Lonely people sometimes need friends

Don't think too low of yourself, and don't ask too high for the definition of friends, you just need to be yourself, as long as you feel that you are worth paying for, you will pay, I believe there will be a response!!

I've been lonely for 20 years, I don't have a true friend, I'm the opposite of you, I've been everyone's pistachio since I was a child, I'm happy with whomever I'm with, someone asks me, I help, but when I was in junior high school, no girl can really be friends with me, they always use it to achieve their goals, I hate it, and from the day I graduated from junior high school, I don't need friends anymore, because I'm tired of hating, I don't want to be careful everywhere, no friends, people don't die.

And now I have a calm heart, I can't say that I have no desires, no longer care about things, no longer have feelings for people, no longer have illusions about love, I don't think you want to be like me.

So let me give you a few pieces of advice.

1.Don't say that your classmates don't match your personality, have you ever thought that it's your own problem?

2.There may be no return for paying, but there is definitely no return for not paying?

3.Ask yourself, are you sincere in your contact with your classmates?

4. Everything has two sides, don't drill the tip of the horns.

5.The last point is, no matter what others do to you, don't care.

No, there are many kinds of friends, and everyone has their own privacy.

There are some things that you may not want to tell others.

It's good to communicate more with others, and don't think about everything so complicated.

Friends are far and near, and if you want, I would like to make friends with you.

I'm the same way, when others have something, they will keep contacting you, when they encounter troubles, they can only solve them by themselves, and most of the ** received from others are 'I'm annoyed, I'm tired' and the like, no way I'm used to it, I also want to find a true friend!

Interpersonal relationships are as deep as the sea, slowly realize and practice.

Each one is lonely.

Don't deliberately pursue something.

It is difficult to find a close friend.

Not having friends can make you feel lonely. But it doesn't matter, the most important thing to do when you encounter difficulties is to actively solve the problem. From your description, you can see that you are an introvert, and if you want to solve the problem of loneliness, you can try to change yourself.

There are a few things I suggest you can try: fall in love. You can get to know your partner through blind dates, etc.

In the process of cultivating a relationship with the other person, improve your social skills. The most important thing for others to like to be friends with you is to do what they like and listen. Whether you end up together or not, you'll get something out of it.

If you succeed in being together, the problem of loneliness will be solved. 2.Internet.

In reality, if you are embarrassed to talk to others, you can choose to be active on the Internet. You can play the game and you'll meet interesting teammates. You can post on Weibo, post on Moments, and others will see you.

After a long time, it is natural that someone will comment on you and pay attention to your life. On the chat software, find a colleague you are in contact with often, chat with him about work problems, or complain. 3.

Change of character. If you see someone at a party and are envious, you can ask if they can bring you along. If you ask, you will have a chance to participate.

If you don't ask, you'll never have a chance. Speak more and share your thoughts with those around you. Hopefully, my advice will be helpful to you, and every day you will improve a little bit by changing a little bit.

People who don't have many friends don't necessarily feel lonely, because some people don't need friends by nature, and some people have adapted to not having friends.

In fact, most people can't stand their loneliness, because for them, if they are lonely, they will not have that happy life. Therefore, many people do not want to live in solitude.

But this kind of people are only a part of the population, and not all people are like this. There are some people who have not been given the motivation to do anything together or the people around him since he was a child, or who have not given him the feeling of wanting to be involved in other people's lives.

For this kind of person, they will not let you be lonely no matter what, because such a group of people have adapted to their own lives, so if there are many people around, he will make himself feel very tired.

So people who don't have any friends don't necessarily feel lonely, the key is to see what the person thinks in their hearts. If the person's heart is that he is good alone, then he feels happy even if there is no one around him.

But if the person's personality is to be recognized by others, and to see others feel good about himself, it means that the person needs to live in a collective.

For this kind of person, if he doesn't have any friends around, he will feel very lonely, because he needs others to identify with him, so that he can make his life better.

So I don't think anyone who has any friends doesn't necessarily feel lonely. Because some people have their own way of life, some people live by themselves, eat by themselves, do some things they like, he feels that this is what he really needs, he doesn't want to indulge in some social interactions, and he doesn't want to make friends.

Therefore, people with different personalities, when they do things or when they deal with others, they will have different ideas. As long as a person feels that his life is okay and he feels happy, this is enough, there is no need for everyone to think about the same things.

Hello, people who don't have friends sometimes really feel very lonely, because no friends are always alone, to ** are all alone, people need to have friends, no matter what you are doing, you have to get along with others, if you say that you encounter any difficulties, you can also talk to a friend, someone to share your happiness with you. You can also share your thoughts, if you have no friends, you can only digest alone, you have no one around, and you will become very lonely.

If you say that you have a lot of interests and hobbies, a person can do a lot of things without friends, a person must learn to enjoy his loneliness, but he cannot be without friends, but also learn to get along with others and make more friends, because more friends, he will also feel happy.

People who don't have many friends don't actually feel too lonely, after all, they still have family and have their own hobbies besides work, so they don't feel lonely.

No, because people actually spend most of their time alone, and sometimes they get used to this kind of life, but they feel that they will be very comfortable and do whatever they want.

It depends on your personal qualities. People with high literacy, because they read a lot, do not feel lonely.

I'm probably the kind of person who has fewer friends and sometimes feels lonely, but I've learned to enjoy solitude.

I think there is always a long way to go by yourself in this life, no one can accompany you to the end, no matter how close your relationship is, no matter how dependent you have been, you will meet different companions at different times, don't panic, don't be afraid, just cherish each other in the days when you can get along.

I sometimes even fear having too many friends, because I often have to think about them, chat with them, communicate with them, and communicate with them, afraid of what I will do if I neglect anyone, so I firmly believe that it is enough to have three or five confidants in life, I never imagined that I would live a very lively life one day, I was a little afraid of being irrational in the group.

When I can't find someone to accompany me, I have books, I have **, I have myself, I can see what changes have changed in my heart, recall my childhood injuries, and heal myself.

Maybe it's because I'm not the kind of person who is good at socializing that people will say this, in short, I am me, I don't need to be someone else, it's good to love socializing, it's good to love socializing, and it's good not to love socializing.

In fact, some people choose to be alone, and when they are alone, they can do what they like to do and get a full sense of happiness. On the other hand, there are those who have a rich social experience but still feel empty and lonely. People often misunderstand that loneliness only happens to older people, people who are not good at communicating, or who are shy, and those who are very good at talking and socializing will not have such a feeling of loneliness.

But that's not the case, loneliness is prevalent in our whole society, whether you are rich, powerful, celebrity, poor, handsome, ugly, beautiful can not stop loneliness from coming, because it is a part of our lives. So some people will, but some people won't.

People who don't have many friends don't feel lonely, some people just accompany you for a while, and no one will be with you forever, but there will be people who will always be with you, and sometimes you can enjoy the time of being alone.

It's not really lonely, everyone comes to this world by themselves.

Of course, there is no one to talk to, only bury the words in your heart, and after a long time, you will feel lonely and lonely.

Not necessarily. It varies from person to person, and everyone's situation and mental capacity are different.

How boring a person is, and there is no one to talk to, it must be lonely, and there will naturally be a sense of loneliness in my heart.

Not necessarily, it varies from person to person.

I don't have time to be alone, earn money to support my family, rush every day in order to achieve my small goals, and really enjoy the moment when I am alone and not disturbed.

It's only occasionally, and you can't make new friends if you don't have any friends, so what are you afraid of?

Everyone lives their own wonderful life.

What are you doing at the moment, are you still sleeping, or are you still running around because of the helplessness of life, or you are still working overtime and night because yesterday's design draft was not done, or ......Whether you have lost confidence in life, are full of fear of tomorrow, and are full of ...... to give up on your goals?I'm still worried about what to do with tomorrow's exam, I'm still busy with the design draft to be submitted tomorrow, and I'm still helpless about the utility bill to be paid tomorrow......

Friends, whether you feel tired on the way to life, whether you feel tired at night when you rush to the design draft, whether you feel lonely on the way to study, whether you want to give up your goals, whether you want Zhaogao to indulge your ......Friends, no matter how tired you are on the road to life, please also have hope, in fact, you should be fulfilled, because today's busyness may be tomorrow's family peace; No matter how much you want to give up on the night of rushing for the manuscript, don't give up easily, because that is evidence that others recognize you, so you have to behave well; No matter how lonely you may be on the way to study, do not be discouraged, because you learn more about the faith and trust in Allah, who will give you a lot of graceful ......

No matter how tortuous the road ahead is, don't give up, a new day, a new hope, "today's things are done today" never let your today be boring, we don't know who will arrive first tomorrow, but don't waste today, let us live a full life now, this is the joy of life, we don't think about what will happen to us in the next moment, God guesses everything to Allah! Our life has been arranged for us, we just have to play it out, we may encounter a lot of setbacks, but don't give up, that dregs is Allah's answer to your prayer and your test, Allah is with the ......... the resilient

Friend, in fact, you are not alone along the way.

Aren't those who seem to have a lot of friends lonely? Of course not. The sun rises and sets, friends gather and disperse, relatives pass away, and children grow up.

In the dead of night, when you find that your colleagues or friends who think you have a good relationship with are blocking you, when you are isolated, when you insist alone, when you are sick, when you want but can't get it, you may never be able to get rid of loneliness, you may always be exhausted by the emotional torture of ups and downs, and even despair.

In the words of the philosopher, people are born alone.

Ordinary people don't have the acumen of philosophers, so how do we think about it?

The autumn wind blows on the body, and it is cool. The wind blows, the peripheral nerves of the surface layer sense that the outside temperature is lower than the body surface temperature, send signals to the cerebral cortex, and the cerebral cortex responds to stress, on the one hand, goosebumps rise to reduce the rate of heat loss, and at the same time send advanced instructions to keep warm.

Voles stock up on food for the winter in the autumn wind, and geese fly south in the autumn wind. Animals are just instinctive, but this instinct can help them survive the winter.

Loneliness is a naturally occurring higher level of suffering, similar to cold, heat, hunger, and sickness. Unlike the seven sufferings in Buddhism, the seven sufferings have specific references. And loneliness comes and goes without a trace, and it is often beyond words to be truly impressive.

Loneliness often does not occur alone, but is often accompanied by anxiety or confusion or depression.

Loneliness is a real condition, and it's good to accept it and get along with it.