What is your attitude towards your friends stays?

I think this sentence is very roaded, on the road of life, we will definitely meet a lot of people, some people, may pass by with us, some people may accompany us for a period of time, but few people can accompany us to the end, some people walk with us and disperse, some people contact and fade, so, everything can not be forced, we can't keep the people who should go, and we can't drive away the people who should stay, so we treat them with a normal heart. <>

I am a person who does not force it, in fact, there are some things that cannot be forced, so why force it when I know the result. After I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, in fact, I still had a little fantasy in my heart, I thought that maybe he loved me very much, maybe he would come to me after a while, in fact, I didn't have the confidence that he had to be me.

Later, at a friend party, I saw him, him and his girlfriend, I knew I didn't have a chance, but I didn't seem to dwell on this, and quickly accepted the fact that he had a new love. It's not as sad as I imagined. For a person whose heart is no longer in me, what is the use of me forcing it, just as he is a passerby in my life, accompanied me for a while, to a fork in the road, we separated, the next road is still walking, maybe I will meet another person who can accompany me when I walk again.

It's like this for love, I'm like this for friendship, I had a very good friend in high school, and later, when we took the college entrance examination, I leaned on the university, and she didn't get in, so she went to tutoring, I don't know if we were too busy or separated for too long, we slowly lost contact, and later, although we still greet each other from time to time, but it seems to be getting farther and farther.

I think life is like this, meeting some people, sending some people away, sometimes some people accompany, sometimes others. The world, we can meet, it is fate, we cherish each other. Separation, is fate gone, we cherish each other.

This sentence seems to be free and easy, but it is indeed a kind of helplessness and sadness for loss, and I want to pretend that I don't care about everything, but I can't let go of anyone else. <>

In fact, it doesn't have to be so absolute, whether it is friendship or love, it mainly depends on whether there is still affection between you, and whether this relationship will have a good outcome.

If you really can't let go, even if you will still be separated in the future, don't leave regrets now. What's more, it can't be said that they will be separated in the future, so if you are unwilling, go back to it.

My boyfriend has a younger sister, and her boyfriend is a soldier brother, and the soldier brother has no parents. Due to family differences, they often quarreled, and quarrels and breakups were a common thing, but after five or six years of running-in, they finally got married. Although the two of them are now in two places, the relationship is indeed getting better and better, and my sister is the only relative of Brother Bing in the world.

If it is said that there is really no need to continue this relationship in a rational judgment, then it is really not requested. Feelings are also economical, and timely stop loss is the right way. Sometimes feelings are like this, you can't let go of it, but you don't have a future yet.

My eldest sister, when she was in her twenties, talked to a boyfriend and was a waitress in a restaurant, but when she went home and talked to my parents, my parents strongly objected and felt that there was no development as a chef. Although the parents' thoughts are not necessarily right, but this is the life experience, the eldest sister cried all night, and the next day her eyes were swollen and she broke up with the boy. And now, the eldest brother-in-law is also from a restaurant, but he is a chef, and after getting married, the eldest sister lives a worry-free life, which is not a kind of happiness.

Don't be impulsive when facing problems, but be rational and thoughtful before making decisions.

I won't see him off when he's gone, but when he comes, I'll pick him up through thick and thin. I don't tie down my good friend, he comes when he wants, he can go when he wants.

I generally cherish friendship very much, every time my friends are going to go to other places, I will go to see them off at the station, and when they are fine, I will make small talk with them.

Look at the kind of stay, if you are far away, be happy with him before leaving, and then send him away, if it is a complete departure, set a table for him to leave the wine.

I usually support my friend's approach and attitude, and if she wants to go, let him go, and he chooses to stay, and I will be very welcome.

Everyone has friends, and the friends around everyone will not necessarily be by their side forever. So for friends to stay, I think it should be a natural mentality, but when it's time to retain, you still have to retain. Of course, regarding the departure and retention of friends, this also includes objective factors as well as human factors.

If it is an objective factor, it is that a friend leaves you for some irresistible reason. If it's human, it's probably that he doesn't want to be friends with you anymore, or something like that. But no matter what the factors are, for the friends we care about, we will definitely be reluctant to let him go.

If he stays, we will be happy. So you have to go with the flow, if he has to go, you can't keep it. <>

I think most of us have experienced the stay of friends. Whether it's as a child, as a teenager, or as an adult. The whole world is in constant motion, and people are the same, and there will always be a day when people are separated.

If you say it according to the poisonous chicken soup, it is, in fact, we interact with each other for the purpose of separation. That's too heart-wrenching, we can't think like that. People together can always create so many things that we can't imagine.

So whether your friends go or stay, the time you have passed together cannot be erased. The laughter, joys, sorrows and sorrows that you make when you are together are all present in your hearts, and what you create together will remain in your hearts forever.

Therefore, the so-called going with the flow should be like this, the departure of friends will definitely be a pity, even sad, but you still have a good past. We will definitely be happy to have our friends behind, so that we will have a future with infinite possibilities. But go with the flow, and don't be too passive.

When your friends leave, you can't just go with the flow, just leave. You also have to say some words of retention, and some words that the other party should remember to contact you often, and so on. Of course!

If your friends are leaving because you don't want to be friends anymore, then you don't have to say those things but you can't do it with a nasty mind. People say that meeting is always beautiful, separation is always sad, but this is not necessarily. Some people separate to make both sides better.

In general, for the departure and stay of friends, we can't change what we can't let it be. But if we can change, of course, the premise of this change is to make your friend's life better, or whatever, then we must do our best to change, so that our friends can feel that they cherish this friendship.

Some people say that parting is for a better encounter. However, the world is so big that it can't escape the fate of being divided for a long time and being divided for a long time. That's why I have the idea of going and staying between people.

Because everyone has their own choices, and if I were a little bird, I wouldn't want you to keep me in a cage and imprison me. If you say it's a kind of love for me, protection and care for me. Then you're wrong, it's just your grip on me.

Because if you really love someone and care about someone, you should care more about her feelings. If someone else chooses to leave. There must be his reasons, so why should you force it?

A good friend is not necessarily a person who gets tired of being together every day, and it is not only the person who eats, drinks, plays, and makes trouble with you every day that is your good friend. Because everyone has a path he wants to choose, and as his friend. You can only do it silently by supporting him and encouraging him behind the scenes.

Now we're all college students. Many good friends from elementary school, junior high school, and high school are no longer together, and they are busy with their own things, so they don't have time to chat, let alone meet each other. Some people choose a more leisurely major, and have time to play on their mobile phones every day to brush up on their moments and go shopping.

And some people choose a more busy major, with classes from morning to night every day, and endless experimental reports. So everyone's life is different. You can't feel like she's not a good friend just because the other person isn't constantly chatting or replying to messages because she's busy.

It shouldn't be because he gave up being in the same city and the same school as you in order to choose his ideals. So it's fate to come and go, don't force it.

No one can stay with you for the rest of your life, and if you're coming, then of course I'm welcome. If our fate ends here, it will be useless to force it to stay. All we can do is cherish the days we spend together, right?

Zhou Huajian sang us such a lyric: "Friends walk together for a lifetime", but how can friends walk together for a lifetime? As we get older, we all have our own things to be busy, and we can no longer secretly pass notes in school, fight with each other after class, share snacks together, and share homework together.

Everyone has their own way to go, either at this intersection or at the next to say goodbye. Especially when you grow up, the connection with friends will become less and less, and sometimes it is good to see each other in a year. The classmates who studied together at the beginning, the days of laughing and scolding together, will eventually fade into our memories with time, and finally become strangers.

And those who can really be friends for a long, long time, even if they have taken different paths with each other and haven't been in touch for a long, long time, when they meet again, it seems that they still feel the same as they did at the beginning, as if, everyone hasn't seen each other for a long time.

We will meet many, many people in this life, and when new people enter your life circle, those who have no intersection with your life will inevitably be removed from your life circle. Although they have different reasons for leaving, if you refuse to give them up, then your life circle is bound to be chaotic.

Therefore, the departure of a friend is an inevitable thing, and we cannot force it too much.

I will face such a situation, do it gladly accept, and send my blessing to those friends who pursue their dreams, and only ask myself to be fair and calm in the face of the departure of friends, if it is deception, it should also have the attitude it should have, not to have an attitude of forcible endurance.

If a friend needs to go to a distant place to struggle and pursue his dreams in order to pursue his dreams, and he needs to stay separated from you in this place, I will send my own blessings and encouragement for the departure of such friends, help them to leave a good influence on themselves when they leave, and inspire this parting into a future encounter, I will make my own commitment to their departure, hoping to meet as soon as possible in the future, instead of influencing his departure with my sadness.

If my friend has done something bad to me, or owes something to someone else, and has made a run away, I will persuade him to leave like this, and I will tell him the right values and help him correct his evasive behavior, instead of losing his responsibility by running away, which is very bad. I would choose to resist his departure.

If my friend still stays in the local area for some pursuit, or out of affection for me, I will be touched by such a stay, I will take the initiative to respond to his feelings, in order to stay and express my support and touch, I will also make a positive helping attitude for his career pursuit.

Staying must be with greater enthusiasm, after all, the company of friends is a part of life that we need most in life growth, and we will discuss it according to the situation when we leave, and the above is my attitude.

Some things can be understood by walking, and some people will disperse as they walk. Life is like a reverse journey, you and I are pedestrians on the road, no one can guarantee that the next road can be accompanied forever, some people are destined to leave at the next intersection. The world is like a sieve, what is sifted away is the story, and what is left behind is the memory.

If you should go, you will go, and you will stay naturally, everything in the world has a cause and effect, so why force it. Don't worry about the road ahead, don't force friends. The most comfortable friendship is the same heart and temper, and it is also the same heart and gall and like-mindedness; It is to be in the same boat through thick and thin in times of crisis, and it is also to drink wine together in leisure time.

Instead of talking more than half a sentence of speculation, the Tao is different and does not conspire with each other. When it's time to let go, let go, don't force emotional matters. The person who pretends to be asleep can't wake up, the person who wants to leave can't stay, and the person who doesn't love you can't be reluctant, he won't stay because of your tears.

People always have to look forward, why keep looking back, why bother to settle for the relationship that has ended. Thank you for the people you have walked together, cherish those who are still around, and don't complain about those who have left us. People should be able to take it, but also be able to let go, the past, don't be too persistent, the present, don't be too careful, the future, don't worry too much.

Why let obsession imprison your heart, you know, "There are no waves in the heart, and the mountains are happy."