What does it mean for me to get along with my boss like this?

There is something strange about this question. You are a newcomer to the company, and it stands to reason that a newcomer does not know much about the work process, so why does he have to call you?

There are two explanations for this, one is that he looks up to you quite a lot and is interested in promoting you; The second is that he likes you and wants to have more contact with you. But from your description, he is a decent person and has a girlfriend, so the second is unlikely! Here, I give you a piece of advice:

You start by observing his relationship with his girlfriend. The reason why you do this is because you say you like him now. If he doesn't have a good relationship with his girlfriend, you should know the outcome.

If they have a good relationship, then he is only out of your ability to promote you, so you should get rid of this relationship as soon as possible, if you are afraid that you will not be able to control it in the future, it is best to refuse, stay away from her!

In there, it should be noted that people should not be like, and the sea water should not be measured. Don't blindly like someone, see if he is someone you deserve to like, take the time to see!

You are a recent graduate, very simple and kind, willing to help others, that's why he doesn't ask others for help: if he does, he doesn't necessarily help.

Even if it is cheap labor, but it is not completely said that you are doing things for him in vain, people should still accumulate more popularity in society, you help him, he will not help you when you need help and he can do it, so in principle, there is no problem and your own work is not affected in the case that you can help him.

One day he will help you when you need help.

Don't refuse when you can help others, and when you are in trouble, a helping hand will come from all directions.

And you said you like him, don't. You are a little girl who has just graduated, he is a man who has been in society and love for a long time, not to mention a girlfriend, you should take care of it as soon as possible, and help him as an accumulation of popularity! Little girls must not have too many illusions about men.

If he has a girlfriend, then you are cheap labor. If he doesn't have a girlfriend, then he has a crush on you. So you have to think twice, if you think that you don't have anything big to do anyway, even if you help a friend, you can also make a friend and lay the foundation for the future.

He may want you to be his second wife. Don't be fooled.

The second floor is right. A girl's family should pay more attention to society.

Refuse. Newcomers must learn to say no.

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<> "Sporadic quotes, get along with your boss.

1. Think about how to get along with your boss.

To really know and understand the boss. Including the boss's handling style, work habits, specialties and hobbies, etc. At the same time, we need to respond to and avoid saying the wrong thing, doing the wrong thing, and making low-level mistakes.

Learn to listen and adapt to your boss. When the boss speaks, don't grab the talk, listen to what he says, what he asks, and then think about how to adapt to the requirements of splitting Zen.

Have a positive work attitude and the ability to solve problems on your own. Show a positive attitude and confidence in the things arranged by the boss, and at the same time work hard to solve the problems one by one, and show the ability to complete the tasks independently.

Give your boss an image of sincerity and reassurance. In front of the boss, you must be true to your word, and the promised things must be completed on time so that the boss can trust the boss, so that the boss will consider your opinions and give you big things with confidence and boldness.

Keep an appropriate distance from your boss. No matter how good your boss is to you, you must clearly realize that you are not buddies and brothers, you can't sit on an equal footing, keeping a distance is a must, and you must not get carried away, otherwise sometimes you won't be able to eat and walk around.

You have to give up the work of showing up to your boss. The boss has a high grade and strong strength, which is good for your work, and at the same time, the boss also sees that you are not taking credit, is very sensible, and has rules, which will naturally be very beneficial to you in the future.

2. Don't be too public.

Generally speaking, people who don't have a little ability don't dare to publicize, and most of the people who love publicity, most of them have half a bottle of water, a little clever and little wisdom, otherwise they can't publicize it, and they can't show off their love for publicity.

The most serious consequence of publicity is that he exposes himself prematurely, gets involved in competition, becomes an opponent of others, or even a clear target, which will inevitably cause potential passivity. Originally, there was something that could be obtained, or deserved, but there may be a boiled duck that flies, not only can not get it, but if it is not done well, it will be fallen into the well and become an innocent victim. Really smart people do things to the best of their ability, and put their talents and abilities in the ordinary and normal.

3. The most regrettable thing about speaking is that I don't know how to speak, and I have been confused for a lifetime, first of all, I didn't learn Mandarin well, and I spoke too lamely, which affected communication very much, but this is only secondary. The main thing is that there are many things that should be said, not what should be said, but what should not be said. It's not specific, it's not in place, it's not flavorful enough.