Doesn t deal with strange men and chats 20

Whether you are a man or a woman, you must consider the following points when dealing with people.

1 Only those who are kind-hearted, sincere to others, and able to put themselves in the shoes of others can gain close friends.

2 There are those who like to hide their true thoughts, feelings, and needs when they associate with others, and they see the world as boring, boring, dull, and meaningless.

They often lack an attitude of arrogance, focusing only on their own inner experience, and their behaviors and habits are sometimes incomprehensible.

Therefore, they can only use their own "transparency", open their hearts, and use enthusiasm and honesty to win the understanding of others. This proper self-disclosure can increase a person's attractiveness.

3 In the course of association, when there is no one to gather with one's companion in the middle of the day, regardless of the occasion or the emotions of others, when he is happy, he talks loudly, and when he dances and dances, he loses his temper or loses his temper.

4 Some people think about themselves in all their dealings with others, only care about their own needs and interests, emphasize their own feelings, and regard others as tools for their own goals and selfish desires. Lack of respect for the value and interests of others, and disregard for the situation and interests of others.

We must have a clear understanding, renew ourselves, accept ourselves, no matter who we interact with, we must not be arrogant or humble, neither please others, but also satisfy our vanity by winning praise, and we do not need to show ourselves in front of others, show off ourselves, so as to improve our own worth. The value lies in oneself and does not change with the evaluation of others. In this way, you can gradually eliminate suspicion and reason, so as to gain the respect of the majority.

Fight the feeling and talk What you want to say Don't worry too much It's much easier to talk to a man than a woman What to say more and do it a few times Grope for two days to know Don't worry about a little thing So is it very speculative and topical when you chat with women?

Haha, it's more fun to talk to girls, but it's also fun to get along with buddies

In our life, in the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet the person who can go through the whole life together, when you do, don't give up. But many friends told me on WeChat that when I met that person, sometimes I added WeChat, but I didn't know what to talk to each other, so today we will sort out how to avoid talking to death when chatting with strangers or unfamiliar people of the opposite sex.

Expand on the key words in her words

Whether we are chatting with acquaintances or strangers, what we are most afraid of is that we have nothing to talk about. At this time, it is necessary to extend according to the key words in the other party's words. For example:

A: I bought a cake yesterday, it is very cute, it is the shape of a little rabbit, I am reluctant to eat it.

B: yes, it's not delicious, I've seen several kinds of cakes on the news before, they're beautiful, but they're expensive. But I thought I wanted to get married after arguing about it, but I don't have a girlfriend yet, so I'm going to work hard and be sure to surprise her.

This not only expresses his current state to the other party, but also shows his love for life, and most importantly, arouses the curiosity of the other party - what kind of cake is this and what kind of girlfriend he wants to find.

Make eye contact

Eye contact can be regarded as a kind of body language, as the saying goes, people's eyes do not deceive, when in a conversation, looking into the other person's eyes can make the other person feel that you value him. If you want the other person to open up and chat with you, eye contact can be said to be essential. At the very least, it can make each other feel that both parties are interested in the topic they are talking about.

The most important thing about chatting with people you don't know well is that you don't have much in touch with each other and don't know much about what interests each other. At this time, it is necessary to use interesting keywords to arouse the curiosity of the other party to understand what the other person is interested in. For example:

A: Listen to your accent is xx people.

B: yes, have you ever been there, we have a place with a very good view, and there is a famous movie that was filmed in us.

If the other party's question is about the scenery and she likes to travel, if it is about the movie she often watches movies, then you can use the first method to expand, and there is also a chance to find common interests with the other party.