What should I do if I meet an ex roommate with whom I have a bad relationship on the road?

Updated on society 2024-05-09
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you want to, you can say hello to him, and if you don't, pull him down, and act as if you didn't see him.

    When you meet each other on the road, it's okay to say hello, but if you don't want to say hello, you can nod your head or make eye contact. First, you can show your own personal bearing, and second, it is a good thing to be kind to others. So if even if you have a bad relationship, but you don't hold grudges very much, or you don't take the conflict between you to heart, then it's still good to say hello, and there is no need to ruin your demeanor because of someone who has a bad relationship with you.

    But if you really don't want to see the other person, or if the presence of the other person makes you feel bad, then ignore it and treat it as if you don't see it. They are all former roommates, and the relationship is not good, if you greet him, the other party may not appreciate it, and the other party may be disgusted. Even if you come forward to say hello to him cordially, he may not give you a good face, you will meet it, don't squint, just stride forward.

    The reason why there is a tangle is because you still want to get along with each other and have a room for turning, you don't want to be so stiff, so you will hesitate, when you really don't care, who do you care who he passes by? The road goes to the sky, what if you see it? What if you can't see it?

    What about greetings? What if you don't say hello? You don't bother with these things at all.

    It's better to say hello to him with a smile, but it's good not to take this matter to heart later, so that others will not think that you are a very cold person, nor will it affect your own mood. Look at what you really need, if you want to do something, do it, if you don't want to do it, then no one will force you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's good to ignore it like a stranger.,The relationship is very bad and even a former roommate.,I have no problem being a stranger.。

    There is no reason for any relationship to develop in the bad direction, and it is certain that her behavior makes you not very agreeable, and there will be contradictions. Since they have all become former roommates, she is not a character who needs to meet every day, so it is the best ending to ignore anyone.

    If the relationship is already bad, wouldn't it be more hypocritical to say hello as usual? If you want me to say, it's best to be yourself, just choose a mode of getting along that you feel comfortable with, after all, the most important thing is to be happy.

    If there is no deep hatred, there is no need to roll your eyes immediately when you see her, if she can still affect your emotions, then you lose. Ignorance is the greatest contempt for a person, and I don't care at all who you are. Even if you're my former roommate, I'm not familiar with you at all, and whether I say hello or not depends on my own mood.

    When I was a sophomore, I had a falling out with a roommate. She has also moved out now, and the people in the other dorms have some voices when they see that our dorm is so disunited. There would always be gossip about the roommate who moved out of our dorm room and isolated her.

    But there are always two sides to things, why don't they see why the people in my dormitory don't like her, doesn't she have a reason of her own?

    So take it easy, don't think about how other dorm people or other classmates look at you, just be yourself. If the relationship is very bad, don't force yourself to say hello, just when she is passing by on the street.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In my opinion, there are only two ways to solve the problem of meeting a former roommate with whom I have a bad relationship on the road:

    First, ignore it with an indifferent mentality, after all, the relationship between former roommates is still very poor, and not taking care of it is not a thing worth criticizing. The relationship between people is an extremely realistic product, and it is normal for two people to have a good relationship with each other, and it is a way to treat a bad relationship without meaningless communication. In my own case, there was already such a roommate in our dormitory, and he had to move out of our dormitory because of his anger, even if everyone persuaded him to no avail, since the intention of leaving was decided, then there was no need to have meaningless communication between them.

    Everyone doesn't have to live for others, and since everyone has already had relationship conflicts, it's best not to stick with each other.

    Second, if you are really mentally embarrassed, considering the previous roommate relationship between each other. Appropriate accosting and greeting is also a polite choice, and roommates and conflicting relationships aside, the relationship between classmates still exists. When others move out of the dormitory, it means that they have taken everything away from before, so at this time, they can simply measure the relationship between classmates to greet them.

    Especially when your previous roommate has already taken the initiative to greet you, in this case, you must not pretend not to be invisible, polite requirements are not divided into previous contradictions, and mutual respect is the social way that should be followed.

    The reason why the above two different ways are proposed is because the decision is still in your own hands, that is to say, it is not wrong to say hello, it is not a problem not to say hello, the initiative is in your own hands, and the above methods are all a choice.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It depends on what he does, and if he ignores you, then you just pretend you don't see anything and just walk over. But if he says hello to you, then you can smile at him and smile at him, and that's over. How much hatred can there be between roommates?

    It's still a former roommate, let it pass.

    Of course, you can also say hello to him happily, just stretch out your hand and say hello. This is not without face, but shows that you are generous and can ignore past suspicions. It's like some time ago when I met a friend who didn't have a good relationship, and we didn't talk because of a conflict.

    But after I saw her, I greeted her very naturally, and it was very warm.

    Afterwards, I also felt that I was crazy, because she didn't expect it when she looked at the other party's bewildered face. If you squeeze out a more embarrassing smile, then it's over.

    You will encounter more such things and people in the future, and if you can't see him, just pass it, so that your relationship will be worse in the future, and you will not be able to mix it in society in the future. Even if you are not satisfied with this person in your heart, you must keep this dislike in your heart, and you still have to be good on the surface. At the very least, make others feel that you are approachable and easy to get along with.

    Of course, if you were really hurt deeply, it would be better to choose to walk over with your toes high. I want to save face, but I want to have self-esteem.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Of course, you have to say hello normally.,Anyway, I happened to meet it.,It's not often to meet.,And it's a former roommate.,There's no need to be too stiff.。

    Everyone is not perfect, there will always be roommates who don't get along, and even break up, but since they are already ex-roommates, everything is in the past, and there is no need to linger.

    You greet her, you don't have to ask too much, anyway, it's just a simple meeting, just say hello, even if you don't like it in your heart, you have to do it, so as to show your generosity, regardless of past suspicions.

    Greeting your ex-roommate can also surprise her, and she may feel guilty for being unprepared for responding to you unprepared.

    If she ignores you, then she is really a little belly, and the people around her will think that she is rude and does not respond to your greetings. Then you really don't have to pay attention to her and say hello to her in the future.

    If you take the initiative to say hello and she readily accepts, maybe the two of you will get back together, because after all, there is no deep hatred, and if you think about it carefully, it may really be nothing.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Skip it, since the relationship is not good, there is no need to say hello. So if you meet someone on the road, don't see it, if you say hello to that former roommate, he may ignore you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, I would like to ask if it is good to pay homage to you and one of them? Or is it bad with all? If it's not good with everyone, then you have to find the reason from yourself, after all, everyone is in the same dormitory, the relationship is not good, life is very difficult, and there will be a lot of unnecessary trouble in the hall.

    First, you have to think about whether there is something wrong with your own personality. Of course, this will be difficult for you to find, so you will have to ask your roommate and take the initiative yourself. Second, are you inappropriate in your way of dealing with the world?

    You have to reflect on this yourself, you have done a good job in dealing with people, then no one is unwilling to make friends with you.

    Secondly, if you have a good relationship with most of the people in the dormitory, but you don't get along with a small number of people, then I have two suggestions: 1Ignore him Because it may not be your reason, it is his reason, which cannot be changed, so try not to conflict with him, and interact with him lightly; 2.

    If you really want to do a good job in the dormitory, then change yourself, to accommodate others, to accommodate people with different personalities and characteristics, of course, so that you will be very tired, but the gain is not small, at least expand the scope of communication.

    It's all a dormitory, it's fate to get together, there are no bumps in life, one tolerates one and one passes, it's cautious, no, in the boys' dormitory, I treat them as brothers, and they treat me as ......

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