Why is it said that through a person s attitude towards things, we can know the person s temperament

Many things can be seen from the small, people need a certain amount of experience to be able to see the essence of the problem through the phenomenon, so many years I have summed up an experience, that is, in front of the interests of people's inferior nature has nowhere to hide, interests are the most test of human nature. For example, when a good friend of yours is with you, you can see whether he is selfish or wants to share when facing interests, and you will know whether he is a worthy friend or not. Now that the conversation has been opened, let's talk about a particularly interesting thing, which is a funny little episode between me and my friend, which can reflect on what kind of inner world a person really has.

Due to the epidemic, most of the time is at home, the office has also moved to the home, I happen to have a little cold, sitting on the sofa with a notebook in the office, my friend also came to my house at this time to join in the fun, he sat next to me while watching TV, while eating fried chicken, his fried chicken bucket was placed next to my computer, while eating chicken legs, while smirking and watching TV, I think it is a little annoying, but I can't say anything, after all, this is my good friend, suddenly felt a little uncomfortable nose and wanted to take a piece of paper to blow his nose, so my hand crossed his fried chicken bucket to get the paper to smoke, then the embarrassing side appearedMy friend took the opportunity to put his hands on his fried chicken bucket, the two of us looked at each other but were speechless, there was a lot of information at the time, I was reflecting what he meant by holding the fried chicken bucket with both hands, and he was also thinking about how to make this scene not embarrassing.

Then we were silent, and I didn't say anything, because I knew that he was afraid that I would rob him of his fried chicken, and the other party didn't say anything in the end, because he still had a chicken leg in his mouth. This thing is really embarrassing, but it also reflects a truth, when facing interests, human nature is selfish.

To sum up, we can really see a person's temperament through one thing, just look at how he treats interests.

It is true that we can know what a person's personality is through what they do, which is also because when we do things, we will bring our own emotions and personality characteristics.

Everyone has his own way of doing things, and his attitude towards doing things can completely understand the real world in his heart, because his actions, words and deeds represent the temperament of this person.

A person's way of doing things or attitude can completely see what a person thinks in his heart, or through such things he can read the other person's heart.

Because a person's attitude towards doing things can show the person's values, and it will also reflect the person's character, so through a person's attitude to do things, you can know the person's temperament.

Because a person's attitude towards doing things can fully reflect his personality, quality and behavioral habits. These can fully reveal what kind of person he is.

Because a person's temperament can be manifested through a small thing he does, and his attitude of doing a small thing can show his thoughts and his heart.

Because if he is a person who is very quick in doing things, then he must be a very diligent and positive person, not a person who shirks and is lazy.

Because everyone's attitude towards doing things is governed by his temperament, what kind of temperament has what kind of attitude, so you can see your temperament from your attitude.

Because a person's attitude towards doing things can actually reflect his personality and his living habits.

Personality is only one factor that determines fate (usually refers to a successful life), it does have a certain influence, such as the first impression, the civility of conversation, the control of emotions, and so on.

But fate is not the only corresponding amount of change in character, in fact, luck is very important in fate. In a sense, about half of a person's destiny is luck. And luck itself, not all arranged by God, why is your bad luck on the Internet today called "RP problem", "RP" refers to "character", then it is not difficult to understand that personality is also a factor that makes up luck.

For example, if you meet two equally outstanding people at a cocktail party, one is called An Niu and the other is An Yixuan, if the two of them come to compete for your company's image endorsement at the same time, who will you choose?

This is an example of how your fate is not determined by your personality, in the recruitment of many foreign companies (forgive me to use this more fairly), the hired people are often only found to fold very neatly such as origami, pick up paper balls and throw them in the trash, and speak very fluently, this is just their personality is serious and serious, caring for cleanliness, and responding to clear thinking.

It can be hard for you to realize how important personality is to yourself, but once you change to someone else's eye, it's not so casual, and the picky person tends to make your luck go down.

So I think that personality certainly affects fate, but since it can be changed for the better, no matter what, fate can always change.

Remember that the change of personality cannot be changed by external forces, you must start from within, read good books, be with noble people, do what you should do, and always remember your dreams, then, unconsciously, your personality has been imperceptibly changed qualitatively.

Different people, different personalities:

People who believe in fate wait, people who believe in opportunities look for, and people who believe in self open up.

This last word was rewritten when I was 14 years old, and I'm sure you can understand it.

Human beings are complex, and it is easy for us to judge the essence of others according to our own momentary needs and even our own emotions, but in fact, we often see either illusions or a dimension that is not very important. To sing the opposite, most people think that instead of learning how to look at character from small things, what we need to learn more is not to simplify and reduce the understanding of character.

Two days ago, my father (who is a psychopath) learned that I had been given several fluids in the hospital and had to come to see me (we mostly stayed at my husband's house). At noon on a hot day, he rode a little donkey and brought a large bag of grapes. Because he came here once before, as soon as he came, he ran to the toilet to wash his face, took my husband's towel to wipe his hands, and then took my towel to wipe his face.

After my dad left, my husband said that he had wasted a towel, and then changed the towel, and I couldn't get angry at that time, is it necessary, don't you have to be so serious, and there is no poison, isn't it still usable to wash it.

For example, there was a group photoshoot, all the people stood in place, and there was only one woman left, who couldn't find a place to stand directly in front of me and squeezed me away.

Passing by Guomao that day, it was the most prosperous section of Chongqing Road. A beggar begs on his knees. It's an old man with no lower limbs.

Crawl inch by inch. Passers-by were sideways and expressionless. I took out a dollar and threw it to the beggar.

Skillful movements. I hadn't walked a few steps when I saw a woman walking on the opposite side. Women are richly dressed and have exquisite makeup.

Very rich. She had just finished buying things from Guomao, and she had a large bag in her hand. When she walked up to the beggar, she stopped, trying to get the money, but she couldn't spare it.

The beggar "understandingly" lay on the ground and waved his hand, signaling the woman to leave. The woman suddenly squatted down, I thought she wanted to reprimand the beggar at close range, but I saw that she motioned to the beggar with her unfree hand and eyes to dig out her pocket! The beggar's hands were so dirty that they couldn't be dirtier, as black as if they had just picked up cinders.

But the woman just squatted in front of the beggar like that, and let the dirty hands dig out her personal pocket! The beggar took out a 10 yuan bill. A sly smile appeared on his face.

The woman stood up and hurried away. The guide snickered.

Yes, but the starting point of distinction is not to be demanding of others or to generalize about any shortcomings, the so-called clear view of people often refers to aspects related to character. Eating with a person, the relationship is good, and there is a kung pao chicken ordered. Then he used a chopstick to pull peanuts out to eat, and pulled diced cucumbers and diced chickens back and forth.

Since then, the perception has changed dramatically.

When I was still living in China, a friend who had known her for five or six years beat someone and cried and begged me to lend her 100 yuan for medical expenses. I didn't have any pocket money, so I only had more than 10 yuan left from the food bill, which I lent to her, and I borrowed 50 from others. I haven't been paid back for a year.

Through these things, it is more able to distinguish a person, when you are in trouble, he will give you charcoal in the snow, or when you are going well, will he pat your ass every day? What you can easily feel in your heart, through these things, you can vividly reflect a person's character and pattern. Therefore, when you meet someone who sends charcoal in the snow, you must know how to cherish it, and when you meet someone who is icing on the cake, don't offend them too much.