Dad didn t agree with me going abroad, how to persuade me

Updated on educate 2024-05-15
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First understand why he doesn't let you go abroad, and solve the problem accordingly according to the problem, since the mother agrees, you can ask your mother for help, let your mother do some work, and usually inadvertently infiltrate him more in this regard, the examples around you or something, you are a girl, I think Dad must not worry about you, Dad can't let go of his daughter, just like a daughter getting married, the most uncomfortable thing is Dad. Also, you have to make some promises, send regular messages to your family or something, don't worry.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Kindness. 1. You can write a letter (for why your dad disagrees, and he is determined to be on the table), my classmate tried it and succeeded.

    2, my experience, a little embarrassed, my killer feature, coquettish (girls use the top), grinding a few times has also become.

    3. Convince grandparents and the like to let them help.

    4, anyway, if it doesn't work once, just many times, pay attention to the method, don't make him disgusted.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Tell your father that it is good to go abroad, and don't destroy family harmony because of hard work. First of all, you know the advantages and opportunities of going abroad, and then discuss with your father the advantages and opportunities of going abroad, and mobilize the people and friends that your father respects to persuade your father.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Maybe your father thinks that there is something wrong with you going abroad, and he will talk to him calmly. Problems will always be solved.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Personality and English proficiency should be more suitable for studying there.

    It is advisable to listen less to this nonsense. Compare high school students in the United States to speak again! Especially for finance majors or international business, the language is not good at the average American level! If you don't believe it, it's good to come.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Gold will shine wherever it goes, it is only a matter of time before you study in the United States, you still have many options, it is good to go to high school, undergraduate, and graduate school in the United States, but the high school and some undergraduate education in China are indeed very solid. It's never too late to go to the U.S. for graduate school.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I'm in the same situation as you, but I can't convince the family. Hehe, I'm also a sophomore in high school this year. In fact, I can force my family, my classmates asked me to tell my family, if I don't study abroad, I will die to show them or don't read it, but I can't do it, my family really doesn't give it, on the one hand, because the economy is not enough, why bother, now studying abroad is nothing, and a lot of international students return to China and have no jobs, but I still want to go out, hehe, wait until I graduate from college and then think about it.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    As for what my father said, personality can be changed, but if you don't go through the training, you may always be this character. Self-care ability, today's children, only children, most parents are obedient to everything, poor self-care ability, if not independent, then how can you exercise your self-care ability!! If you can do it yourself, you have to try it to find out.

    Public security abroad is poor, but at home it is not peaceful, and food safety and other problems emerge one after another.

    But you have to think about the long-term situation, whether you will adapt to your life there, because education at home and abroad is very different, including family and school, and it may not be suitable to go there. Many times, the path you choose is very difficult and you have to stick to it, so you have to think about the long term.

    After thinking about it, I told my father that his worries were completely from the father's point of view, which was an instinct of parents for each child, and told him what they thought.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I have been working abroad for many years, and I have seen too many ways to study abroad. I also support your parents' point of view and don't want you to go out sooner.

    Whether you go out early or not depends on your English learning ability, and if you don't have a score of 6 in English, I don't recommend going out. Going abroad is a very important thing in life, and I see too many students who do not enter university at all and do not complete their studies at all. Spend all day with Chinese kids.

    Deceive parents. Good news but not bad news. As a parent, it's not that you're afraid of spending money, and it's not that you don't want to improve, but for your healthier growth.

    At present, the problem of studying abroad at a young age is very serious, and most of the problems are during the period of language study.

    A lot of students really want to study abroad, and the idea is good. Studying abroad is indeed a must-go path for the future. It's also the future.

    But many people are very impetuous, parents for fame, students for the sake of avoiding the college entrance examination, and many people are attracted by the beautiful aura of foreign countries. In fact, studying abroad is very hard. There is growth, there is joy, and there is bitterness.

    Because international students in high school are mentally immature. Self-control is poor.

    1. It is very miserable to be unable to live independently, and you can't cook by yourself in the UK, and there is no delicious food to eat.

    2. There is a language barrier, I don't like to mix with foreigners, and the Chinese coterie is not conducive to improving the language.

    3. Customer service loneliness, if students who have been taken care of by their parents since childhood, it is very difficult to adapt to changes in the surrounding environment. For example, at night, all the shops are closed, there are only bars, and there is no entertainment at all. Being young and lonely is very uncomfortable, and it is dangerous not to have a proper emotional vent, which is painful to grow up.

    4. There is a lot of pressure to study, and I dare not challenge, and the English environment is conducive to becoming a talent and making people crazy. There are a lot of people who can't graduate from university, which is different from domestic mixed universities.

    Therefore, studying abroad should be prepared to suffer, whether it is suitable for you to go out. English must be at least 6 or better. Students who are self-conscious in learning and dare to challenge.

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