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I have experienced so many emotional problems, and I have also helped others solve a lot of emotional-related problems.
It is really not easy to meet someone who truly loves you, and it is only after looking back thousands of times in the past life that you can pass by in this life.
This is what you cultivated in your previous life.
Don't be influenced by the outside world and be bold in love.
I don't know about you, but I think the girl you like is a good girl.
But it is precisely because of her obedient female personality that she is destined to have no opinions.
You have to create, find, and cultivate your own feelings.
And she didn't have a position of her own.
If she can persevere, what can her parents do?
If she "doesn't marry you", even if you break up, just ask, with her resolute attitude of "you don't marry", which boy dares to love her???
Whatever she chooses, I hope you'll stick to it. Knowing that she makes a decision.
I sincerely wish that a lover will eventually become a family.
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Don't take reluctance as feelings, maybe you have been numb, you have only been a human being for a few decades, and you have met countless people, so why bother with the past.
If 2012 is the end of the world, how do you cherish the rest of your life?
Is it worth it?
Instead of a sad face every day, it is better to choose with your own perseverance.
It's really hard and hard to let go of someone, so there's no need to let go, and there's no need to forget.
When a long time has passed, reminiscing about the past is just a smile, a better future will be waiting for you, and the person who belongs to you will also be waiting for you, the same. Happiness is achieved by one's own efforts,!
Thank you. Or the best.!
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Since they met on a blind date, they probably know the basic things such as family background and work, right?
Is there a misunderstanding?
If there is a misunderstanding, try to solve it.
If it's just to look at you unpleasantly, I don't like you. There's no way to give up.
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It depends on what the woman's family is dissatisfied with you. If it is an unchangeable appearance, family background, etc., it is recommended to give up. If you're not satisfied with your current career, then you can make an effort to impress them!
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If you still love it, you will continue...
Why do you want to give up, you won't live with your father-in-law for the rest of your life
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Marriage is the joint action of two people, and since one party has announced his withdrawal, it is meaningless for the other party to insist.
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Sometimes, it's time to let go, and family members are much more important than people who haven't married......
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I feel that this kind of love should be insisted on,,, love should be a matter of two people, and all other people can't control your love, they are all outsiders, including your parents and even your children in the future!
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If the woman's family really disagrees with you, even if you marry in the future, there will be a shadow. MM's attitude is very important, if she is more assertive, fine; If you listen to your parents a lot, mm is more concerned about your parents' feelings, and they will be more affected, and it will be the same after marriage, and then you will have conflicts over trivial matters.
Besides, there are many big trees in the forest, so you don't have to hang them all by one. Ask yourself
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Find out the reason, prescribe the right medicine, and make the mother-in-law and mother-in-law satisfied、、、 isn't that okay? Why do you question your feelings in turn? Or is there something wrong with you guys at all, and it's an excuse?
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Personally, I think we can fight for it again. If consent cannot be obtained, there is no need to proceed. Marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also involves the problems of two families.
1. Try to work hard
In the face of the opposition of the woman's parents, it is still necessary to have the determination to persevere. First of all, it is necessary to find out the specific reasons for the opposition of the other party, prescribe the right medicine, and change their original attitudes and ideas. The second is to take a step-by-step approach, constantly testing and approaching, so that they can unconsciously understand your true character and style.
Finally, let them feel your affection for their daughters, as well as their sense of responsibility and responsibility, so that they can feel at ease to hand over their daughters to you. Every child is a treasure in the palm of their parents' hands, so they will have a stricter attitude and requirements towards the other half of their children. As long as you can be good to the woman as always and give her a happy life, they will be influenced sooner or later and be willing to accept the person of their daughter's choice.
Second, choose to give up when the situation cannot be reversed
Of course, there are also some parents who will behave very toughly, indifferent to their daughter's choice, and insist on their own opposition attitude. In the face of this irreversible situation, I personally feel that we should remain rational, think carefully about the problems, and think about future plans. A marriage that cannot be approved by parents is like a thorn stuck in the throat, although it is not fatal enough, it will interfere with people's emotions at any time, affect the life of the couple, and eventually collapse.
Therefore, if you find that you still can't change the attitude of the other party's parents after working hard, then choose to give up and stop the loss in time.
All in all, in the face of the situation where the woman's parents do not agree, the first thing is to maintain a positive attitude and work hard. If you really can't change it, then you should be rational and don't have to continue to entangle.
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It depends on the relationship between the two of you, but also on your attitude towards your future life, and I personally think you don't need to pay too much attention to the views of both parents.
The main reason for this is that marriage itself is a matter for the young people themselves, and if the elders interfere too much in the young people's marriage, this behavior itself is not conducive to the happiness of the children. The woman's parents may think about the woman's happiness, but there will be a certain generation gap between people of different generations, and we can't judge the suitability of two people just through the opinions of the woman's parents.
First, I suggest that the two of you communicate carefully.
When this happens, it is best to ask for the consent of both parents, because a happy marriage will surely be blessed by both parents. For young people, I suggest that the two of you first communicate the relationship carefully, and at the same time plan for the future of the two of you. Before the two of you consider getting married, it is best for you to win the blessings of both parents so that the marriage has a proper family foundation.
Second, you are responsible for your own feelings, and whether your feelings can continue needs to refer to the opinions of the two of you.
Some young people value their parents' views of their marriage so much that they don't have any opinions. After all, young people's marriages belong to themselves, and young people actually have the most say in whether the marriage of at least two people is happy or not. It is for this reason that I suggest that the two of you have some opinions on the issue of marriage, and it is best not to be too much of a mother.
3. You also need to think about why the woman's parents do not approve of your marriage.
Some elders may have more traditional ideas, and some parents may judge young people by their own values, but whatever the reason, I suggest that both of you think about why the woman's parents do not approve of your marriage. There will always be a cause for everything, and when you can think about this cause, the two of you need to work hard for a common marriage, and try not to give up your good marriage because of the problems of your elders. <>
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There is no need to continue, since the other party's parents specifically agree, it means that it is not suitable for two people to be together, even if they are together, they will not be happy, and the other party's parents may not treat themselves very well in life.
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There is no need to continue, because both of you will have obstacles in your hearts, and you feel that there is an invisible barrier between yourself and each other, which will cause you to have a lot of estrangement and contradictions, which is very detrimental to married life.
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It is still necessary for such a marriage to continue, because two people must work harder to create a better living environment for each other, so that they can overcome the current difficulties.
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There is a need to continue, mainly in the communication problem, any marriage that is opposed by one parent, must strive to obtain the consent of the parents first, get the blessing of the family, and the two people will be happy for a long time.
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I don't think it's necessary to continue, because then I will only have a serious impact on the relationship between the two people, and at the same time, I will have a lot of unhappiness in my heart.
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A marriage that the woman's parents oppose will actually be happy.
Because the marriage that the woman's parents oppose is not the same as the marriage that the man's parents oppose, the marriage that the man's parents oppose has been an opposing role since you were not married, and it has always been an opposing role in your marriage, your man's parents may play a vicious mother-in-law, a vicious father-in-law keeps making trouble with his daughter-in-law, causing a certain burden on his son's marriage, but the woman's parents are not like this, if the daughter is really married to the man, Parents will also stand in a very considerate perspective of their daughter, focus on their daughter, give their daughter some experience from the past, and tell their daughter how to maintain a marriage and how to maintain the relationship between two people, so the marriage that the woman's parents oppose, the woman's parents finally submitted, and both the man and the woman will have a happy future.
Extended Resources: Marriage Advice:
1. Manage your own property well, and the economic foundation is the entry standard for marital happiness. Marriage is not about robbing the poor and giving to the rich, love can be evenly matched, but marriage law protects property rather than love. Having a certain economic foundation will give you many choices in life, rather than being forced to be manipulated by others, especially girls.
2. Don't expect a man to be good to you after marriage, if you can't do it before marriage, it's basically hopeless after marriage. Especially for those boys who have no sense of responsibility before marriage, the chances of expecting a 360-degree change after marriage are slim. Marriage is indeed about running-in, but the three views are not in harmony and the personalities are very different, how to grind?
3. Don't think of marriage as all you have, you still have jobs, friends, dreams and many other things to try that you haven't tried in your life.
Marriage is only the beginning of two people, not the end, you still have a long time to go through, and there are many common goals to accomplish together.
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Hello friends, I think this question is very simple, no more than the man's family support of the marriage will actually be long-lasting, mainly depends on whether the two people will be in love.
If two people will fall in love at first sight or fall in love for a long time, in fact, everyone does not bless them, they can still be long, as long as they don't care about other people's eyes, it is okay, especially the parents and parents may not support you for some reasons at the beginning, but after a period of time, if you can really live a very happy life, and it is a happy pair in the eyes of others, then your parents will bless you very much, because your parents are very happy for us, very good, Even if it wasn't supported at first for some reason, there must be a reason. Maybe you think that you won't be a good match, but in fact, the so-called marriage that is not supported by the man's family will not last long, and that is the real problem between you. If your marriage really won't last long, it can only mean that the man's family is right, that he sees that you will definitely not last long, there must be a problem, so you will not be happy for a long time, it can only prove that they are right, if you can be happy for a long time, then it proves that you are right, so time determines everything.
If you will really be happy all the time, and you will have the crystallization of the love of two people, that is, your children, and then you will be very happy, your parents will definitely support you, even if there is still some mustard in your heart, but you will definitely sincerely bless you and help you watch your children, which is a very normal thing.
So I think this mainly depends on each other, after all, whether it is in love or married, it is only a matter of two people, not a matter of two families, now the times have changed, they are all free to fall in love, free to marry, if you can really last a long time, why not parents? Parents are just for our good, if you can't grow up happily, it can only prove that the man's parents are right. So you must prove it to them, everyone will definitely bless you for a long time, even if the Fang family does not bless, there will be many, many people who think you are very happy, and there will be many, many people to bless you, so not necessarily.
It doesn't have to be someone's blessing, and it's really good only if everyone feels good.
So I think if you really like each other, it doesn't matter who supports each other or not, the important thing is that you love each other, like each other, and are very determined to go to the end with each other, what if that's the case? It's also very good, and it's also good for a long time. It is very likely that you will be blessed by everyone, even if you are not blessed by others, you can still make it to the end.
That's all for me, I hope it can help you.
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Parents have only one idea, that is, they want their children to live a better life in the future, and what the second floor said is also reasonable, you can do premarital property justice, but the most important point is that you and your girlfriend, you must persevere, and you can't have internal problems, otherwise everything will be in vain. Maybe the days will be very "hard", but adults sometimes value sincerity, I want you to prove it with practical actions, and be prepared to fight for a long time, only if you persist for a long time, people can see your sincerity, a bad impression may 10 good impressions can make up for it, and the 11th good impression can give you extra points. So brother, come on, you can only persevere, and don't put too much pressure on your girlfriend, she will be over if she crosses you. >>>More
In my opinion, the love that the family opposes should continue, and the main body of love is the two lovers, which is actually an aspect of interpersonal communication, and it is a process of people's pursuit of intimacy. (Of course, intimate relationships also include relatives, friends, etc.) a relationship, whether to continue, it is best not to judge by external factors, such as parents do not agree, the gift she gives is not as beautiful as Lao Huang next door, she has no money to buy a house, my colleagues don't like her, you can try to consider the internal factors of both parties in love, such as whether he and my three views are the same, whether I am comfortable with him, can I accept his worst and worst, will she understand my feelings, do I still rarely like her, after all, I want to be with him[She] is not with your family, but with you."
In a person's life, there are many people who are destined to pass by, since you missed it, don't look back, cherish the people in front of you, is what you should do now! Wishing you happiness!
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