I was so depressed, I was so angry that I was called so stupid! How do I refute him 30

Why be angry? In fact, it's not that he says stupid and you get angry, it's that he says stupid, and you think you're stupid so you get angry. Why are you angry with yourself, he says stupid is his business, you don't think it's your own business.

Why care, you can him, I'm stupid, are you a few pounds smarter than me?

The mouth grows on others, you care about him, it's best to be yourself, don't care what others say, you don't live for others.

Scold him when he's angry, or use a neutral approach. You can say, 'I don't think you're smart, how can you be embarrassed to say me, I'm speechless', 'I'm stupid!' It's about your", "Can you speak better, why are you so uneducated", "How old are you, I'll use you to teach you".

The mouth grows on others, what people say is something, you don't take it seriously is your business, don't block yourself,

You tell him that a smart person doesn't say someone else is stupid...

You just say to him, "You know me too well," and we say that we know each other.

You're so stupid, you still ask this kind of question. You say he's not smart.

It depends on who. If you have a good relationship with yourself, then it doesn't matter, after all, if you have a good relationship, you won't care about this. If you don't know it, it doesn't matter, they have nothing to do with you, and if you say it or not, you don't have much to lose.

People who say that others are stupid are not smart enough to be ** themselves.

1. Most of the people who say you are stupid and useless have no education, or they are children, so don't pay attention to them.

2. You may be because you have a gentle temper, lack of independent opinions, do what others say, and lack of good performance in a certain aspect, so you lack self-confidence, so you are very sensitive to others saying that you can't do it. You can spend a little more time in a certain area and develop a specialty, and those people will naturally not say that you are useless.

3. Your cousin's matter, tell her to handle it herself, ignore her, you just go away, don't get angry, in most cases, getting angry will only make the other party look down on you more, unless you are a very awesome person, a very awesome person is angry, the other party is afraid, and the non-awesome person is angry, and the other party will only further contempt.

Most people say that you are stupid, then you must have some problems, but you don't want people to say this about you: in fact, you should learn to think more about problems, think more about problems, and talk less about life, and skillfully dissolve people's old impressions of you and build self-confidence.

It is still necessary to control it, and it hurts the body. Send you a word, when you are angry, you think in your heart: You are angry with me, and there is no one to replace you when you are angry. Try to see if you can't.

This kind of person doesn't take into account your thoughts, so it's easy to wear down a person's self-esteem and self-confidence by always hitting people, and it's actually a normal thing to say occasionally, and if you say it too often, it's a bit bad.

Before getting angry, count from 1 to 20 in your heart, and at this time you will think about whether it is necessary to be angry about this little thing. Normally, after 20 seconds, the mood is better.

Sometimes you don't need to care about other people's eyes, the most important word in life is forbearance, forbearance is not weakness, I want to know if you work, you can't bear to enter the society in the future, read more books, you will become more cultivated, more rational, in short, this society is impetuous, some people's quality is very poor, do your best, self-cultivation is the most important.

Don't be so unconfident! Don't underestimate yourself! It has become a habit to say that you are self-contained. Most people are used to it!

Take control! Keep your temper in check. Otherwise, it is useless to regret it.

The best thing to do is to ignore them.

I'm also almost 233, a little bit of control, after all, everyone has their own characteristics.

You should have a good talk with them.

Learn to control your emotions.

Everyone is not born with everything.

Don't look down on yourself.

There is something wrong with yourself. If someone said, "You're a dog," would you be blushing? What do people say about you? What to think.