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Love is a thing that depends on how you go, you think about how he loves you, but do you really love him, he has returned to the action of love, should you retreat because of the disagreement of the family? ? Love is two-person, not man nor woman, but both men and women.
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Your own happiness is only in your own hands! How much can I earn with a stable job? There's nothing wrong with doing it yourself, it's better to discuss it with your dad and don't get too stiff. I wish you all happiness!
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I don't think I'm qualified to say anything, but I want to make my opinion: I think if you really love each other, you should stick to it, because love needs to be persevered. Time is the only test of truth, and prove to your family that he is qualified by your actions.
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This case! Look at yourself! You think he's capable! Just with him! After all, this is a real society! As you described! He's a nice man! Hold on to your love! Impress your parents!
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No, as long as you really love each other, that man loves you, and your parents will gradually understand. Instead of looking for a rich man, it is better to find someone who loves himself, and you love him so much, insist on it! Come on.
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Falling in love is a matter for both parties, and if you want to get married, you have to consider two families.
You just ask your parents to observe your boyfriend more, and your parents will agree in the end. After all, you are their daughter.
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Has the relationship broken down? Do parents disagree?
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If my parents are against it, I think this marriage can be reconsidered.
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Have you ever encountered such concerns?
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There are many people who are sad after obeying their parents' arrangements for many years, and there are many people who regret not listening to the old man after getting married for many years.
Of course, there are very few male guests like "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" are so tough. When asked by the female guest how to deal with the relationship between the spouse and the parents, how to deal with the opinions and participation of the parents when choosing a mate. The male guest made something unexpected, he bluntly said that he would not consider his parents' opinions, and even Grandpa Meng expressed his amazement.
After in-depth understanding, I found that the male guest's hardness was not without reason, but because the original family itself was very tolerant, supporting him "I am the master of my life", and giving the male guest enough space to choose. But the truth is that not everyone's family of origin will be so tolerant. It has been said that "a marriage that does not have the approval of parents is a marriage of courage."
It takes a lot of courage because there are more difficulties and dangers to face, so it is best to have the support and approval of parents for love and marriage. And when facing the interference of parents, what we have to do must not be to worsen the existing situation, but the following three points: respect when there is a difference of opinion, first of all, we must respect, not only respect the parents, their opinions are for your own good, but the important thing is your own mind, you must know what kind of person you are suitable for and need, after you are determined, you need to respect your own ideas, so that you can grow into a truly independent person.
Communication is followed by communication with parents, and no matter what the outcome is to be achieved, effective communication is always essential! Communication is crucial in how to convince parents to handle a good relationship. Attention needs to be paid to the tone of communication, attitude and logic, and it is necessary to communicate rather than arguing.
You can first ask them about the reasons for their objections, and then make targeted breakthroughs, combining theory and examples, and finally introduce your partner to your parents and achieve communication between them. Balance Finally, for parents interfering in love, we must remember "harmony" and "balance", in the face of parents' intervention in their feelings, we must stay sober, do not be carried away by emotions, no matter whether the situation is difficult or not, it is very important to maintain the harmony of parents, yourself, and lovers, and it is also a long-term consideration. Sister Fei still hopes that everyone's love can be blessed by their parents, and they can be properly handled in the face of family interference, because love and family affection are very important.
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Marriage is a matter for both men and women, and the opinions of parents can only be used as a reference. Parents can't arrange marriages, the key is to look at your boyfriend's attitude, if he is sincere to you, then he should do his parents' work. If your boyfriend also looks down on you, it must have broken up.
Falling in love is a matter of two people.
But marriage is about two families.
Young men and women fall in love, and at the end of the day, they need to take them home to meet each other's parents, and they also need to ask for their permission.
In many relationships, both parents often respect their children's opinions and will not interfere too much, but will give support and blessings, but there are always times when parents and children disagree.
It may be that the woman's parents do not agree for some reason, or it may be that the man's parents have other ideas.
When one day, you fall in love, but your boyfriend's parents are unwilling to let the two of you be together, you will inevitably be sad, reluctant, and unwilling to give up easily.
And at this time, even if you don't want to, his parents will probably always force him and do a lot of things to hinder the two of you, and you still have to make a decision to ruin your hands.
In the end, whether to break up or choose to persevere, you have to refer to your own ideas, and you should take a look at your boyfriend's situation.
Not suitable for emotionality is to separate in advance as well. Long pain is better than short pain, what your parents said makes sense, don't accept it now, and it will pass later. You will be more tired, and when you have a home, instead of thinking, you love me, I love you, but thinking about it all.
Silly girl, you shouldn't have done it at the time, do you know how much damage it did to your body! Poor child. I understand your current situation, in fact, there is nothing disgraceful about your matter, you should not be too inferior, since it has happened, it should not be your responsibility alone, I think first of all, the man should bear the main responsibility. >>>More
This cannot be generalized, to rationally analyze the reasons for parents' opposition, at least we must pay attention to the position of parents, after all, parents are people from the past, have experience that their children do not have, even if they oppose the opinions of parents, we must use rational methods to analyze the reasons mildly.
You should ask him what he thinks.
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I have had the same experience before, I think it doesn't matter whether my boyfriend's parents approve or disagree, the key is to see what opinion my boyfriend maintains, my husband maintained a very firm attitude in that situation, unless I don't marry. Now that we are married, we are very happy, of course, the relationship with my in-laws is okay, we don't eat and live together, so naturally there is no contradiction.