How much weight does appearance occupy in love?

I think it takes up a lot of weight, after all, only under the condition of a visible face, we will choose whether to further understand a person's inner being, right?

Actually, there may really be a saying that there is such a thing as Xi Shi in the eyes of a lover, but it must be reasonable in appearance.

I really think that in love, appearance should account for 60%.

Now many people are also because they saw the right eye at first sight, so they have the next story, so it fully explains the importance of appearance, of course, it doesn't mean that there are no people who are not together because of their appearance, but I still think that kind of situation is just a minority after all.

Many people in life choose to be together because of some people's good looks, which I said earlier, appearance accounts for 60 percent, and the rest are character, family background and future. Maybe some people think that it's just a relationship, and you don't have to care so much, but isn't it just for you to get married in the future? Do you just want to experience a feeling that makes you sad for nothing?

Isn't that a finding guilt for yourself?

I remember a particularly profound sentence, appearance determines whether you want to know someone or not, and inner determines whether you want to get along with someone. It's very reasonable, especially in this era of super emphasis on appearance. One of my classmates really relied on his appearance in exchange for a pretty good job, look, now everything depends on his appearance, let alone his boyfriend or girlfriend.

I don't know about others, anyway, I'm the head of the beauty faction, and I will look at the appearance of everything, of course, it's not as scary as I said, but I just think that in today's society, appearance really accounts for a large share, whether it's in love or in other aspects.

In fact, this should also divide people, in the hearts of different people, the weight of the lover's appearance is also based on their own hearts.

I think if it's true love, appearance may not be so important. Otherwise, there is such a sentence as "the lover's eye is in the eyes".

But for the most part, appearance also accounts for a very important part of love. After all, people are vain animals, and they all hope that their objects can give them face, take them out to play, and also hope to be praised to be happy. So if a beautiful one and an ugly one chase you at the same time, which one would you agree with?

Think for yourself and you'll know the answer!

There is also the possibility of taking into account the fact that when you have a baby in the future, genetic things, the genes with high appearance are naturally good, and the babies born naturally are also good-looking. So there is a certain reason for falling in love and looking at appearance.

But after all, this is from the perspective of the human heart. But in reality, this is not the case. After all, it's not easy to meet someone you like, so why don't you be with someone because you're ugly?

For example, my best friend just broke up with his first love a few days ago. That man was not only short but also fat, and I was a strong disagreement at the time, but my girlfriend didn't listen, she just liked it, and she didn't think he was ugly, so they naturally got together. I can't say what my girlfriends like.

I broke up a few days ago, and after the breakup, my girlfriend herself said that now it seems that she was blind at the beginning, and she can still be with him for so long if she looks so ugly.

To be honest, this kind of thing is a thing that is pleasing to the eye, as long as it is pleasing to the eye, appearance or something is really not a problem.

There is a shih h h in the eyes of a lover, and this is not false at all. But another thing we have to recognize is that although appearance is not important, at least it is not ugly, which is the bottom line.

Thousands of gorgeous appearances, interesting souls are lonely". I agree with this and hope to share this sentence with those who are in love or about to fall in love in real life.

It is true that human beings have some attributes of "appearance association" to a greater or lesser extent, including themselves. However, with the continuous enrichment of his life experience and the continuous improvement of life values. I began to realize that a lot of beauty was really worthless under the outside.

Perhaps your appearance determines whether others are willing to get to know you deeply, but your inner self also determines whether someone who knows you well will immediately deny your former beauty.

Maybe you will want to say, then this means that what you like inside is to make up for the lack of appearance, and the so-called ugly person should read more. And I want to say that it is not because of the lack of appearance that you need to fill with the inside, but when your inner is more abundant, your aesthetics will also change one after another.

I have never agreed that the current male is not moving to find a so-called "girl who takes out", I want to say that the basis for establishing evaluation standards between people should not be established after having a certain amount of communication? Those who rely on their first sense to judge whether a person is good-looking or not, and assert whether they can smoothly and harmoniously integrate into your circle of friends, such a friend selection criterion is inevitably too unfair.

If you feel that everyone in the circle you live in is "judging people by their appearance", then it can only mean that their inner thinking needs to be improved, and if you choose to sacrifice yourself in order to cater to the low aesthetics of others, then you are deliberately lowering your own standards.

How can we meet our ideal expectations?

There are two ways to do this: one is to lower expectations, and the other is to improve strength.

I believe that everyone will have their own choice.

In your opinion, is the other person's appearance really important when you are in love? So let me talk about my views and opinions!

The first one, first of all, I think that the appearance of the other party in love is really important, if the other party's appearance is not high, it is not easy to attract people's attention in the crowd, and a sweet love may be missed because of this.

We all like beautiful things, especially when choosing objects, we will choose beautiful and handsome boys or girls as our pursuit objects. In love, I think the other party's appearance is really important, if the other party's appearance is not high, it is not easy to attract people's attention in the crowd, but a handsome, very beautiful boy or girl in the vast sea of people, everyone can see at a glance, very dazzling, gorgeous. So sometimes because of the appearance, a sweet love is missed because of this.

In fact, I think everyone's appearance is unique, as long as we dress up a little, improve our temperament, and make our appearance higher, will we get divorced, is sweet love still far away?

Second, two people know each other very well, and they are very good to each other, and they always think about each other, I think that when falling in love at this time, appearance is not so important.

Although a beautiful person can be pleasing to the eye, if it is not good for yourself, then everything is in vain. So when two people know each other very well, and they will constantly think about each other all the time, and be good to each other without reservation, I think that appearance is not so important at this time, as long as the appearance can be seen and meet a person who is full of himself, this is far more important than appearance.

Criteria for each person's mate selection.

are all different, we should all respect the choices and opinions of others, although the appearance is pleasing to the eye, but I will choose, it must be the person who has my eyes full of me, so that I can live carefree in life. So in a relationship, do you choose someone with good looks, or choose the person who loves you?

Personally, I don't think the other person's appearance is so important when it comes to falling in love. In today's society, many young people pay more attention to their appearance. There is even a saying that "as long as the villain is handsome, the three views follow the facial features."

This shows that most people prefer good-looking people. Of course, this is not wrong either, because everyone will appreciate the good and like to be pleasing to the eye. This is a very normal thing.

I also like handsome guys and beautiful women.

However, I think that in love, in fact, the appearance does not have to be so important, after all, good looks can not be eaten, although he can make you pleasing to the eye, but his character ability is not good, what is the use of looking good. In my opinion, the other party's character is the most important, after all, people will be born, old, sick and die, not everyone can always maintain their beauty, only good character can always be in love with each other.

In a relationship, although the other party's appearance is very high and can bring you more happiness, if he has a bad character, he is often full of swearing, lies, and wrong views. Such a person, no matter how good-looking, is useless. He only had that good-looking skin.

The most important thing is that you both have fun, joy, and happiness. Even if he is not good-looking, he can be very good to you, take the initiative to care for you, and be friendly to your family and friends, which is enough.

A person's beauty is not only the good-looking skin, but also the inner beauty, and the beauty of a person is the unity of the inside and the outside. And everyone has their own shining point. Therefore, the appearance of the other party in love is not so important, the important thing is whether the two of you are happy and happy, as long as there is no contradiction in the life of the two of them, it is okay.

You don't need to pay too much attention to the other person's appearance, as long as it is not flawed. After all, each person has their own unique beauty, and each person has their own differences.

Unimportant. If the other party is very good to himself, and the other party is obedient to himself, I don't think the appearance is particularly important.

I don't think it's very important, love is to love his character and demeanor and quality, he looks handsome, but he has no character, manners, and literacy, what's the use of looking good? Just because you're good-looking doesn't mean you're good.

When falling in love, the appearance of the other party is very important, if the other party's appearance is not high, I think it will affect the relationship between two people when falling in love.

Hello, appearance is also a very important aspect in love, after all, everyone wants their object to be more beautiful.

1. Appearance will affect the first impression. When you meet for the first time, the level of appearance will affect whether you can continue to develop in the future. Now there is "appearance anxiety" in society, many people are not satisfied with their appearance all day long, and this situation is also very common in love, for example, if a person's appearance is not high, it will be more difficult to fall in love.

And people with good looks tend to have suitors in droves.

2. Appearance is not the only criterion. Although it is now a society that looks at faces, but appearance is not the most resistant, everyone has a time when they get old and ugly, only after getting along, after discovering each other's advantages and strengths, can they make the relationship more lasting and more likely to have results.

3. There is no need to be anxious about appearance. Many people will be so confident in their hearts because of their looks, in fact, there is no need at all, looks are natural, of course, you can also become beautiful through acquired plastic surgery, but no matter what, don't feel inferior because of your appearance, otherwise you will find that life seems to be more and more unfriendly to you.

Appearance is important, and it will also affect the beginning and development of love, but as long as two people really like each other, then they can still ignore the influence of appearance to a certain extent, and love will have good results.

<> love of beauty, everyone has it. Handsome guys and beauties, sure to be pleasing to the eye. But when it comes to falling in love, appearance is only one of them, and it is a plus for the same situation.

Nowadays, when choosing a lover, the starting point must be multi-dimensional, and few people are determined only by their appearance. For example, virtue and conduct are very important. I want to fall in love normally, and few people will choose those people with good-looking skins and ugly souls as the partners of their relationships.

If there is, it is also for "friendship", not for romance.

When it comes to falling in love in life, those who are self-motivated, responsible, have strong comprehensive ability, are down-to-earth and reliable, sincere and attentive, and may have average appearance, they are also very popular. There are also many who have nothing to show for themselves, and others are lackluster, so they can only be reduced to "vases", and the road is bumpy.

There is no doubt that for those who are good-looking, hard-working, and capable, the love market will definitely be popular. However, the appearance is beautiful but the lack of inner beauty may help to win recognition for a while, and to love for the long term, after all, it needs the support of many qualities and abilities as I mentioned earlier.

It's not too important, after all, falling in love is a long-term relationship, not an impulsive moment for 10,000 years. Of course, having a high appearance value will definitely give you an advantage in the initial impression score, but if you have already established a romantic relationship, after the relationship is more intimate, the meaning of appearance will become weaker and weaker.

1.Both parties in love are more interested in each other's personality and the harmony of both parties. In the process of falling in love, appearance may be pleasing to both parties, but there is no way to make up for the shortcomings of personal behavior, and there is no way to make up for the disharmony of personality.

So when it comes to falling in love, appearance is really not the most important thing.

2.But if you are still in the blind date stage, or the stage of first acquaintance, the first impression of appearance will indeed add points to the impression points. But that's not the most important thing, after all, your language exchanges, eating together and going on dates will reveal your true personality.

3.Love is indeed the relationship between two people, and the views of both parties on aesthetics are not the same, many people's views on appearance are more about the temperament shown after the combination of the person's face and personality. So if you really care about your appearance, you can also continue to improve your self-confidence makeup and behavior.

When it comes to falling in love, there are many other important things besides appearance, such as whether the other party's attitude towards you is appropriate, whether it is considerate, whether it is responsible, and so on. The most important thing is that two people get along with each other, you have complementary personalities, overlapping interests and hobbies, and have some common values, which is more important.

If such an external appearance as appearance occupies an important place in a relationship, then it will be difficult for you to last long. After all, there is always a time when you are plain and facing the sky, there is always a time for daily life at home, there is always a time when you are embarrassed, and there is always a time when you look old. There is no way to predict this, and the most important words of appearance will not be facing a breakup at any time.

Therefore, when falling in love, maybe appearance can occupy a certain plus point and occupy a certain impression point. But appearance must not occupy the most important position in love, especially as you grow older, you know more about the world and life, and your attitude towards love will become more demanding and responsible.

What age and experience bring to you is the gradual shaping of values, but also the gradual mastery of reality. It's the same for falling in love, there is no way to support the long-term future of two people, likes are temporary, and long-term love can support you to go further.