What to do if you meet a bad friend

This kind of can only accept fate, no matter what, he is your friend, and there will be time to slowly hook up in the future, and it is useless to scold and beat, in fact, he doesn't want to, he just wants someone to help, and it will be painful to lose it then. There is time to teach him how to be a man. Don't think about what others think of you, a person comes to the world to see that his friend is in trouble and doesn't help, and he is tired of him, and it is no longer interesting to come to the world.

If you still want to make friends with him, change him, (scolding himself has a limited brain capacity) I think this kind of person is nothing worth making friends with, don't do it, it's nature, it's difficult to change, unless he wants to change himself.

Landlord, you have used the word "friend". Let others say what they say, no matter how they say it, you still think he is your "friend".

In fact, when people stay together, there are always times when they look awkward at others. Hehe.

Don't mind, after a while, if you feel okay, continue dating.

It feels like he's still like that, so do you still need to talk about him?

What you said above is ruthless enough, if you want to scold, you show him what you wrote, I guess he will be embarrassed enough!

Personal opinion.

If you still want to be friends with him, slowly influence and change him.

Sometimes just talk to him about his shortcomings!

Summary. If a friend thinks that he is useless, you ask him seriously why he has such thoughts, guide him to say all the aspects or examples that he thinks are useless, and then you take that you have the same situation as him, sigh and say, in this way, I also feel that I am useless, and ask others who disagree. If your friend agrees that you are useless, you tell him that you also think, but you believe that you can change, and you don't feel that you are useless, but that you don't work hard enough and the method is not good, so that the effect will be more obvious by showing up and saying it yourself.

If your friend thinks he's useless, you seriously ask him why he has such thoughts, guide him to say all the aspects or examples that he thinks are useless, and then, you take that you have the same situation as him, sigh and say, in this way, I also feel that my pants are useless, and ask others to disagree. If your friend agrees that you are useless, you tell him that you also think, but you believe that you can change, and you don't feel that you are useless, but that you don't work hard enough, and the method is not good.

When a friend feels that he is useless, it is difficult to simply say pure words of encouragement and encouragement, you can take this matter seriously with him, talk about Bibi carefully, and after analysis, when he himself has almost sorted out the source of this idea, and then prescribe the right medicine to encourage, the effect is easy to see immediately. It should be noted that you have to do psychological construction in advance, and you can't let your friends bring you in because they feel that they are useless and very real, and finally it becomes a situation where two people complain about life together.

I am born to be useful, so if my friend feels that he is useless, then you can comfort him and tell him that every old man is unique and useful to society, so that he will not be so inferior.