How to be able to be capable 20, how to be able to be capable

You can find more things to do, it doesn't matter how well you do it, what matters is to experience the process of thinking about dealing with things, and the process of analyzing things ......It's best to find someone close to you, and you won't be blamed if something doesn't go well. Or find some logical reasoning questions to think about, find the feeling of using your brain, it will be useful ......Come on!

This is all a little bit of exercise, everyone has a clumsy time at the beginning, take your time, go out more to participate in group activities, interact with people more, and it will be slowly.

Learn mathematics, it can make you have strong logical thinking

The first is the mentality, and the second is the way to dress and talk to others.

So first of all, change your appearance, for example, change your hairstyle, and remember that your bangs don't cover your eyebrows.

We must do more, experience more, contact more, and experience more.

Communicate with others.

To change from the inside to the outside, to borrow a phrase from the martial arts world, it is "to practice a breath of qi inside, and to practice muscles and bones outside".

Externally, the first thing you have to do is your appearance, dress appropriately, be stable and fashionable. Then I have to exercise my body's endurance: my personal exercise method is (and I still do it), get up at four o'clock in the morning in the cold winter (this is the coldest time), put on clothes and walk outside in the cold wind for one and a half to two hours, and be prepared for the kind of pain that seems to be cut by a razor.

But at the beginning, you have to do what you can, don't be reckless, otherwise you will freeze and shock outside in the deep winter, and there will be few people on the road during that time, and no one will know if you die. In the summer, when the heat is hot, I would carry a backpack with two bricks and a few bottles of ice water and walk outside for an hour. When you can't stand the heat, be sure to drink ice water, so bring enough.

Of course, we must do what we can, and we must not be reckless in making jokes about our own health or even our lives. In fact, even if it is only ten minutes a day, it is okay, and it is important to persevere.

Then there is the inward, to be more mature when dealing with others, and to learn to think from the perspective of others. Speak concisely, briskly, but appropriately. Don't be muddy when making decisions, be decisive.

You must also dare to bear and deal with the consequences of every decision you make.

If you practice in this way for a long time, everyone will say that you are very capable and capable.

You should do this aspect of the business, and this kind of work can hone a person.

This bar has to be honed, as long as you learn to be decisive and rational.

The smart dictionary explanation is.

Proficient and competent; Talented and experienced.

A capable person is the first of all.

Possess a certain excellent skill and be able to apply it skillfully to the job, and give the impression of being wise and confident.

To do this, we must first work our own profession to be the best in the industry, and our internal strength is fundamental.

Secondly, in terms of language expression, he abandoned the style of verbose and hesitation, and spoke concisely and eloquently.

Again, in relationships, too.

Eight-sided exquisite, but neither humble nor arrogant, nor flattering.

Finally, you have to think a little bit about your personal image, and a delicate and simple hairstyle and a generous and well-fitting formal dress will also add a lot of points to you.

I don't like to be too stupid, and I don't like women who don't have the ability to think like more elegant, smart, and good-hearted.

Modern society offers more and more opportunities for women to succeed, and there are many examples that show that women are not inferior to men in some areas. The prerequisite for success must be to have the qualities of success, first of all, excellent professional knowledge, other things such as a cool head, careful analytical skills, the ability to control and grasp the situation, a convincing way of doing things, the ability to react quickly, and the ability to protect yourself in a stealthy and cunning way, and of course, special means to cater to certain people.

A real strong woman, as long as a title, as long as a title, is not a real strongman, for women, this kind of high-level vanity is very easy to lead out of a road full of regret.

Try to do everything yourself, don't rely on others, have your own principles for doing things, don't flinch when you encounter difficulties, don't shed tears easily, be generous and pay attention to dress, and let others feel that you are a strong woman when you see yourself

Push yourself to do what you don't really want to do!!

Being able to do things is actually a good habit, as the saying goes, "It's better to get used to it than to be good.""。Being able to do things is also a correct concept, and only the right concept can have the right behavior.

The cultivation of ability is actually the cultivation of one's own heart. The requirement of competence is more than the requirement of self-maturity. To be competent, you need to be firm in your heart, and here are some ways to help you:

1. Mobilize all your energy.

Do your best to do things, a lot of things, concentrate on doing them, and don't let others be distracted; Complex things, simple to do, this simple is to solve the main matter; Simple things, do them seriously, the simpler they are, the easier it is to ignore, and the more vigilant they are; Troublesome things, simply to do, trouble is often ** "people.""We must do it according to our own principles and not burden ourselves too much, because we cannot satisfy everyone.

As the saying goes, "Wait hard and you will get something."", although there is a "wait for the rabbit.""But even if they do get something, it's just a remnant of those who arrived early. The people in charge always arrive on time, and even more so the capable people, who are not only early but also energetic, and who are always ready and give their all, no matter how personal feelings, circumstances, or challenges at hand.

2. Keep improving.

The inner standards of all capable people are getting higher and higher as they develop, they are constantly seeking new knowledge, they are constantly growing, they are constantly improving, they know what to do, why they are doing it, and they are constantly looking for better ways. Knowing what to do is just a worker, knowing why to be successful.

3. Pursue excellence.

Capable people demand thoroughness in their work, and they demand that they are satisfied and others are satisfied, rather than just finishing. The pursuit of excellence and long-term perseverance is really a manifestation of willpower, which comes from a high degree of determination and hard work. As leaders, we expect our subordinates to do their best, but in fact, our subordinates expect their leaders to be thorough.

A truly capable person always takes one step more than ordinary people, and passing is far from enough. One of my division commanders is over 70 years old, and he often travels to and from many countries around the world to deal with various affairs, and he never tires of it. He always told me that he could do better, and that spirit made his career.

Whenever I have the idea of retreating, I can't help but feel ashamed when I think of my division commander. Now some of us have succumbed to the mentality of gradually losing support, and we don't want to make a difference, just want peace of mind, and these people are being struck by themselves. Xiaofeng, you and I are now at the most beautiful and energetic age of our lives, and we should do better.

5. Motivate your partners.

Highly capable leaders not only achieve excellence themselves, but also inspire and motivate their peers, and true leaders should fully demonstrate their work and contributions.

You yourself said that doing things neatly and neatly is capable, of course, what you do should have results, so that people can feel your efficiency; Don't do things that go against the rules or common sense, so as not to provoke criticism. And it is also very important to be assertive, do it according to your own ideas, and the effect is obvious, the effect is remarkable, that's right, anyway, I am often praised as a capable person, my feeling is like that, simply neat, assertive and not contrary to common sense, and do things with immediate results.

Speak loudly, do rough work, talk to people more, and participate in group activities.

Don't hesitate to deal with things at the right time.

Be confident and believe in yourself.

I think that to be more motivated, you need to know what you are working on.

However, I think how to motivate yourself depends on your own situation.

One: I am working hard, but I am tired and out of energy.

Then go find what you want to do the most, and feel that you will feel better when you do it, so that when you are in a good mood, you will think that you should continue to work hard.

Two: I didn't work hard, but I just seemed to do a lot of things, but I didn't start.

In that case, it should be that you don't have a goal yet, so go find your own goal, think about what you will work for, how you will work hard, etc., I really didn't think of it, just do what you like to do first; Or if the goal is too big, then think about how you can start small to achieve your goal.

Sometimes the goal is big, and the pressure will be great, depending on whether the pressure pushes or hinders you, measure and measure by yourself and then set the goal

Finally, I hope you can live every day well, every day is precious, and time is youth.

In this way, if you want to be made clean by others, you must have ideals and goals, and only in this way can you be motivated, motivated, and successful.

If you become motivated, then what you do must be interesting to you and earn more.

Think about wives and children, think about a good life, think about old parents. That's what drives me.

Find the goals you need most and learn more about yourself.

Find a goal to work towards or enjoy what you're doing.

Think of what you want, who you want to meet, and where you want to go.