The future mother in law asked us to register, what should we do when the future mother in law comes

It doesn't matter if you love this man, do you think this man is worth entrusting your life? As for the ideas of some old people, don't resist if you don't understand, they are actually not easy, but also for their children, they may be a little selfish but people are not bad, more tolerance and respect, so that they will get along with each other well, and if you have any negative thoughts, you can directly say it to your husband-to-be, I believe you will have a happy result!

It's up to you whether you want to register or not, and it's not something that others say you have to go to if you want to register. If you don't think it's appropriate, just don't do it. If you think that your boyfriends take advantage of you and you continue to drag on with each other, it is just that you have made yourself worthless.

And what is the legendary red envelope == which tradition comes from? Why do you have to give red envelopes? People nowadays are really messed up, and when they see someone's family, they think they have to have it, and then make it a legend?

There are a lot of things you can not do, no one forces you, and you do certain things to make a good impression, don't you? Why do you have to go out of your way to catch the wind? If people think they're going to eat you, there's no need to do so much for you, right?

Some of you put yourself in the right position in advance, and then talk about other people's attitudes towards you. As soon as you enter the door, people will be decided, and it is stupid not to take advantage of you, right?

Marriage is not a one-sided affair, and no one can make the decision alone.

First, the parents of both parties meet, set a marriage, discuss marriage, bride price, etc. Just go and register. Be ready for anything!

I fainted, the first time I went to my mother-in-law's house, it was a world of difference, so I could make a red envelope, but I personally feel that this is also according to local customs, but it is not as outrageous as you. My seniors, who have been married for three years now, tell you a word: It is better to find a good husband than to find a good mother-in-law.

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are permanent topics.

It is better to make it clear before registering.

The mother-in-law is a practical person, alas!

It's really embarrassing for you, I think your husband should be able to help you.

It's not about helping you fight with your mother-in-law about anything, but about saying something useful and not hurtful at the right time.

For example, when her mother asks how much it costs to get an intravenous drip without asking about your body, he can say: Thanks to her health, she didn't spend more than twice as much as us like anyone else; When she thinks you don't have a job and are afraid that you don't have enough money to spend, he can say: If people don't have an accident, are you afraid that you won't find a job?

He has two houses of his own, so he doesn't have to worry about running out of money to spend...

It doesn't have to be said like this, but in this case, his words are ten times more powerful than yours. He also knows his mom better than you know and knows how to speak.

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the son plays a great role, communicate well with your husband, talk about your troubles and doubts, and let him help you. As long as he doesn't complain, he should listen. Judging by your account, he cares about you.

There is another sentence that you may not like to hear: women should be dedicated, but not endlessly, and it is based on being respected. If your husband is unwilling to help you or is weak, and your mother-in-law's attitude towards you remains unchanged, you need to consider whether the effort is worth it.

After all, a woman's youth is short, and it is understandable to think more about her own happiness. Your happiness is also the happiness of your parents. Think about it.

May the problem be solved as soon as possible and be relieved from the troubles.

What you're not doing right is that you shouldn't be with this man, what are you trying to do! I think I can't find this kind of good thing to find a divorced old man, and I also pay for your husband to buy a house, I think I can't find this kind of good thing with a lantern, I wish you a good thing to find a man and raise a family. I'm really not worth it for you.

Are you looking at your husband's maturity? I want to laugh when I think about it, will a mature man let his wife be angry and still be like this? The wife is used for pain, not an ATM. You've all worked, and you still don't understand a truth? Good men have.

Your mother-in-law looks down on rural people, what right does she have to look down on that? There are people who are promising, and there are.

If I were you, I wouldn't want such a home, and such a man would not be worth paying.

Silly girl, sometimes grievances can't be satisfied. If you really want to suffer less grievances, either leave or be strong. I think your mother-in-law bullies the weak and fears the hard. But my advice is, get out of the way.

Why don't you say it, then you should be angry, despised. Despise...

To be honest, I am not optimistic about you, because there will be too many contradictions in the future, and your mother-in-law is a snob, and she is afraid that her son will suffer a loss, so she will manage too much, not because you are from somewhere. Generally, there will be conflicts after marriage if there is no contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law before marriage, not to mention that there is a contradiction before marriage.

You're only 21, your husband is 34, and your mother-in-law still dares to look down on you? Ask your mother-in-law to pick up her treasures and go over by herself.

Your mother-in-law is a money-seeker...

The problem is with your husband.

The key to the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law depends on the man in the middle.

Normal, don't be pretentious, be natural, just treat your mother-in-law like a mother.

I don't really understand, is it on your first Valentine's Day with your boyfriend, you and your future in-laws went to pick out the decoration together? And then you may have had some plans for Valentine's Day before, so you're upset? And then your future mother-in-law misunderstood that you were afraid of bitterness and too squeamish, so she was unhappy?

If so, you just don't deserve it. Originally, the old man ** knew what Valentine's Day was, and I didn't know what your plans were. Of course, you can be unhappy about the things that were originally planned, but because of such things, you think of the problem of compromising or not compromising Chun Zheng limbs in the future?

I think that many TV dramas now play too many contradictions in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and most of the pants are stubborn, strong, and doting on her son, etc. In reality, there are not so many things! In fact, everyone can change their perspective, when you become a mother-in-law in the future, what will happen to you, will there be so many problems?

Or maybe you go even further?

If you don't know how to express it, let's be clear!