Am I asking too much, and what is too demanding?

Updated on society 2024-05-22
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It depends on what you think if you want him to wash it off or not, but don't ask for it if you think he loves you and you trust him and don't care about tattoos. If you are jealous and think that he is still thinking about the previous person, you can ask him to wash, which is not too much, and also through this you can see whether he really loves you, if he washes it can mean that he has forgotten the past, he loves you very much now, but don't be happy with a person who is easy to give up the past, do you have to think about it?

    If he doesn't wash, it means that he still remembers the people in the past, although this is a little unfair to you, but if he really loves you now, then you are going to burn high incense, you have met a wonderful man, a man who knows how to cherish the past, a man who is in charge, is not worthy of your love? Isn't it worth giving up the reason for him not to wash his tattoos?

    So it depends on how you judge. Because only if you have contact with him, you will not understand him for a long time, what we say is one-sided, and we can only put a few situations for you, and you can judge for yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Now that you know the requirements, of course it is excessive, to love someone is to believe in someone, you are not happy that they have a connection you can show. If he cares about you, he will gradually cut off contact with his original girlfriend, if he can't do this, it means that he may not have taken care of you in his heart, so you don't have to ask for this and there is nothing worthy of your love, but you also have to think that while asking others to do it, you must also do everything appropriately, and if you don't like it, bring it up. He will understand if he understands things, but I don't think it will end too well if he is tough!

    You tell me?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Not too much, wash it off! It has to be washed away, if he wants to be with you, he has to do it, if he refuses or has other excuses, it means that he is still in love, and this kind of person does not need to be with him. That's what I thought and that's what I asked my boyfriend to do anyway.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Sometimes, it's better to say it than to ask here.

    He'll wash it off, if you say it.

    If you don't say it, because of some thoughts in your heart, maybe he will keep it forever.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There is no need to wash, everyone has memories of the past, and this tattoo may also make him remember to cherish you! Do you want him to burn all his photos or lose his memory from the past? It is recommended to get another tattoo of your own on him, parallel to your heart!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    That's right. Tell him to wash it off. That's good. lest thou see it every day, and thy heart shall be uncomfortable. I support your approach.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Very reasonable request. If it were me, I would have asked for that too.

    Support you in doing so.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not excessive, normal. Tattoos are not as important as the people you love so you can wash them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's definitely not too much to ask, and it's very correct!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's best to talk to him.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Excessive demands are usually those that go far beyond normal expectations or are unreasonable. Here are some examples of requests that may be considered excessive:

    1.Financial: A relative asks for a large amount of money or money and does not provide a reasonable reason or plan to repay the loan.

    2.Accommodation: Moze relatives ask to stay at your home for a long time without prior consultation or disrespect for your privacy and space.

    3.Timing: Relatives frequently ask you to help them solve their problems without taking into account your own schedule and needs.

    4.Personal rights: Relatives ask you to do something for them that is illegal, immoral, or contrary to your own values.

    5.Mental stress: Relatives interfere excessively in your life and decisions, ignoring your wishes and autonomy.

    6.Ethical constraints: Relatives ask you to conspire with them to cheat, defraud, or harm others.

    It is important to emphasize that the above are just some possible examples and do not cover all scenarios. Determining whether a request is excessive requires a specific context, relationship, and values to be determined. If you feel that your relative's request is unreasonable or excessive, you have the right to protect your rights and seek a suitable solution.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If two people have a good relationship and are about to get married, but they can't talk about it because of the bride price, then see if the woman's demands are too high, and if the other party is not rich, then the demands are not too outrageous.

    Combined with the economic conditions of the other party.

    Every place has its own customs, just like the bride price, each place has an approximate price, but not everyone can afford it, if the man's economic conditions are not very good, but also have to combine the other party's conditions, can not be a bite to decide, here are all given so much, so it is not interesting.

    Recognize the other person's sincerity.

    For many girls, the amount of bride price is really not a condition for deciding whether to get married or not, but for fear that the other party will not be sincere. For example, if you want to take advantage of the woman's convenience, but you don't want to give it even if you have money, this kind of is too frightening, and if you really don't want the bride price, the man will say that you can't get married. Therefore, if the other party is sincere, it will not be difficult to talk because of the bride price.

    Don't get married for a while.

    The amount of bride price required is generally decided by the woman's parents, and it is only for the sake of the daughter's life that is somewhat secure after she marries. Therefore, if you have no money at all, and you can't even afford to pay the bride price, then your married life will be of no quality, and it is better not to get married for the time being.

    Work hard to earn money.

    For the time being, don't get married with wide socks, it's not that you won't get married, but you must first work hard to earn money, and when the conditions are ripe and you have money to support your expenses after marriage, it's not too late to get married. Of course, this income does not only refer to men, but also to women.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Excessive demands are a subjective concept, as everyone may have different opinions and values about what constitutes excessive demand. However, here are the requirements that I personally consider excessive:

    1.Excessive demands: Asking you to provide a large amount of financial support or financial assistance beyond your ability and willingness.

    2.Excessive demands for personal life interference: Asking you to organize your personal life according to their expectations and wishes, interfering in your private space and decision-making.

    3.Excessive demands that hurt your self-esteem key: Asking you to do things that go against your values or damage your self-esteem, such as ridiculing, insulting, or humiliating you.

    4.Excessive demands on excessive time and effort: Asking you to invest too much time and energy beyond your personal abilities and limitations.

    5.Unreasonable expectations and demands: Asking you to meet their unrealistic expectations, whether academically, professionally, or otherwise.

    6.Excessive shifting of responsibility: Asking you to take responsibility for what they would have been responsible for, both materially and emotionally.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Recently, the news that a cleaner uncle spent three months' salary to buy a mobile phone for his child has attracted a lot of attention, which has also caused related discussions. ......When a child wants something but asks for too many points, parents need to take appropriate measures to deal with it. ......Specifically, parents should meet the child's normal needs, parents should firmly refuse when the child makes excessive demands, and parents should point out the child's mistakes and help him correct them.

    1. For the legitimate requirements of the child, the parents should try their best to meet them.

    Every parent wants their children to grow up healthily, so they will spare no effort to nurture and educate their children. ......In the process, the child will also make corresponding requests. As long as these requirements are reasonable, parents should try to meet them so that their children can grow up healthy.

    2. If the child makes excessive requests, parents should resolutely refuse.

    Sometimes, the child's demands will be excessive, beyond the ability of the parents to bear, and beyond the child's own needs. ......In this case, parents should resolutely refuse to meet the child's unreasonable requirements. ......This will prevent children from making mistakes, and at the same time, it will also avoid the problem of parents spoiling their children.

    3. Parents should point out their child's mistakes afterwards and help him correct them.

    When the matter is over, parents need to take time to criticize and educate their child, on the one hand, point out his mistakes, and on the other hand, educate the child and help him correct his mistakes. ......Only in this way can the children be guided to the right path of growth, so that the children can grow up healthily, and parents will feel gratified.

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