I have few friends, but I don t have friends who are confidants.

First of all, you need to understand what kind of person you are, and then look for someone who is like-minded with you in the crowd. If you are lucky, that confidant may come to you by himself, but you can't just wait, you have to take the initiative yourself, you have to find it yourself, and if you find it, you must seize the opportunity and try to become friends with him.

If you want to make friends, you first have to open your heart to others, but you have to choose the right person, to borrow a sentence, how to exchange sincerity if you don't pay sincerity.

Summary. There is such a category of people. They are always alone, do not have their own "girlfriend group" or "buddy party", and keep a certain distance from everyone. Many times, we feel that this person has no friends.

We may cross paths with such people for some reason. In the process of contact, I found that he is not eccentric, and even very friendly and easy-going, but you can't be friends with him, and there is always an air of separation between you.

They don't seem to have friends, it's not that they "have a problem". This type of person is not like some people who are naturally sociable, and can fight with a lot of people. They may be quiet, don't like noise, like to immerse themselves in their own world, and do what they are interested in.

If a person has no friends, is it useless to have no confidants.

There is such a category of people. They are always alone, do not have their own "girlfriend group" or "buddy party", and keep a certain distance from everyone. Many times, we feel that this person has no friends.

We may cross paths with such people for some reason. In the process of contact, I found that he is not eccentric, and even very friendly and easy-going, but you can't be friends with him, and there is always an air of separation between you.

They don't seem to have friends, it's not that they "have a problem". This type of person is not like some people who are naturally sociable, and can fight with a lot of people. They may be quiet, don't like noise, like to immerse themselves in their own world, and do what they are interested in.

There are not many friends in the essence, not to mention that there are no friends in the class, it doesn't matter.

Nowadays, there are many years of university life, and I don't know how many people in the class are, because there are not many opportunities to participate in activities with my classmates except for regular classes. In addition, university classes are relaxed, seats are freely chosen during class, and most people will sit with roommates they are familiar with, so it doesn't matter if there are no friends in the class who are worth befriending. University life is divided into two parts: club and class study, so the people you know in college are also divided into three groups, the first is the most familiar college roommate who usually lives together, and the second depends on whether you participate in class activities or actively participate in club activities.

Generally, if you are not a class committee, you choose to participate in club activities, and at this time, most of your friends are from other classes in other colleges, so it is normal for you to have no friends in the class.

Maybe you are worried that you don't have a close friend in the class, so you don't have someone to talk to about and someone who can help you solve the problems that happen in the class. But in fact, I think that friends who are far away can listen to you better, analyze the problems you encounter more objectively, and better help you solve them. One of my high school roommates was just a good friend when he was in high school, and he wasn't particularly good.

After the college entrance examination, we were admitted to different universities, all of them went to places where we were not familiar with life, and we didn't have friends who had a good time when we first entered the university, so we often chatted, and she would ask me questions about the problems she encountered, and she would comfort me when I was in a bad mood, and now we have become good friends who talk about everything.

So I think it doesn't matter if you don't have friends in the class, it's important to know how to get along with people.

If you want to find a confidant who really belongs to you, you must first improve your own temperament and cultivation, so that you can find a confidant who can have topics and hobbies with you.

If you want to find your confidant, first of all, you must have the same three views, and if you don't say anything, he also knows what you are thinking, and you don't have to please too much, the two have a very tacit understanding.

If you want to find a true confidant, you should first have a very honest attitude and trust people.

It's enough to think it's normal, and it's okay to think it's not normal. A friend is someone who is friendly with each other. A close friend is to be able to understand each other and understand each other's minds. To have such a friend, the following prerequisites must be present:

First, live and work together for a while. Their respective life beliefs, living habits, and style of dealing with people and things are very familiar with each other, and they are relatively close and compatible.

Second, the level of two people is basically the same, assuming that one person is very high-end and the other person is very vulgar, two people will not be able to talk together, and they will not be able to think of a piece, and it will not be easy to become friends.

Third, both people have the behavior of helping each other, and when the other party is in trouble, the other party will help from the heart.

In life, it is a very happy and sweet thing to have a close friend. But sometimes we don't have the environment to make friends, or we don't treat and help others sincerely, and we will definitely not have friends in our lives. Because friends are each other's affairs, they are indifferent, and friends will not take the initiative to come to the door.

Some friends are friends of wine and meat, everyone mixes together, and when there is something, they all make up a number of people together to make a noise. It's easy to go astray when such friends are together. He was a good law-abiding citizen, but sometimes, for the sake of righteousness, he stuck a knife in the ribs for his friends, violated the criminal law, and harmed others and himself.

Don't be a friend like that.

Having a close friend for a lifetime will add a lot of fun to life. However, due to various reasons, it is normal for you to have no close friends. Have a lofty belief in life, have a good life rule, abide by the law, be open-minded, and live a happy life.

If you just want to know if it's normal, then there's something wrong with that. My personal opinion is that I don't think you're normal or abnormal to you.

But if the question you really want to ask is that you feel uncomfortable or miserable about not having a close friend, or you feel like you are actually a close friend worth having. So you might ask yourself why this is the case, and ask yourself from yourself.

Because although I have a lot of friends, but I don't have a heart-to-heart with others, I just want to maintain a phenomenon of more friends, the real good friends are not more, but when you have something, she will not be the first to help, no matter how many friends there are.

I don't think you need to think about your own reasons, are you not friends with you? If you don't want to make friends with your friends, they won't treat you seriously.

It is actually very difficult for a normal person to find a true soulmate, which requires some chance. Don't be too annoyed and demanding.

Because people nowadays are more greedy, they always put their own interests first, and will make some friends from the aspect of interests, which is a common phenomenon in today's society.

Just because you have a wide range of friends doesn't mean that your friends will know you, it depends on how you make friends and the friends you make.

If it's when you're in the middle of the spring breeze, they're vying to make friends with you; And when you are frustrated, they leave you, then they are not close friends.

In addition, if you don't respect your friends and make friends well, you won't have a good friend.

Because it is difficult to find a confidant, there are many friends, but there are few who understand themselves, and a friend who is really good to you needs to be cherished.

I think I still haven't opened my heart, the most important thing to get along with friends is to be honest with each other, don't be afraid of being hurt, there is always someone who is worth treating her well.

I think it's really difficult to find a bosom friend now, because people are more realistic, they are all interest-oriented, if you will give the other party some benefits, then you are happy to be a bosom friend with you.

Because people nowadays are very realistic, they value interests more, and there are not many friends who really make friends.

Friends" are two words, every word. When the ceiling is not encountered, the friend can still be maintained, as long as the self-interest of one of them is touched, the estrangement will be created.

When I was young, I had 5 to 6 friends, and as time passed, there were no 6 left. One of the biggest reasons is that an event touches the interests of one of them. Always blindly pay, others treat you as a fool.

Dig out your heart and lungs to him, talk about ideas, ambitions, he does keep his eyes turning, the surface is in line, but in fact, he hopes that you don't succeed and don't work hard. I hope to be like them, pursuing so-called freedom. Maybe for them, at the age of 20, working part-time or changing jobs every year, going home with a month's salary in the first month, and leaving home with a ticket after the new year, this is their so-called freedom, when the ideals are not in the same direction, let alone talking about friends, let alone on the same road.

It's not easy for us to make a true friend, but we also have to be sincere to others in exchange for someone else's sincerity to you.

People are lonely, and the older they get, the more lonely they become. When you want others to be what they want, you don't have real friends, the world is an independent individual, accept your own imperfections, accept "a friend of a word", "accept yourself who can live with loneliness".

As the saying goes, a thousand dollars are easy to get, but a confidant is hard to find. Confidants are something that can be met but not sought, and the level of friends is not the same, some are nodding friends, and some are not brothers and sisters, better than brothers and sisters. I think on the road of life, with sincerity and others, meet like-minded people with similar interests, on further development, if you can't meet, don't force it, time is so precious, used to enhance and improve yourself, if you are in full bloom, butterflies come, when you are good enough, you will definitely attract people as good as you, you will definitely find the confidant who can go all the way with yourself, if you really don't find that person who walks with you, you have become a person who is so strong that you don't need help from others, In short, what kind of life depends on your own choice.

I thought it could, but it wasn't anything, and that's something that a lot of people have experienced.

Thinking that you can climb down with your hands is actually just a life attitude that does not get discouraged and does not give up.

So being alone is actually a kind of enjoyment, and people who are alone have friends, as long as you don't dislike your current life.

Don't be demanding that you make a few friends who are all confidants, it's right to make friends, and it's just one or two people who can become confidants in the end. The friendship of gentlemen is as light as water, as long as the friends are not wine and meat, a lifetime is enough.

If your sincerity can't be exchanged for the other party's sincerity, then there is no need to continue dating him. A friend must be a true friendship between two people who are willing to give each other and do something for each other.

Being able to see through these problems means that you are a little more mature, but you can't be so pessimistic, you are working hard to succeed, there will inevitably be bumps and bumps on the road to success, as long as you have confidence, everything will be fine, first try to communicate with your relatives and friends, get the recognition of your family, and then slowly communicate with people from the outside world, there will be people who understand and support you, come on.

Only those who have passed the test of reality can be called true friends, and they must stay away from those friends who drink and meat.

Confidants are hard to find, and if you have many friends, you may only be able to make friends in the end.

The so-called friend and confidant, only if you treat him sincerely, he will pour out his heart and lungs to you, the so-called heart-to-heart for people's heart is this truth.

A true confidant is hard to find, treat friends with sincerity, and you will meet like-minded friends.

I think that if friends are good, they should get along well, and if they are not good, they will live their own lives.

Treat others sincerely, get along well, interact more, understand each other more, and help each other.

Friends also need to keep a certain distance.