The two sons have just graduated from college, and the younger son is getting married, what can I do

This is a very real problem, reminds me of when I got married, in fact, many parents do not want to help their children, but they have given everything for their children, and they no longer have the ability to help their children get married and buy a house, as children should understand their parents at this time, you can not blindly ask, your request can only make your parents' later life more tired, a child with a long heart should rely on their own efforts at this time, those children who have reached the age of marriage blindly put forward various requirements to their parents, They are selfish, greedy, and a giant baby who has not grown up.

Now this era has changed, in the past few decades, people's desire for material things is not so strong, not all about money, but today it is completely different, you don't have a house may really be difficult to marry a daughter-in-law, my father used to always say to me to marry a daughter-in-law do you still need money? I've always disdained this idea in my heart, and I have 10,000 words waiting there in my heart, but I didn't say it for fear of being beaten, and you try it today, you still want to marry a daughter-in-law if you don't have money? My father said to me that if you grow up, if you are really good, you can marry a daughter-in-law if you have no money, and if you are nothing, no matter how much money you have, it will be useless, this sentence has some truth, but I still hope that my parents can help me when I get married, because young people are too difficult nowadays.

When I got married, my parents gave me 20,000 yuan and a small house of fifty or sixty square meters, and it was in a border town in the northeast, to be honest, this house was not even 100,000 yuan, but I didn't ask for anything more, I knew that he gave me everything he could. For those elderly people who don't have the money to marry their children, I don't think you need to carry too much psychological burden, you have already given your best to your children, do you still want to die?

To sum up, if the son wants to get married and has no money, then let the child work hard by himself, the law does not stipulate that parents must give the child the money to prepare for marriage, and secondly, the child grows up, and the children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren.

If you don't have money, you can only work hard to earn money, or the younger son won't get married first, and work for a few years first.

You can communicate with your youngest son first, tell him the actual conditions of the family truthfully, and hope that he can give himself some time and wait until he has enough financial conditions before getting married.

There are two sons, one has just graduated from college, and the younger son is about to get married, and he has no money, so he can only find a way to explain the situation of your family to your son.

I think the matter of getting married can be put on hold. Because there is no money, even if you get married, life will be very tight.