How do you feel about the sudden concern of ordinary friends?

Maybe he has a request for you, there are still many such people in life, they hardly contact you very often, they can use you, and they want to contact you when they have something to do, and they suddenly care about you. As the song goes, "I am most afraid of the sudden silence of the air, and I am most afraid of the sudden concern of my friends." ”<

In this society full of interests, there are too few real friends, and true friends care about you the most sincerely, and you can believe it. However, if one day, an ordinary friend who has not been in touch for a long time suddenly contacts you, and then cares about you in various ways, and you can't believe this kind of care, he must want to use you, for the sake of their own memory, some people do everything.

This kind of person is so fake, like your roommate, who is always asking you where you have been and what you have done, and who seems to care about you on the surface, but in fact he is looking for news about you.

If an ordinary friend suddenly cares about you, he will definitely ask you for help next, at this time you can't agree to him because you feel embarrassed to refuse, you feel that you are friends after all, and it is not easy to refuse, he is taking advantage of your psychology, feeling that you must not refuse him.

Now the phenomenon of this society is too serious, it is also possible that you were just a small employee before, but now you are a big boss, powerful, those so-called ordinary friends before they felt that you had no use value, so they deliberately alienated you, and now you have use value, they suddenly please you.

So, if you meet an ordinary friend who suddenly cares about you, you'd better be vigilant and don't let him take advantage of you because you're too embarrassed to refuse. I'm most afraid of my friend's sudden concern, and that's right.

There is something. There must be something! With all due respect, if you don't have a very good relationship with your friend under normal circumstances, you will definitely not keep in touch often, and one day he suddenly contacts you, maybe he has something to ask you for help.

The same sex is like this, if it's the opposite sex, maybe she has other intentions. Make it up for yourself.

I think for this kind of ordinary friend, if he really needs you, you should still help others, after all, you can't live in this world without relying on the help of others. Ordinary friends can sell one to him at the time as long as this person's character is okay, and you can further develop your friendship.

Your gesture can be a big deal for someone else. In addition, in today's society, as long as you have the ability, there are countless people who want you to make friends, but you have to understand that a person's life cannot always be walking uphill, make a few more friends, and when you want to go downhill, there will be people there to push you and not let you fall.

In addition, you may have the opportunity to know more like-minded friends with you, so that you can make friends with different professions and interests. It is possible that one day in the future you will use them, and you will suddenly care about others as a normal friend.

Keep your heart, keep the kindness, no matter what reason your friends care about you, just accept it, and one day you will thank you for helping others now. Plant melons and get melons, plant beans and get beans. No matter what other people's intentions are, you just do your best.

In the future, you will thank you for who you are now. Kindness is rewarded with kindness. It is a happy thing for others and for oneself.

It is normal to face the quilt normally, and it is normal for friends to care about each other, and I will thank him for his concern! And I'll accept his kindness!