when you are doing the questions, it can be seen that you think of your own absurd past when you are learning good things, you feel guilty in your heart, and then excuse yourself, it is someone else who calls me like this, and then it will be very your father, in fact, this is not right, your father taught you this Western thing is of course wrong, and you always think about these things in your heart are also incorrect, communicate with your father, Tell me about your troubles, see what he says, your father must not know your current troubles, talk to him like two masters. Depending on what he says, maybe you'll be able to untie the knot in your heart after you talk, and if you still hate your father, think of other ways.
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First of all, this 55-year-old man should have a wife and children, right? Generally, a man with family affairs has evil thoughts at this age, which means that his thinking is very bad, and it is very important to be a teacher, so that a teacher with a bad heart will cut off the future of the student. His children are at least 30 years old (older than his students), and his wife will not allow him to do such a thing outside (knowing that the consequences are serious, his wife will be separated).
Secondly, Does this 21-year-old schoolgirl not have a boyfriend at school? Although I am not optimistic about campus love (generally after graduation, they will go their separate ways, leaving good memories and a touch of sadness), I still support that the age difference between the two parties in love should not be more than 8 years old, the teacher is 34 years older than her, and is it voluntary or forced for girls to tolerate the old man taking advantage? If it is voluntary, it means that she has no opinions, she doesn't understand proper ethics, she went to college in vain, if she is forced, she should shout "indecent", the school is full of people, don't be afraid.
Hurry up and end this unclear teacher-student relationship, grasp the present, look forward to the future, there are still decades to go ahead, don't leave a disgraceful stain in your life, that will affect your mentality, wake up immediately, and live a normal life.
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Hello, willing to help you.
I think, in fact, you already know the psychology of this teacher very well, but you just need someone to confirm your thoughts, despicable and talented, willing to be this truth-telling person. Let's use a word to elaborate.
1. Ambiguity. I think this is an indisputable fact, a teacher, a teacher of such an age, using such sentences to talk to students, or even ridicule, should be a betrayal of teacher ethics and ethics.
Second, tangled. I think this teacher and student should be very entangled, one will retire immediately, the other is still young, one teacher, one student, one is looking down on the stage, and the other is looking down from below, it is very uncomfortable, but how can they be together?
3. Distance. This word is more said to this girl, if this girl can stay away from this teacher, if this girl finds that the teacher's behavior is a little inappropriate, can think of self-respect, and can immediately get out of the whole body, she may not hear so many words she doesn't want to hear.
Fourth, fame and fortune. Over the years, I have seen and experienced too many similar things (I myself also work in colleges and universities), Professor Shou, why can I take advantage of female students, in the final analysis, girls have to ask for others, for fame, for grades, for promotion, for staying in school, and young female teachers are for promotion.
5. Fade out. I don't know what this victim thinks, how can there be so much worship, worship can be put in the bottom of the heart, not on chuang.
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This is a wise teacher.
He must genuinely like it, but he also knows the future, so he takes a controlled act to express his affection without causing overt distress.
He is enjoying the process of his own giving, and does not expect a result, which is a bit like the ignorant love when he was young. But the teacher knows what it is.
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The teacher is trying to be psychological, the student will take advantage of you if he is willing, get married, you are 30 and he is 60, you go out to play with friends, he can't get along, you are 40 and he is 70, you have to support him old. You 50 and he 80. If you don't get married, just prevent him from pestering you all the time after graduation.
Students are excited to be noticed, to know what to expect, and to be hurt by what will happen next. Curiosity killed the cat. The choice is in the hands of the student.
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Creation, the teacher is too sexually depressed.
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