It s hard for me to trust men, what to do, I don t trust men, what to do?

It may be that you haven't met someone who really loves you, if you do, even if you escape, he won't give up easily, your escape is a test of the person who pursues you, if you really like him, try to open your heart once, if you want to know if he loves you, just test him (provided that you like him), but don't be too much, give a little hint, otherwise, you will lose the person you love, because no matter how much you can hold on to a person, he also has times of despair and tiredness... If you meet a boy who likes you and you have feelings for him, try to open your tight window and don't let his clattering hooves become a beautiful mistake. I wish you all the love you get soon...

Did you grow up in a single-parent family?

Do your dad and mom have a bad relationship?

Hee-hee, I guessed

Not all men are bad, first change that mind, and then everything will be easy.

I'm 21 years old, and I still have my first kiss! Hehe, until now I still innocently think that I am a treasure, and it is more difficult to find a girl like us than to find a dinosaur. Ha ha!

To be honest, it's really either that there is something wrong with the heart, or that they don't trust each other. Maybe it's the right person, so wait! It's okay, he'll show up sooner or later, it's just a matter of time, it's definitely not our problem.

I wish you an early departure from single women!

Shu Chang said that this is called "love impotence", and he has seen too much of the division and integration between men and women! Touch your heart low!

You're dangerous, once you fall in love with someone, you don't even want to die, pitiful.

Men can't be 100% trusted, but they can't be in love, you can try to open up and communicate with them, and choose the best.

This is too much of my own heart.

Can you talk to me? There are a lot of good men, too.

Questions From Readers: I'm 34 years old, and I don't have any trust in men. When I was 16 years old, I found out that my father was actually my stepfather.

So much so that for many years, I felt empty and lonely, as if I was always an outsider in my life. I've been in relationships with multiple men, but they all ended up the same way. Now, I have a very nice boyfriend.

But I always wanted to get a kind of affirmation of love from him, to make sure that he wouldn't go out and hang out with other women. How can I keep myself from repeating the mistakes of the past? Psychologist Lucy Bereford:

Losing trust in any one person can be a terrible thing, not to mention a disappointment in your family, and even more disastrous blows. It's as if the most trustworthy thing in your life is no longer reliable. And when you were in adolescence, you found out this terrible news, and it was painful.

Adolescence is an important time when we begin to build personal awareness and develop a sense of self. I'm guessing that your insecurity stems from ignorance of your biological father and the discovery of a family secret. The comfort you get in a man today does not ease the anxiety of the great confusion you faced in that adolescence.

It stems from the fear you planted during that period: the fear of losing your man. It's a repetition of the fear of losing your father.

I'm sure you need to find a psychologist to help you break the fear and low self-esteem that comes with feeling abandoned. At the same time, I think it's necessary for you to deal with your relationship with your biological father. It seems that you are suspicious of all men and feel that other women will snatch "him" from you at any time.

In counseling**, you will be given an environment that will help you. Recommendation: Don't believe anything your boyfriend says, believe and return to the banquet with no belief Test recommendation:

How much trust do you have in others?

There are too many men who are worth counting, and there are only a few men who are not worth trusting, one of which is a man who has to invest in order to develop with you.

If you are hurt by a man like Bi Xian, don't treat your feelings with the mentality of "there are no good things in men all over the world", you have to look at the choice of this kind of "thing" in the face of interests, if he chooses to sacrifice your feelings to fulfill his own interests, then you are not worth paying for this person, because in his eyes you are worthless.

Good men are everywhere, and it is important to wipe your eyes and keep a calm heart. Set a bottom line for yourself, and if you cross this bottom line, don't choose.

Don't go to a matchmaking ** or a matchmaking center, you won't be able to find a partner.

I'm telling you that people who don't lie are all men, and men don't have to be liars! Respond to the kind of people you meet!

Some can't, some cannot.