How do you treat people you don t like but tease you?

I remember that I was a more focused person at work, and I was more meticulous and serious about my work, but sometimes I felt that I was a dull person when it came to the subtle feelings between people.

I remember when I had a job, I met a person, and our partners at work would often communicate with each other because of work problems, so I had more contact at work because of work needs, but I never thought about other things, and the two of us would occasionally be together and invite each other to dinner because of work, but my colleagues thought we had something, first of all, that person was really not the type I liked, and I was more equal to my colleagues. Basically, I have a better relationship with whoever I work with, because when the relationship between people and the land is good, there are many things at work that can be the first to get news, but I don't have too many ideas about anyone! Then the little girl next door to me asked me this question, don't you think that person is chasing you, I asked you where you saw it, it's just a job need and I don't like him!

In fact, when I knew at that time, I felt that this problem bothered me very much, because for me, what I like is always more important than liking myself, at that time my idea was to find a person I liked to fall in love, so people who don't like to tease me bring me trouble, since I was broken by a colleague, I basically watched him walk around the road, and he can try not to talk as much as possible, and try not to go to him if he can, so I am a person who is more afraid of trouble, Some things are better settled early than later, so I'm not one to compromise just because someone else likes me! That's why I don't have a good impression of that kind of person!

I'll just tell him that I already have someone I like, and I'll ask him to get out of the way. But if he doesn't change his teachings, I will just block him.

is particularly disgusted, and then will use more extreme words to shut him up.

I think it's their right, but we can just reject them, don't hesitate, it's not the way to solve the problem. If they interfere with your life, then you can take a tougher approach to denying them.

Obviously I know very well that the other party doesn't like it, but I still have to flirt, such a situation has different psychology for different people, I probably divide this into these situations.

Situation one, I am a very sultry person. Some people like to flirt very much, as long as they are interested, they will flirt, they don't care whether the other party likes it or not, as long as they are happy. What is their psychology?

They are very relaxed and casual, even if they make the other person unhappy, they will not care, probably, sultry is already a habit of theirs, so they only enjoy the process and do not care about the result.

I have a roommate like this, she is a girl who likes to be sultry, of course, she is really good at flirting, because there are too many flirtatious people, she will also encounter the kind of situation that does not like to be flirted or the other party has no interest in her, but she will feel that this is a challenge, she will become more and more energetic, she feels that she is happy, she will not care about the other party, she herself said, she will not be able to control herself many times to flirt with each other, this has become her habit.

Situation two, I really like the other person and don't want to give up. If you meet someone you particularly like, how many people can resist flirting? Even if you know that the other person doesn't like you, so what?

Because I like him so much, I can't help but want to talk to him, tease him, and tease him. I think this kind of psychology is also in the past, after all, feelings are not easy to control, once you fall into it, it is difficult to get out, isn't it?

I'm such an example, I used to like a guy very much, so I always liked to talk to him, and I always liked to flirt with people, but he didn't like me.

There must be some reasons for the hard flirting, and what I'm talking about is only a small part of the reason.

This kind of behavior mostly appears among boys, and generally girls will be very strong, and when they know that the other party doesn't like them, they won't go to self-deprecation, of course, just most girls. But boys are different, there will always be thousands of reasons why they can't give up and hug a beauty, so there will be this phenomenon.

The first reason, I think, should be boring, because people who are not boring can't do this. Bored people do everything reasonably, I have seen a boring person wake up in the middle of the night and can't fall asleep and anonymously send some horror ** or ** or something to all his friends, as a result, those who have not fallen asleep are scared half to death, ask him the reason, he actually said that he can't sleep, boring, just want to see who can't sleep like him, what is the difference between this behavior and forcible flirting, it is a boring person who keeps chatting with others in order to find something to do, looking for a sense of existence.

The second possibility is to feel good about yourself, even if you know that the other person doesn't like you, but still believe that you can one day make your wishes come true. I was too confident in myself, I didn't correctly evaluate my ability, and I felt that I was more handsome than Wu Yanzu and richer than Wang Sicong. thinks that the other party doesn't like her because she hasn't faced her heart yet, so she keeps flirting, believing that the other party will one day find out that she actually likes him.

There is also a possibility that he really likes this person, so even if the other party doesn't like himself, he is still unwilling to give up, and he wants to try his best to fight for it, so that the other party can change his mind and be able to like himself.

Finally, it is not illegal to force this kind of behavior, as long as the other party does not overstep, then you can chat like a friend, and there will be no loss.

It's a waste of your time, stop it, work hard, find a new target to tease, maybe the next target will like you.

If you are too proactive, you will not only waste your time and energy, but you may also make this girl hate you more and more. I'm afraid that even ordinary friends can't do it.

If you don't like it, you are more possessive, and you can't be unwilling, in fact, you can't talk about liking each other, even if you tease each other, it's possible.

1.may be unwilling, thinking that the other party may insist that they will definitely like themselves.

2.Maybe I really like it so much that I can't control myself.

People's possessiveness is very strong, and the more they don't get it, the more they want it.

People always have a fluke mentality! I think anything can happen, maybe one day he will like me, but I don't know that the result is still the same: he still doesn't like you, even though he has changed girlfriends twice! <>

Once I wanted to flirt with a boy through multiple channels to get his QQ, plus then I introduced myself, saying that I was the girl sitting opposite you at dinner Slowly I consciously took the initiative to talk to him, although not in a college, but there is a common teacher, I complained about the common teacher, we are in a club, sometimes I will also express my opinions on some people in the community, and chat every day before going to bed, I originally went to bed at 11 o'clock, because I chatted with him, I also went to bed until 12 o'clock, everything is going on beautifully, and I'm still looking for a chance to confess.

One ordinary night, he told me that he was going to chase one of their girls, and I was shocked, could it be me? I asked him which college he was from? He said they were in college.

My heart sank to the bottom all of a sudden, and it's been ordinary chatter these days, and I've always been self-inflicted! He asked me what to pay attention to when chasing girls.,And then every night before going to bed, he would tell me what happened to that girl that day.,Until he chased that girl.。。 Then I immediately put aside the relationship, after all, I don't want to get entangled with someone who has a partner.

Things took a turn again, his girlfriend broke up, I talked to him with a dead face, a few months later, I keenly found that he studied with a girl, ate together, asked him and said he was chasing the girl, his heart suddenly cooled again, and then he told me a lot of things about his girlfriend, I echoed, and also made plans My heart for you, do you really not know?!<

As soon as the holiday is over, there will be no contact, and there should be no contact in the future, although they are not together, but they still bless him in their hearts. I am very grateful to him for leaving these traces on my life.

I think it may be because this person likes the other person very much and wants the other person to change their mind about him.

Knowing that the other party doesn't like you, don't flirt with others, and there is nothing to do from chatting around, you are wasting your time.

Very embarrassed and speechless. Because flirting is originally a very happy experience, but the other party himself doesn't like it, he won't feel happy at all, but he won't like it very much.

It's just going to feel disgusting, it's nasty, and it will further increase the disgust for the person you don't like.

I feel that this person is playing hooligan, since I don't like to flirt with others, and then try to get rid of him and ignore him.

This kind of thing, to be honest, if you don't like it, you don't like it, it doesn't matter, if you are not an insecure person, it should be difficult to like someone you don't like, even if you persist for a long time.

If you are teased by someone who doesn't like you, you will feel very annoying, and you will feel that the other party is very superficial and annoying, and you will hate each other even more.

You will feel disgusted, and try to avoid him, because you don't like him at all, you don't have feelings for him, and he is blindly doing these things now, which will only make you more disliked and annoyed.

It's disgusting, it's like I like butterflies, but there's a big fly that always flies around me, which makes people sick to their stomachs.

First of all, I feel that this person has a bad character, and finally I will deepen my disgust with him.

I guess I hate that person. But you don't know how to reject that person, but the impression is definitely not good.

It's irritable, you feel like you're being used as a tool for fun by this person, you're being used by others, and you're getting more and more disgusted and disliked from that person.