Are relationships important during college?

Hello, I'm Zichen.

Relationships are important in college, but it's not the whole story.

University is a small society with students from all over the world. Some students began to join various clubs when they first entered the university, expanding their social circle, hoping to increase their future bargaining chips by meeting more people, they used almost all their free time to socialize with those so-called friends, and some students even skipped classes to maintain those interpersonal relationships. But is it really necessary to spend your precious time on it?

Work hard in your career to talk about "connections", and make "friends" when you are a student

First of all, you should understand the difference between "networking" and "friends", networking refers to the fact that your existence is meaningful to others, the existence of others is meaningful to you, and there is an equivalent exchange value for each other, and there are opportunities for win-win cooperation, which is the so-called mutual use. Some people receive a lot of business cards and add a lot of WeChat, but the name is not the same as the connection.

A true friend is someone who can help you when you are in trouble, share life experiences with you and grow with you.

In the college days, the relationship between friends around me is very simple, and there is not much purpose in the interaction between people, most of the people gather together because of their interests and hobbies, and they should cherish these friendships, which is a valuable asset.

Realize your own value first, and accumulate contacts.

It's important, relationships are important at all times.

College students are in an important stage of life growth, and interpersonal communication is one of the indispensable behaviors in their learning and life process. Through interpersonal communication, college students can exchange emotions, seek understanding, establish friendships, learn from each other, and improve life. Interpersonal communication has a direct impact on the mental health of college students and is of great significance.

Good interpersonal relationships are an important condition for the development and perfection of personality. The acquired environment has an important impact on the formation of a person's personality. If a college student lives in friendly and harmonious interpersonal relationships, his personality will be positively affected and he will become optimistic, cheerful and positive.

Under such interpersonal conditions, it is helpful for college students to improve their self-awareness and evaluation skills, so as to constantly adjust their behavior and improve their personality. At the same time, college students can learn the good qualities and mental outlook of others in the process of interpersonal communication, which is conducive to the formation of good qualities.

Good interpersonal relationships are a need for psychological development. Aristotle said, "He who can live alone is either a beast or God."

Without interpersonal communication, the human psyche cannot develop. College students have an urgent desire for interpersonal communication, and most of them are far away from their hometowns and relatives to study in other places, so it is easy to have a sense of loneliness and loss, and they also have to face the pressure and difficulties of daily study and life, which requires someone to talk to and get spiritual comfort. Good interpersonal relationships can help college students have a sense of belonging and security, and can obtain psychological satisfaction and happiness in their interactions with others, and gain friendship.

Good interpersonal relationships can promote the socialization process of college students. The socialization process of each person takes place in interpersonal communication, and interpersonal communication is the starting point of socialization. With the continuous expansion of their interpersonal communication, the increasingly diverse forms of communication, and the gradual deepening of the content of communication, college students will continue to accumulate social experience from communication, learn the necessary knowledge, skills, attitudes, etc., clarify their social responsibilities, and promote maturity, so as to lay a solid foundation for them to formally enter the society.

I think every college student has more or less doubts about the importance of interpersonal relationships in college. We often hear from our friends that university is a small society, and if you have to work hard to manage your relationships, these people will be good helpers in your future work.

So, are relationships really that important in college? Some people may think: in case any of my friends succeed in starting a business and becoming an elite in the future, they will be able to "hug their thighs" and have a shortcut to success. However, this shortcut is not an easy one.

When you were a student, our friendship was simple and not mixed with any impurities, and interpersonal relationships were the circle around you, with colleagues in your department, strangers with one-sided acquaintances, and classmates ......They may not be your friends, but more of a temporary partnership.

"If you bloom, butterflies will come", the fundamental factor that determines the quality of interpersonal relationships is your own value and resources. Without the "capital" of equality, no social interaction can be exchanged for useful interpersonal relationships. Relationships are real when you have enough skills.

There are a lot of friends on the face, and there are a few who can really help you when you encounter something.

How many confidants do people have in their lives? I think it can be several, one is work, one is life, and one is spiritual. It's just the feeling of self, and of course everyone thinks differently.

The first is at work, of course, it is a colleague who works with you all day long, before you did not work together may be no one, but there is a fate to work together, from the initial acquaintance to acquaintance, this is also a process, but also need a fate, if there is no fate to work together for a long time will not become a bosom friend, the confidant at work can share the happiness and unhappiness in your work, what can provide you with a lot of valuable advice in the unit, so that you can progress more smoothly in your work. Of course, a confidant at work can become a confidant in life, because after working together for a long time, many things are willing to be shared with her, so this kind of confidant is for life. But many people say that it is impossible to become close friends with colleagues at work, because of personal interests, but I don't think so, if you are a confidant at work, I think he will never worry about you because of work matters.

The second is life, in life in addition to colleagues, you will also have classmates, friends, classmates or friends with a long time of contact, you can become confidants, you can share all your happiness and troubles. From childhood to adulthood in a person's life, you will have many good friends at all stages of life, some may change over time, and the relationship will fade, but some friends will get closer and closer with the change. This kind of confidant can be similar to your personality or opposite to you, sometimes there may be little contact, but it is close in the heart.

The third is the spiritual friend, this kind of friend is hard to find, if you are lucky to meet this kind of confidant, it is your blessing. She knows you very well, probably better than yourself, she can give you an analysis of everything you have to do, whether it is life, work, psychology, she can give you a clear analysis. This kind of friend can be in real life, but it can be someone you have never met on the Internet, and you are willing to share it with her when you are happy or troubled!

So I think it's enough for me to have these three kinds of friends in my life!

1. Good interpersonal relationships are an intangible wealth, so we must have good interpersonal relationships with friends. Some people's success lies not only in their ability, but more importantly, in their sociability.

2. Interpersonal relationships make it easier for you to succeed in starting a business, they will push you on the way to start a business, so that you can develop faster and succeed faster, they will help you when you are in difficulty, and they will point you in the direction when you are overwhelmed.

3. Learning to deal with interpersonal relationships, being good at making friends, and being good at grasping interpersonal relationships is an ability. Master this ability, and you are not afraid to go to the **.

For college students, college students are also students, so for students, learning is of course in the first place, and interpersonal relationships are of course important, but not necessary.

Dealing with interpersonal relationships is essential to our learning. There is a certain impact, but it is not a very big one. So there's no need to deliberately defend yourself.

Interpersonal relationship. Of course not to do it, as long as he does not do things that hurt others, if others. Maintain a bad attitude towards you, and neither do you.

He must be deliberately changed. As we get older, we step into college. When it comes to college, relationships are more complicated.

Compared with junior high school and high school, there are more college students, which also means that interpersonal communication is more complicated, and we have to deal with it. Relationships between roommates: Relationships between community members may also be handled. The relationship between student leaders is a great test of our interpersonal skills at this time.

Dealing with it is good, and interpersonal skills are also good for the future. Step into the society as the foundation.

As the saying goes, multiple friends have many paths, in college. Schoolmate. Well, and the friends you make are often a professional, so you are likely to be at work in the future.

There are some intersections, and the relationship with them is handled well, which means that the studio can take care of each other in the future. Naturally, then, relationships are more important. But if you don't have good academic performance and can't find a good job, no matter how good your interpersonal relationship is, it won't be deeper over time.

Variation. Like I said, in high school, we had all our minds on it. In terms of learning, we are more simple in communicating with classmates, and it is easy to make friends, but when we get to university, everyone has a different perspective, and it is likely that there will be an intersection of interests.

Well, we. A natural approach to interpersonal skills. The requirements will also be higher, for example, some people will exclude another person before, so what should we do?

It's also a science.

I think it's very important to handle interpersonal relationships well so that you will be more comfortable in university life, and learn to deal with interpersonal relationships in college, which will be very useful after entering the society.

Importantly, dealing with interpersonal relationships can improve their emotional intelligence and resilience. Gain experience for later entry into society.

Not particularly important. Because the main purpose of college is to find one's own direction in life, not to maintain so-called relationships.

One of the saddest moments I've had in college is the moment of separation after graduation. After studying and living with my roommates for four years, we went to class together, went to self-study together, went to dinner together, played sports together, and played together, and had a deep relationship. Some of the students cried a lot when they were separated, which is still fresh in people's memories.

College is not as good as junior high school and high school, and at that time we will definitely know our classmates. We live in a group, work in a classroom every day, and come into contact with that group of people every day. And for such a long time, we will always know each other.

But knowing these people doesn't mean that we will get acquainted with them, everyone still has their own games. Because of the difference in personality, there is a deviation in ability. Therefore, introverts are often silently in the corner to be a quiet beautiful man.

For those who have a warm and cheerful personality, he may know all the people in the class, but there are only a few really good friends.

But when we get to college, it's different, because we only choose people who can play with them, and we don't even say hello to those who can't. Therefore, the relationship during college is a kind of spontaneous finding, and this kind of feeling will be more profound.

Some people may not even be able to name all the classmates in college, only know the ones in their dormitory and those who are more familiar with the class leaders, and they can't figure out who the others are.

Because the college period is not as close as the high school period, there is no special roll call.

Relationships in college are really important, but they are complex. I remember that in high school, we just had to study hard, and we didn't need to think about other issues, and interpersonal relationships didn't seem to be so important and complicated.

In college, we not only have to study hard, but also have to deal with various life problems and manage interpersonal relationships. How should we deal with interpersonal relationships, and how should we treat others so that we don't get troubled by interpersonal problems?

Don't snoop too much on other people's privacy. This is something that we must pay attention to and keep in mind. Everyone has privacy, and no one wants their private affairs to be made public.

When a classmate tells you a secret about himself, it is his trust in you, and you must not live up to this trust, let alone hurt him. Only in this way will it be possible to create better interpersonal relationships and make others like you and respect you.

Take the initiative to help those in need. Such qualities are needed not only in school, but also in society. When you see a classmate in need of help, don't be stingy with your time and try your best to help.

Your small act of kindness can be of the utmost importance to him. People with such good qualities will naturally not handle interpersonal relationships very poorly.

Do not disturb others by personal behavior. This is also important, especially with students in the same dormitory. Everyone's habits may be different, when others are studying or resting, it is best not to disturb, to be quiet, and to create a suitable environment for others.

In this way, it is easier to win everyone's favor and better handle interpersonal relationships.