What did you lose and what did you gain for the sake of this relationship?

Don't be too attached, sometimes God lets you leave, and there is a reason for you to leave. This is actually a few years after experiencing the failure of the relationship, when I met her in the past, I found that if it was replaced by the present, I would not have looked at her now, so I couldn't help but ask myself "Was my brain really stuffy, and I still wanted to grow old with her".

I have grown up, I used to think that I was very mature, but now I know that I am naïve and incompetent after going through love, I don't have my own plan, I don't have my own goals. Always go with your temperament and your feelings. Lost too many things, friendships, affection.

A person who once gave his life for love, desperate to cut off relations with his parents for love, everything is too ridiculous, I can't forget it, what did I get in love, except for pain or pain.

I thought that love would make me see new hope and see new light, and I thought that love would make me feel happy and sweet! In this short love story, I played the role of a "stupid woman, a big fool, a big fool", thinking that in love, as long as I sincerely give and love sincerely, I will get the return I want, but in fact, no, it turned out that love only made me experience the pain of bruises and heartaches, which taught me an important lesson in my life and taught me how to love someone in the future. Knowing that love is not a "god rewards hard work" will have a perfect and happy ending, love, let me get a face full of tears and memories, lost my dignity, lost happiness and laughter.

I have grown up and a new understanding of the world and myself, and maybe I have really grown up overnight, and I will no longer be happy for a day because of a word from others, but I will be happy if I am rewarded for my efforts.

I got someone who lived in my heart for 12 years, and I lost that person 12 years ago. I can't promise to love you for how long, but I can promise to love you until you don't love me. Cherish the process, after all, the process belongs to the two of you. As for the results, they are all for outsiders to see.

Why do people grow when they are in love?

In the process of falling in love, it is a process of mutual influence, between lovers in love, every difference of opinion, every quarrel to seek recognition, and every heartfelt communication, in fact, is a kind of growth. Every lover who treats this matter sincerely, in order to avoid the same mistakes, quarrels, and disagreements are no longer reborn. In order to have fewer and fewer unnecessary quarrels, we will try to find ways to integrate and progress, and this process is a kind of growth!

Picture's perception of love: love is the only way to perfect love, and sweet love gives people warmth and makes people believe in beauty. Romance in the preparatory stage leads to positive thinking.

The anxiety and troubles in a relationship, for lovers who think positively, will only make them grow faster, and no matter what kind of love will make lovers gain something.

Dong Qing thinks: No matter what we end up with, the kindness we once had to you is true, even if there is a separation, don't live up to the encounter, I hope you don't regret knowing me, and you are really happy, if you can go back to the past, I will choose not to know you, it's not that I regret it, it's that I can't face the current ending.

Everyone who takes love seriously will pay sincerely, work hard, and look forward to a happy ending. Only after sincere dedication can people gain and grow. Love will make people grow, and smooth sailing love will slow down the growth of people in love.

If the relationship does not go well, it will go through pain, run-in, and then end it by itself. And those who have experienced ups and downs and unsmooth love will make people grow faster, and they will definitely have another understanding of life.

In love, what kind of people will grow and what kind of people will not?

Only those who are deeply in love will reap the fruits of growth.

Only those who work hard to make up for their shortcomings will reap the fruits and grow.

People who are good at coordination and management relationships will reap the fruits and grow.

People who are strong-willed and good at standing up from pain will reap the fruits of growth.

And those who have no love in their hearts and live in anger, anxiety, and pain all day long will not reap the rewards.

Those who are easily knocked down by pain will not reap growth.

What are the gains after a relationship?

In a relationship, it would be a very happy thing if lovers could support each other, make progress together, and work together for a better future. This kind of relationship can make people strong, and can make people learn to take care of another person, including in daily life, psychologically and emotionally. It will also teach people to manage a relationship.

If you want to maintain this relationship, lovers must understand that what can attract each other for a long time must be to constantly improve themselves, increase their talents, and make themselves better people. Only these two people have a future to look forward to.

1. I won't lose my temper with my parents casually, I will remember their birthdays, and I will buy gifts for them on Father's Day and Mother's Day.

2. Seeing those who have lower education and lower ability than me, but are promoted faster than me, I will no longer complain every day, and spend that time on how to improve work efficiency, learn business ability and certification.

3. Learn to enjoy loneliness, I used to eat and watch movies and everything I wanted to find a partner, and I had to find someone to share a house if I rented a house. Now I find that I will not always be accompanied by someone on the road of growth, and I must always learn to live alone, and it is good to get used to it.

4. The messages of colleagues and leaders will not be replied in seconds, so that they feel that I am also busy with work at hand, and I also have time to buffer and think about the wording.

5. When deciding things, I will listen to the opinions of others, especially important decisions will be discussed with my parents.

6. Accept that I am an ordinary person, and a plain and down-to-earth life is suitable for me.

7. The body is the capital of the revolution, no matter how busy you are at work, you will find time to exercise, or run, or play basketball.

8. I feel that the elders are getting older faster than I imagined, and I will go to see them during the New Year's holidays, bring small gifts, one or two small red envelopes.

What I want to express is an open-mindedness and understanding of real life.

For individuals, it is a desirable attitude to live without suffering from gains and losses, not dying at the tip of the horns, having a balanced mentality, and being able to compromise with the past calmly.

Gained a lot, but also lost a lot, such feelings are expressed in one sentence: what was once gained was not cherished.

True love is acceptance, not endurance; It is support, not domination; It's a condolence, not a question.

True love, to thank but also apologize; Be considerate and considerate; We must admit our mistakes and correct them.

True love is not to stare at each other, but to look in the same direction together.

Perhaps, love, is not the search for a perfect person; Rather, learn to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect eye.

If you hold hands, don't do it, just say break up.

Perhaps, love is to give willingly and share joys and sorrows.

Don't wait until you lose it to know how valuable it is; Don't wait until you're hurt to beg for forgiveness; Something is lost and will never come back.

If a person confesses to you, please cherish his love for you no matter what, even if it can only be an ordinary friend; Perhaps there will not be a second time for a person's innocent confession.

Because of kindness, so cute; Because it's cute, it's beautiful; Because of beauty, so yearning; Because of yearning, so in love.

It's not because you're lonely that you love each other, it's about making those who love each other not feel lonely.

It's love, not time, that is able to ** all the trauma.

In a person's life, there will always be a large period of blandness, interrupting unsatisfactory encounters, it is love that makes us think of beauty, and there is still hope.

With love, you don't feel that hardship is a burden.

It is far more important to cherish what you have now than to pursue what you don't have.

I gave two years of my youth and gave him the most precious things, but what I got was his abandonment, cruelty, and ruthlessness.

When two people love each other, they will have a sweet feeling, they want to stick together every day, they can't wait to talk all the time, they feel that time will pass quickly, and they are even willing to make changes for her (him). This change, perhaps, is to gain and lose. Perhaps, in love, you have learned how to care for him and accommodate him, and at the same time, you have lost yourself, you have to care for and accommodate him, and you will naturally put him first in your heart, as for the rest, it is not so important.

Even willing to give up everything they have to love. Then, the so-called gain and loss are not meaningless. To gain is to lose, to lose is to gain, in love, love is selfless, so don't worry about what I gain and what I lose in love. ‍‍

Love has made me experience the feeling of happiness and sweetness! But it also made me feel the pain of heartache.

Perhaps, because they have been in love for a long time, the two finally entered into marriage, and the so-called lovers eventually became "tired". This ending is the best, after all, I got a marriage. Although some people often complain that marriage is the grave of love, no matter what, this marathon long-distance running love finally got a reasonable and satisfactory "burial".

As for what is lost, it depends on how each person feels. Perhaps, after being in love for a long time, you will get an emotion that turns from thick to light. The true love that I once thought was moving the world ended up becoming a glass of boiled water, which made you tasteless to drink, and it was a pity to abandon it.

There is also a situation, that is, if you have been in love for a long time, you may go your separate ways, because you have been in love for a long time, so you will get a hurt injury to the bones when you break up, and maybe there is a helplessness that you hate to the bones. What you lose, of course, is the person you think you can entrust for life. ‍‍

I think what I got in love was a change in myself, knowing how to take care of myself. Before, I thought that I could do whatever I wanted, but after that, I knew that people should not be too sloppy, and if they were sick, they should buy medicine and take medicine, and if they were serious, they should go to the doctor, and they should not go with it. And what has been lost is probably part of the freedom.

In the past, a person felt that he didn't have to worry about what others thought about what he wanted to do, and he could do whatever he wanted. Later, I will wonder if he will worry about me or not, and will take his opinion into account. In the past, you could play with your male classmates at will, you could chat with the opposite sex or hang out, but now doing this will make him jealous and make him unhappy, so he will consciously not do it.

This is all something he willingly lets out, and some of it is something he forcibly does not allow to do. For example, you can't wear pants or skirts above the knee without his permission. For example, you can't go to KTV with other people without him by your side.

In love, I gain, be strong, learn to love myself, what I have lost, too much, too much, the past will be passed by it, no longer think, I will look forward and never stop.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; also because he loves you, and he changes your interest into his interest or because he loves you;

There is no reason to like someone, and the unrepentant giving, as long as you can be with the person you love, you think it is worth it;

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find such a person around you, please cherish it;

Please remember, the stars that can't be picked up, always the brightest, the little fish that slips away, always the most beautiful, the missed movies, always the best, the lost lover, always the best understanding of you;

In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back;

If you fall in love, don't give up easily, make awkward trouble, and you may regret it for a while; But if you give up, it may make you regret it for the rest of your life; The life that has experienced love is beautiful, and the love that can't stand the test is not profound, and the love that makes life rich and tested is perfect. Bless you without regrets.

It was a very lonely day, and it was raining a little sadly.

It's a very caring me and an indifferent ending.

Once worked hard for love.

Once ran away for love.

Escape from the familiar past, escape from the strange you.

It was a very lonely day, and it was raining a little sadly.

It's a very caring me and an indifferent ending.

I don't know your news, I don't know your secrets.

Only the sweet past, only the strange you.

In those black and white dreams.

There is no memory of blue and purple.

At this age of meeting and breaking up.

Only traces of rain and wind were left.

For the continuation of that pale love.

For the beauty that is gained and lost.

Let this wipe away the tears that flow out again.

Turned into a rain full of lovesickness.

For the continuation of that pale love.

For the beauty that is gained and lost.

Let this wipe away the tears that flow out again.

Turned into a rain full of lovesickness.

It was a very lonely day, and it was raining a little sadly.

It's a very caring me and an indifferent ending.

I don't know your news, I don't know your secrets.

Only the sweet past, only the strange you.

In those black and white dreams.

There is no memory of blue and purple.

At this age of meeting and breaking up.

Only traces of rain and wind were left.

For the continuation of that pale love.

For the beauty that is gained and lost.

Let this wipe away the tears that flow out again.

Turned into a rain full of lovesickness.

For the continuation of that pale love.

For the beauty that is gained and lost.

Let this wipe away the tears that flow out again.

Turned into a rain full of lovesickness.

For the continuation of that pale love.

For the beauty that is gained and lost.

Let this wipe away the tears that flow out again.

Turned into a rain full of lovesickness.

For the continuation of that pale love.

For the beauty that is gained and lost.

Let this wipe away the tears that flow out again.

Turned into a rain full of lovesickness.