It s always unbalanced in my heart at home, I m unbalanced in my heart

Hello! From your description, I feel that you are a very understanding person, you are very diligent, and you are a person who likes to do more and does not like to talk more. If you do more to attract the attention of your family, but it backfires, and your family is used to your way of behaving, then if you can't achieve the effect you want, you will naturally appear in your current mental state of inner imbalance.

The current state is that the original mode of thinking is in conflict with reality. Then you need to change, you should think about what kind of expression will make your family pay attention to you? How can you express your thoughts euphemistically in your actions, so that your family members know your inner thoughts and tiredness?

Why do you want to clean up the dishes and chopsticks, first of all, because you feel sorry for your parents, and secondly, because you want to express yourself. So now express your initial thoughts, because if you have been in the mind for a long time, the family will get used to your way. Express it, and then do it, and the effect will be very different.

All you need to do now is think about how to express it, and you know how to express it!

I wish you to find your psychological outlet soon and be happy!

You're unbalanced, and as a sister, I'm not balanced. Why is there so many people in the whole family, there are people who go to work, support the family, and cook, so that you can leisurely let people go to school, wait for us to cook and eat, and let you wash the dishes and be aggrieved??? When I'm your age, washing dishes is the easiest job, and it's really tiring to help my mother take care of you, but I'm still willing to do it, because we're a family!!

It is also because of these things that I know how difficult it is for my parents to raise us, you have been doing some housework since you were 18 years old, and it has only been 3 years now, and your parents have raised us, how many years have you brushed the bowl? How tired are you? Do you only know how to complain and think about it for us in a different position?

Everyone should have a place for everyone, I wonder if you do other jobs less than them, they do other even heavier, more tiring work, in order to take care of your little sister, and leave the little work of cleaning chopsticks to you, if so, you should see their love for you.

When you get tired of doing it, you take a day off, and you say, ah, what's the relationship between being a family. You just said that you want to take the time to dry some other dishes and chopsticks today, and you won't wash them today. Isn't it good, isn't your mother still forcing you to finish washing?

Are you a boy If it's a boy, you should do more to love your sister ...

You have to do it at the earliest, who doesn't find a soft persimmon to pinch

I don't think you should have such an idea, you should think more about doing some good things and count Wang Lu, don't put too much pressure on yourself, communicate more with your family, and go home more to see the people in the house.

Many people pin too much hope on others, or rely on them completely, and if they can't meet their own needs, they will feel disappointed, frustrated, etc. In fact, everyone has their own ideas, strengths and weaknesses, and we don't have to ask others to take care of our own needs, this is to impose our own standards on others.

The college entrance examination is just a small step for you to enter life, it is too early to determine the winner, and there are many opportunities to reverse the defeat in the future, for example, you can take the postgraduate entrance examination and doctoral examination, and then you can choose a better school, and work hard after graduation with peace of mind.

1. Don't be too narrow about the definition of success, everyone's energy is limited, it is impossible to be excellent in all aspects, and there is no comparison between different people, do you think you are not good at Shanghai Normal School, then there are many who can't be tested, what should they do? You are you, unique, as long as you live in your own world and think you are wonderful, it is enough, 2, plan your life further, the college entrance examination is not the end, just the starting point, it is a good thing to be a small step behind when running a marathon, because following itself is a kind of strength.

Shanghai Normal University is also very good

Being admitted to a different university does not mean that the future fate is not as good as that of others Let's treat college for four years with a normal heart, and think about the people who come out of the three books and the people who have taken the birth.

Every parent wants their children to be better than others, and what they say about us only means that they are good to us, you have to understand.

Baby, you don't have to go to a prestigious university to have a way out, there are many roads in this world. If you feel that the road to your own success is always under construction, then you go to do the subway, and the road is your own, do you understand?

You're so fond of that! Actually, it's more jealousy! Everyone has a lifeline in the palm of their hand, so fate is in their own hands, everything has two sides, why can't you see this as another kind of favor from God! Let's open it.

If you feel sad, it means that you are very pursuing, but you don't seem to understand what you like, live for happiness, for dreams, you should go, pursue your dreams, let go of your jealousy and strong desire for fame and fortune, you will definitely be happy.

It is up to people to plan things, and it is up to heaven to make things happen.

There's no need to be so discouraged, the future is uncertain, why bother here now... It's best to do your role well.,Maybe you'll be better than him in the future.。。。 Don't overthink it ...