What should I do if the doll is disobedient and has bad grades?

Find the problem from yourself. Parents should lead by example. Children are not your appendages. Please be respectful of the child.

Only a good education.

Also, you can communicate with your children all the time.

Disobedience is the growth process that every child will experience, and it is also the most process for parents, they feel that they have grown up, and they don't want their parents to take care of them, so that a series of problems occur, such as: boredom in school, addiction to games, not returning home at night, running away from home, this is the performance of children in the rebellious period, parents should look at it correctly.

How did the baby become more and more disobedient?

1. Failing to lead by example in front of your children.

If parents often watch TV at home, why don't they let their children watch TV? Before blaming your child for their mistakes, first see if you have the same mistakes yourself. Only in this way can the child be convinced. Therefore, parents should lead by example in front of their children in everything.

2. There is no prestige in front of the child.

While parents establish an intimate relationship with their children, they should also establish their own authority in front of their children. You can laugh in front of them, but you must be serious when you make mistakes. Only in this way can the child recognize his mistakes and obey the discipline of his parents.

In short, when parents discipline their children, they must make their children aware of the seriousness of the matter. In addition, parents should be trustworthy in front of their children and not break their promises.

3. There are too few noisy people to accompany children.

If parents usually give their children too little company, their hearts will be full of resistance to parental discipline, and even the idea of parental love and self-inflicted work on each other. If parents rarely spend time with their children and blame their children for their mistakes every time they talk to them, the children will naturally have a lot of unconvinced emotions. Therefore, parents should always give their children more companionship and love, and do not always discipline their children when they make mistakes.

Dolls are becoming more and more disobedient, how can parents educate?

1. Understand the reasons and motivations for children's disobedient behavior.

Children have the longest contact with their parents on weekdays, of course, they are the closest to their parents, and parents only need to pay more attention to observation and learn more about children's education.

2. Guide in a clever way.

In the face of children's various behaviors and psychological performances, parents should see the tricks and guide the children in clever ways, and remember not to take some tough measures such as scolding and accusations to educate the children, which will only make the children more troublesome and more disobedient.

Third, we cannot be accommodating on issues of principle.

Disobedient children are constantly challenging the rules on the one hand, and constantly pursuing the rules on the other. If the rules are confusing, the child will be insecure. Parents should be scientific when making rules, and once the rules are made, they must be followed.

4. Be patient with your child's negative emotions.

Children in adolescence have strong changes in psychology, and parents must not reason with their children; When the child is crying, parents can hold the child or go to a quiet place and listen to the child crying quietly for a while, so that the child can calm down; Find out why your child is crying, what kind of emotion it is, sadness or anger; Show empathy and understanding to your child, and wait until your child's emotions are calm before finding new ways to divert his attention.

This situation is completely caused by the doting of parents, so as a parent, you should still discipline your child strictly, and you should criticize and advise your child if there is a problem.

It is likely that the child is becoming more mature and begins to have his own ideas; Parents must have stupidity and patience when accompanying the leakage of education, and they must explain the truth to the children.

It may be related to family education; Parents should establish a correct concept of education and communicate with their children in a timely manner, and be able to respect and understand their children.

Children's dislike of learning is a very difficult problem in family education, and it is also an important factor affecting children's academic performance. One of the best ways to deal with this problem is to get to the root of it, not only by gaining an in-depth understanding of your child's interests, but also by giving them enough opportunities in the classroom to discover their interests and hobbies, and in doing so, to stimulate their interest in learning.

First of all, parents can encourage their children to learn independently and let them find the joy of learning from their own interesting content. For example, read some interesting books, watch movies, participate in social activities, etc., so that they can discover their interests and let them gain something in the learning process.

Secondly, parents can try to encourage their children's learning in a practical way, so that they can discover the joy of learning. For example, parents can take their children to participate in some practical activities, so that they can apply the knowledge they have learned to practice, so that children can have a deeper understanding of the learning content in practice, so as to better stimulate their interest in learning.

It's also a good idea to set learning challenges for your child. For example, parents can set learning goals, and every time their children complete the learning goals, parents will give them a certain reward, so that children can find the joy of learning in the process of pursuing success.

In short, for the problem that children do not like to learn, parents should solve the root cause, ** children's interests and hobbies, and give them sufficient resources and opportunities, so that children have the opportunity to discover their interests, so as to stimulate their interest in learning, let children like learning, so as to improve academic performance.

What to do if the doll is disobedient is as follows:

1. Cultivate children's mental calmness and sharpen hunger. In the eyes of parents, children are disobedient and active, it is generally difficult to do something quietly, what to do, I think this method can also "accompany the child to read", usually spend half an hour with the child to read not only to increase knowledge but also to improve the child's interest, books are the best way to calm people's minds.

2. Pay more attention to your children. As a parent, because of the pressure of life, there is not too much time to spend on the child, the child will think that the parents do not love themselves enough, and they will behave disobediently, such as "not responding to the parents or making a mess at home, etc.", as a parent, usually pay more attention to the child, can say the child's happy things well, etc., not only the child knows how to share, but also the personality will become cheerful.

3. Don't beat and scold your child too much. One fan told me that her child recently learned to lie because the child's father likes to hit people at every turn, such as "The child didn't write his words."

In order not to be beaten, the child will lie to him with the words he wrote before, and he didn't write it, saying that he wrote it. I said would the child want to write?She said yes. Then the child's meaning to write, just practice the word is definitely not how to pick out the child's good writing encouragement, not only the child is willing to write but also improve consciousness.

4. Complain less about children. Many parents will only say that their children are disobedient and do not know that their children are their own shadow and whether they are doing well. For example, "emotions at work bring to children or complain about children from time to time" will not only make children feel weird, but also make them feel unconfident.

If you want your child to be obedient, parents should complain less about your child, such as "telling your child that they are independent, unique, etc.", and the child will not only become confident, but also willing to talk to their parents.

5. Be more patient and listen to your child. Children are not disobedient by nature, and as parents should be self-reflective. Have you patiently listened to the child's voice in front of the child, such as: "The child is blind and happily running to tell you about today's interesting things, whether you have put down your hands."

If you want your child to be busy, when your child comes to ask or talk, put your hand down and listen to your child, not only does your child learn to listen, but also learn to respect.