Should a person who has paid three years of affection to him give up? 20

How does he treat you? It's better to be plain, if you love you, you can talk to him directly and tell him not to fight, but it's almost impossible! If it's retaining, I'll say a few words!

It is almost impossible to break gambling, but it can be reduced and can only play small, not big, some of our rural people go home for the New Year, tens of thousands of dollars will be lost at once, hehe, sad!! The amount must be small, and the number of times will slowly decrease! If he usually plays very big, and you say I agree with you to fight, but you can only hit below **, then he may have no interest in playing small!

Accompany him out for a walk or something! If you can't fight less, you can't reduce the amount, then your efforts are in vain, then mine is naturally useless. If he really loves you, I think he can do a lot for you, including what he can't.

Good luck, three years, maybe in some ways, you have failed, and you have been trying to fail! No matter how many years it takes, some things will change, and some things will never change! If you understand it, you will know how to do it.

The question is whether he likes you or not, if you like it, you can consider not breaking up, if you like you but gamble every day, and there is no proper job, to be honest, if it were me, I would break up, there is no need, love can't stand the test of time, you agree now and regret it in the future.

When it is broken, it is broken! Now this situation, it's time to break off, you have paid 3 years of youth for him, what has he done for you? It's still falling! This kind of person, give up.

There really doesn't make sense to stick to it for such people.

Besides, you also say that you are not small. There is not so much youth to spend on him, and there is no need to spend it on him.

Find someone who loves you again and give yourself a chance.

Disappeared for three days, came back, watched him behave, if he didn't change, resolutely separated!

Ten bets and nine cheats, don't you understand? It's the same with people who are addicted to gambling, it's unbelievable!

A girl who has been secretly in love for three years in junior high school can give up money for money.

They're only a freshman in high school.

Gambling? "This kind of man hurry up and get rid of it, h, or you will suffer it in the future."

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, Jue Gao Qing will not stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you are no longer worthy of loving him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

If you really love someone, you can't say the reason for the difference, you only know that no matter when and where, whether you are in a good or bad mood, you want this person to accompany you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

Those who speak do not believe, and neither do those who listen.

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

Give it up, 3 years at home I don't know, that is, I didn't want to have it, and it hurt even more when I dragged it.

Give it up, you also know that he doesn't care about you, he has no public relationship, he has no plans to get married, he doesn't care about it, I think even an ordinary friend can do better than him, don't you think? There is no good result in persevering, really don't be stupid, 3 years is not short, if you want to say long, it's okay, what obsession do you have that you can't let go? Is he handsome, or do you feel like you're spending time and affection on him?

It's too late to let go now, let go one step earlier, one step ahead of you, the later you consume, the greater the loss, and then think back after a while, letting go is simpler than you imagined.

Are you sure that people are not married yet, or they don't have a real girlfriend, maybe there are dozens of people like you outside?

If that's the case, he doesn't love you, be careful.

My gut tells me that you are "spare".

Don't give up on this. I'm causing trouble for myself.

has not been public for 3 years together, which shows that there is no real recognition and recognition of each other.

Whether such a concealment is unintentional or intentional is only known to you! If it is not suitable, give up early, and after a long time, you will get used to it and it will be difficult to get out.

Hello, I'm Lemon Psycho-Emotional Mentor Enron. He is also a special emotional expert of Lemon Psychological Counseling.

After 3 years together, there is no publicity, rarely meets, and there is little company, so that you can't feel the other party's love for you, you want to prove whether he cares about your temptation, and you want to hit the wall in reply. The whole paragraph of the narration can feel how tired you are persevering.

First, do you really know each other, and what is the reason why they have not been public for 3 years?

Second, what is it about him that draws you in and keeps you going in this relationship that there is little to no response?

Third, in the face of such a situation, what is the reason why you are reluctant to leave?

Although you have been dating for 3 years, there is no profound communication in your description, and what is the reason why you can't let go.

You are very tired and insecure about this relationship, and you want to get it from the other party, but the other party feels very poor, and can give you very little, what is your own need to persist in such a situation?

In a relationship, if the other person chooses not to make the relationship public, it may mean that he has not accepted you. Our relationships need to be open to family, relatives, and friends, as their blessings and support will make the relationship stronger.

Companionship and communication in a relationship are important, and by understanding each other's needs and meeting each other's needs, the relationship can be more durable. We are needed in relationships to embody a sense of self-worth.

He didn't give you any of this, and a person's loneliness in a relationship is not worthy of praise.

In this way, it seems that you are not in love at all, and he has no idea of marrying you, maybe he is married, and you are just solving your needs, and you just have no feelings in the past three years.