How did you survive in the toughest times?

Watching a basketball game, I will always be moved by their fighting spirit, and the true meaning of the Olympics is not to give up until the last minute. The former genius teenager Shaun Livingston is the best role model, when he first entered the NBA, he was expected to be high, but an injury in a game made him almost ruin his basketball dream, almost all doctors asserted that he could not return to the court, but he actively exercised with a tenacious spirit and returned to the court. After traveling for most of the league and finally taking root in the Golden State Warriors, Lin Wenston no longer has excellent physical conditions, but his clean mid-range jumper is still pleasing to the eye.

In the eyes of outsiders, I am a miserable person! In the decades of my life, there is no most difficult, only more difficult! It was my responsibility to my family that kept me alive because my parents were still alive and I had children!

Now although the parents are gone, the children are slowly growing up! So I'm going to live well, even though my days may be getting shorter. We must work hard to live and not let others look down on us.

When my father was diagnosed with cancer, he was stunned, and he didn't have anything in his head but wanted to cure the disease and save his life. It's hard and stressful, and no one can share it. At that time, I thought that if there was a brother or sister, how good it would be, even if I couldn't help anything, even if I was by my side, someone advised me to give up, save people and money, my idea was that even if I wanted to eat, I would have to be cured, and my father would be gone if he had no home, and my father, who had been stinky all his life, suddenly became like a child.

I just wanted to do my best to make him live one more day. Every day in the hospital, I see contact with tumor patients, patients' families, really painful, surgical radiotherapy, full of intubation, I feel uncomfortable to think about, go home after surgery to maintain every day, a little uncomfortable on the frightened, every physical examination I am the whole process of heart rate acceleration, really scared, fortunately after so many years, although the body is not as good as before, but at least can live like a normal person.

I had a period when the efficiency of the enterprise was very bad, which made those of us born in the 70s really feel the difficulties and pressures of life. At one point, I felt that it was difficult, but the pressure was like a sponge. The more you are afraid of difficulties, the more they weigh on you.

I remember that buying a bowl of instant noodles was a luxury back then. Although it was a difficult time, I am grateful for that difficult time. After all, this period has taught me what difficulties in life are and what kind of pressure I should bear.

And what kind of thing should I do in front of what kind of predicament. It was with my own tenacious mentality that I finally got out of the predicament.

As a person with a family, both old and young, there are responsibilities in my heart, so I often think of my parents in the most difficult times, my parents need me to take care of them, I need to be filial to them, how to be filial if I don't make money! The second is also my own children and wife, I have the support of my wife in the most difficult time, and I have children as my spiritual pillars, even if I can't hold on, I have to grit my teeth and persevere!

The people who have supported me through the difficult days are the companions of my parents, who love us the most in the world, and whenever I encounter difficult moments, they are always with me without regrets. When I was stressed, my parents always told me to relax, don't worry, they are there for everything, and it is their meticulous love and care that makes me always firm and brave. Our parents have worked so hard to raise us, and when we see them working day and night to provide us with a good living environment, we are naturally full of fighting spirit.

There are friends who support me through difficult days, friends are people who have a heart with you, in the face of your difficulties and pain, they always do not hesitate to lend a helping hand, I hope you can go through the difficulties as soon as possible, friends know your thoughts at every moment, so they will do their best to help you, it is because of these lovely friends, I was able to go through the difficult days smoothly.

What supported me through the difficult days is **, I like to listen to folk songs, he does not have the intensity of rock, nor the popularity of pop**, folk songs have their own style and taste, folk songs have the ups and downs of singers, listen to these, you seem to see all the beings in the world, everyone is trying to move forward, you must also be full of strength.

There is a saying that difficulties are like springs, if you are weak, it will be strong, and if you are strong, it will be weak.

How lonely you are, how helpless you are, you find that you are looking forward to life at the beginning, you don't dare to look forward to it, and finally you lose the courage that you have to return to the faction, when you survive the most difficult days, probably no one needs it.

Life itself is an ordeal, laughing at the tribulation of life, the knife is not sharpened to rust, people do not grind, the life of complaining can only make people depressed, once you have experienced the most difficult ordeal, you will find that this is a chance to be reborn in the world.

Once a person has really experienced something, his heart will slowly become cold.

When you are at a low point, it may be a good time to know yourself, re-understand yourself, and before you don't know the direction, you would rather stop and think than be too anxious, so that you are more likely to "turn over".

Don't expect too much in return, don't be more serious about gains and losses, helping you is friendship, not helping you as a matter of course, people who don't harm you are good people, this is the best comfort to yourself, and it is also human nature.

Growing up is always hard and painful, but as long as we are willing to work hard, everything will pass!

Encourage those friends who are still living in difficult times, and also remind friends that people have no long-term worries, and being prepared for danger in times of peace is the road of life.