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What do you think your boyfriend would do to you without his brother's existence?
If they care about you very much, it can only prove that their relationship is very good, you said that his brother is 13, they should be several years apart, and for him the younger brother is almost the same as his own child. And he should also know that you don't like his brother, so he doesn't dare to tell you the truth. Usually my younger brother goes to school, but they don't live together, and there won't be many opportunities to meet, so I know that my brother will be in a hurry to see him when he is on vacation.
To love someone should be to love the house and the black, that is to say, let yourself try to accept his younger brother, and now the children are pampered, and there are indeed few rare people. But everyone has strengths, and you can try to find them. At the age of 13, you know everything in your heart, and you can also try to make friends with him.
You don't have to see each other often to make a show, at least let your boyfriend feel that you are changing for him, so that he won't be so nervous and won't lie to you.
If your brother doesn't care about you, then he probably doesn't care about you, and you need to have a good talk with him to see if you have a place in his heart, and if you don't feel your importance in his heart, then you can change people. Unless you can get him to change for you. Communicate well, then give him time to investigate, and give yourself some time to make the right choice.
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My brother also stopped hurting me, in fact, you don't need to be jealous with a child. If your boyfriend doesn't care about it, just break up.
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If you don't get married, you will dump him directly, and you will be used to him.
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There's nothing wrong with that
Bow first and then soldier His brother is thick-skinned and won't come to trouble, you can't be like him You can't directly show your disgust with his brother
The first salute is to ask you to give his brother face first, give your boyfriend face A few times, you smile and endure it
You did a good job, and you didn't give his brother a look at it at first, and you entertained his brother very warmly If you are dissatisfied, you also told the object
Next, my personal opinion is that he lives in your house, probably rents your mother's house, I don't think he should have done this in the first place, and he should have paid more for you and his mother, which in turn brought someone over to mix, or ignored your feelings
Let's ask, in the future, in this situation, who in the family will have the final say, you plan to let him do this all the time, get used to him, and you have to listen to him all the time if you can't accept it
This time, you should test him When you see his brother coming, you must smile, smile very naturally, and directly say that you and your mother go out to do something, it is inconvenient for you to go, you and your mother go out to eat It's okay, his brother comes a few times, you smile and go out to eat a few times
You ask what is going on, you just say, we plan to buy a house now, get married immediately, we are very short of money, I am reluctant to buy things for myself, even a dollar I also want to save for us Now you let me raise a person, I am wronged, you want to raise him, that's right, I don't object, you raise him well, but don't let me and my mother accompany you to raise him I really can't do it Later, he comes to my house for dinner, you spend money to cook for him and serve him, and my mother and I go out to eat
Look at his reaction He's going to be angry directly, he doesn't care about your feelings and loses his temper, he has to listen to him, and he has to cook for his brother at home in the future Think about it yourself, does he really love you? Did he listen to you? What you don't want to do, does he take into account your feelings?
The road ahead is very long, and you can't always do what you think is wronged every day, if you don't do it, he will get angry, and you will be happy when you do it
If he can understand your grievances, immediately find a way not to let his brother come to dinner, okay Show that he is willing to listen to the family, you have the final say
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Your boyfriend is not innocent, usually 4 dishes, get two, the portion is also small, always not enough to eat, let them think about the problem, what are you anxious about.
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It's not easy for his brother to come out to work, you don't have to think too much, are the children of poor families can understand, come to your house for dinner is a matter of more pairs of chopsticks, you don't have to be too stingy, slowly he comes out to get used to it, he won't come, maybe people will pay you a salary to give you living expenses, this is a trivial matter don't think too much, maybe you can help if you have something in the future, you don't have that outside, as long as you have a good relationship with the family, the family is healthy and healthy.
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I am with my husband, he is very good to his family and friends, he is also good to my family, I told him what his attitude is towards my family, what is my attitude towards his family. I think it's acceptable, you also hope that someone will help your husband in the future, women value husbands and children, men value affection, don't let your husband feel that you have a home and no friends.
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You can just talk to your boyfriend because you don't like him coming to your house for dinner every day.
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Hey, I sympathize with you, this matter is really troublesome, after all, they are all a family, but your boyfriend's brother-in-law is too polite, you haven't married him yet, that's it, it's really waiting for you to marry him. I think sometimes we should try to communicate, or find some reason to sneak out, hey, people really have to be self-aware.
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Look at whether the other brother's brother is willing to pay for food, generally the other party should accept it directly, otherwise he won't go again, I think it's better to say it directly, so that there will be contradictions in your feelings after holding it in your heart.
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If you mind, just say it, see if the other brother's brother is willing to pay for food, generally the other party should accept it, otherwise he won't go again.
If not, then watch the next one.
If you don't say it all the time and remember it in your heart, it will be more tiring, and it will not be good for you to get along in the future, I suggest that you say what you should say.
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Why do you want to refuse, it's better to say no, or find a reason to say why you want to refuse if you're not at home tomorrow, it's better to say goodbye, or find a reason to say why you won't be at home tomorrow, it's better to say no, or find a reason to say why you want to refuse if you're not at home tomorrow, or find a reason to say why you want to refuse if you're not at home tomorrow, it's better to say goodbye, or find a reason to say why you want to refuse if you're not at home tomorrow, or find a reason to say why you want to refuse if you're not at home tomorrow, It's better to go straight to the showdown, or find a reason to say why you want to refuse if you're not at home tomorrow, or find a reason to say you're not at home tomorrow.
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Let's break up! You meet a family that doesn't know what to do, what do you do when you get married.
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To be honest, single people want to find an existing place to eat, and of course the younger brother has to go to the brother and sister-in-law to eat. Introduce a girlfriend to my brother and don't come to dinner every day. You can't say it in person, it will hurt your feelings, even if you don't have a lot of money for a year.
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Straight to the point, say. There is no time to wait. A man in his 20s, with a skin thicker than the city walls. No, I'm used to that. It's hard to change.
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After a long time, it will definitely have an impact, you can talk to your boyfriend, see what kind of attitude he has, salute first and then soldier,
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You can let your mother care about your living expenses next time, in front of his brother, to see if he is embarrassed to eat for nothing.
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A bowl of rice raises a benefactor.
A bucket of rice raises an enemy.
Say it openly and honestly with your boyfriend, now I'm afraid that he won't be happy and dare not say it, and even more so after getting married, his brother will become a member of your family.
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Let's just say it, and his brother eats, if he also pays for the meal, then it's nothing
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Don't say it a few days ago, your mother was just polite to him, but he was really thick-skinned, talk to your boyfriend about it, and discuss it.
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I might have an idea for you. It's the younger brother of her former boyfriend. What's not to say, just ask him for food.
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Can you just just say it? You tell him that you've been busy at work lately and don't have time to cook, so he can skip it?
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This matter is your boyfriend's fault, no matter what, it's okay for his brother to come to my brother's place for a meal occasionally during the New Year's holidays, but it's not right to eat like this every day, not to mention that your conditions are not good, and you are still with your mother, and his brother shouldn't be even better, if his brother doesn't like to eat by himself, it's okay to pay you for food every month. It's better for your boyfriend to say it, and it's more appropriate, but your boyfriend certainly won't say it. You can also explain the situation directly to his brother like this, you yourself also go to work to earn money, you are responsible for your own life, either pay for food or eat by yourself, there is nothing bad to say, if your boyfriend really loves you, he will understand you.
If he still wants his brother to eat with you, break up decisively, because he loves his family more than you.
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