What is the reason why children work hard, but their grades are always unsatisfactory?

<>Although it is now advocating quality education, and the college entrance examination is no longer a single-plank bridge, for parents, children's grades are still particularly important. Many children seem to study very hard, but their grades are not very satisfactory, and parents often complain about their children, in fact, sometimes the reason may be because the child has anemia. Once the anemia of children is severe, it will affect the child's brain function, so parents should not take the phenomenon of anemia of their child lightly.

The dangers of anemia in children.

Many people think that anemia is a trivial matter in children, and in the process of growing up, as long as they eat more blood-nourishing foods in their diet, they will slowly recover their health. But in fact, anemia in children is not a trivial matter, and it can even affect the development of children's brain function in severe cases. Because, in the process of children's growth and development, the oxygen consumption of the brain is 50% of the total body oxygen consumption, so once the child has the symptoms of anemia, it will lead to insufficient oxygen uptake capacity of the body, which is easy to cause hypoxia of brain tissue, affect the development of the brain, and eventually cause the child's memory loss, lack of concentration and other symptoms.

In addition, anemia in children can also lead to abnormal metabolism of brain cells, which will affect the child's mood, causing his personality to become inferior, withdrawn, irritable, etc., which will bring great harm to his growth.

How to pay attention to dietary <> in children with anemia

To prevent and treat anemia in children, we should first give them more foods with high iron content. In terms of diet, children with anemia should eat more foods that are rich in iron and are easily absorbed by the body, such as pig blood, pig liver, duck blood, lean meat, etc. <>

Eat more vitamin C. Because vitamin C helps the body absorb iron, children with anemia should eat more fruits and vegetables and other foods rich in vitamin C.

Eat fewer snacks, especially sweet drinks. Snacks and carbonated sweet drinks generally contain a variety of food additives. If you eat too many similar foods, the food will accumulate in the body due to slow metabolism, which will affect the absorption of iron in the food.

Parents always have such questions, their children are obviously working hard, writing homework late at night, studying after class, studying in cram schools on holidays and weekends, but why can't their academic performance be improved?

1. Both adults and children may "fake effort".

2. Real laziness under the cover of fake effort (low-quality diligence).

I think there are several reasons, such as children who don't pay attention to lectures when they are in class, the learning method is wrong, and it may even be simply poor talent and not good in the exam.

Many parents have a question, why is the child's grades still not high, even though they are working hard? This is mainly because you don't learn the right way, just blindly read it, as long as you find the right way to study, you can improve your grades very well.

If you don't master the learning method, the learning method and effort must be had, because the learning method is not in place, and the result is half the effort. When the learning method is in place, you will get twice the result with half the effort.

The children in the family study very hard, but they can't get good grades in the exams. The first thing parents consider is whether there is a problem with their child's learning efficiency. As far as I know, children who spend a lot of time and effort on studying, but can't get good grades, are all because their learning efficiency is too low.

In the same way, if someone learns something in half an hour, it takes him twice as long to learn it. Therefore, there is a situation where others are playing and sleeping, and the child is still studying, and it seems that he is working very hard and very hard, but he can't get good grades in the exam.

If the child in the family appears and studies very hard, and the grades do not improve, parents should find ways to improve his learning efficiency. For example, when your child is studying, try to put away items that affect your child's learning; Monitor your child's progress in learning.

The child is very hard, but the test results are not satisfactory every time, which may be that the child is easy to be nervous during the exam, there are indeed such students who study very well, but they can't get good results, they should give the child guidance, don't care if they will do it during the exam, don't be nervous.

It may be that the learning method is not right, everyone will have their own suitable learning style. Don't stress too much at times, relax occasionally, and give him some rewards, which can give him confidence. The family also encouraged him. I hope I can help you.

Children's learning ability needs to be cultivated by teachers and parents. Children's learning is also about ways and methods, and it should be based on children's learning methods. Is it more appropriate? Start with this aspect to make up for it.

Let's give more encouragement, and then see if the teacher is doing the wrong thing, and see if there is a set of learning methods that are suitable for the child.

A: Maybe you didn't study correctly, or you were pretending to be working hard* You can talk to your child and find out what the problem is, so that the grades will improve.

Because the child's memory is relatively poor, the learning ability is not strong, there is no logical thinking ability, and the learning method that suits him has not been found.

It may be that there is a problem with the child's learning method, and there is no way to learn effectively at this time, just a waste of time.

The child's efforts are not done in the right way, the child's skills are incorrect, or it can be caused by not making a study plan in life.

Because the mental pressure of children is too great, the mental pressure of many children nowadays is indeed very great. At this time, in the case of the test, they may be particularly anxious, so everyone should moderately let the child release the pressure, so that the child will not have such a great mental pressure. And the child's grades may also improve a little, and there should always be too much expectation of the child.

Correction method: Children often have poor grades because they do not find a suitable way to learn. If your child's grades are particularly poor and he has worked hard, he can write down the question type he makes wrong every time he makes a mistake in a notebook, and then complete the overall preparation for the exam.

Children need to gradually break through their weak points, so that they can significantly improve their grades. Some children can understand the type of questions taught by the teacher in class, but they are often very ignorant in the process of brushing up on the questions.

Too careless, many parents say that if their children are careless, their children will miscalculate the question type, and if they get it wrong, their grades will be particularly poor. Children are very diligent, and parents need to use this characteristic of children to attack their children. If the child has been losing his or her personal behavior, it is a very careless parent who must stop the child as soon as possible.

Some children often make mistakes in calculating the type of questions, and at this time, parents must carry out early correction and let the child be careful.

There is no need to scold the child, parents attach great importance to their children's grades and want their children to win at the starting point. Parents have always felt that children who study well are good at everything, and they think that children with poor learning and training are due to extreme character. Parents think so is wrong, children often have such personal behavior, it is because the parents give a lot of pressure, if the parents blindly scold the child, it will cause the child to cause boredom.

Some children will become impetuous and impetuous when they understand that their psychological state is not correct, and when they are in the process of brushing questions, they usually can't calm down and go to the heart, and the error rate is also very high. Parents must be patient and careful when looking at their children's cultural education so that their children can gradually improve their grades.

If you don't master the correct study methods, you don't have good learning anxiety. This is where you can help to correct your child's learning methods, so that they can learn in an understanding way instead of rote memorization.

Personally, I think that children do not use the appropriate learning methods when learning, and they will not draw inferences from others; In daily life, children should be trained to think independently, be diligent in their hands, ask questions if they don't understand, concentrate on learning, don't get distracted, have their own set of learning methods, and be able to draw inferences about the knowledge explained by the teacher.

It may be due to the wrong way of learning in children, and children should develop particularly good learning methods in order to make good progress.

"Brushing questions" is a "trap" that students are more likely to fall into. Many students feel that the reason why the test results are not raised is because they do not do enough practice questions, especially after the third year of junior high school, basically every week for a small test, a big test every month, and the course time is either to brush the questions or to talk about the test papers. Although brushing questions can be exposed to different types of questions to a certain extent, this memory is only very short, and it is impossible to "understand" the question type in the real sense, so brushing the questions is different from person to person.

If you want to improve your academic performance, under the premise of having a certain number of questions, students should learn to summarize the wrong problem set, because the wrong question set can allow students to find their weak points, so that they can check and fill in the gaps, so when brushing the questions, don't forget to sort out their own wrong question book, and at the same time summarize the wrong problem set.

This problem is made by most excellent students, and the professional knowledge that the teacher says in classroom teaching is mainly for the learning progress of most students, so the excellent students may feel that the professional knowledge taught by the teacher has long been unable to keep up with their own learning progress, and then they will not listen carefully in classroom teaching, and can only bury their heads in the questions.

But I don't know that the top students with good grades pay the most attention to listening carefully in learning, because the teacher has clear lecture tasks and countermeasures, which can not only connect different types of professional knowledge together, but also repeatedly help students distinguish the key knowledge that is easy to confuse and often make mistakes. Therefore, the most effective way to learn is to grasp the 45 minutes in class and listen carefully to the teacher, so that you can "understand" the main points of knowledge.

Staying up late is a "habit" that every student can't escape, and because they have to attend classes during the day, they have to stay up late to study. In fact, staying up late is an undesirable way to study, which will not only affect your physical health, but also jeopardize your study the next day. A real scholar generally doesn't stay up late to study, he will use his daily fragmented time to improve his scores, such as listening to some spoken English courses with MPS when riding in a car, walking, or going to the toilet, or learning a few words, memorizing one or two ancient poems, etc., to make more sufficient use of fragmented time, so his academic test scores will always be among the top few.

During the study period, there are some students in each class who habitually "fight alone" when studying, and they are busy studying every day, and they will definitely not communicate with other students. In the process of learning, because everyone's problem-solving skills are different, if you can learn other people's problem-solving skills from communication, you can make your logical thinking become broader and broader, so don't neglect to collaborate with your classmates when learning.

Performative learning: Spend a lot of time sitting at a desk but have a lot of soulsThere is also a common group of students who tend to sit at a desk for a day.

For example, rote memorization, you can't find the key points to remember, or you just try hard to remember but can't remember!

I think it may be because the child's mind is not engaged in learning in the process of working hard, and he falls into a state of pretending to learn.

Study hard, but never pay attention to learning effects and methods. For example, when the teacher explains the problem, the students with good academic training results will calm down and listen to the teacher's interpretation of the problem-solving skills, while you will only be busy taking notes and ignoring the teacher's explanation. When it's time to rest and play, you're busy studying.

Since you are busy taking notes in class, but you don't understand the type of questions, you have to take a break to figure it out, which will lead to the illusion that you have been studying hard and doing nothing. I take notes during class, but I never look at them. Since I only made notes, I didn't understand the implications.

I couldn't understand it at all. All superficial diligence is practically useless. Stay up late studying.

Many parents have expressed that they have always been distressed that their children stay up late to study, sometimes at 23 o'clock, or even in the morning. In fact, it is not correct to stay up late to learn this method often. If you don't rest well for 8 hours, it will directly affect your health in the long run, resulting in a decrease in learning effectiveness.

At the same time, poor sleep will also lead to lack of concentration in the daytime, disharmony with the spleen and stomach for the specific content of teaching, physical fatigue, and it is very easy to miss the teacher's explanation of key knowledge. If this situation turns bad again, even if you study hard every night, it will be difficult to wake up.

Children are very hard-working, but their grades are not very good, so they can't speak coldly and say things that damage their confidence. Some parents even ridicule their children when they don't do well in exams. His original intention was to think about the development of the child in the attack, but the child is also dignified.

Even if you give birth to and raise you, your parents respect it. If you give your child too much, it will kill his confidence and not benefit his social activities. Second, it will provoke his rebellious mentality, and eventually resist your psychological state.

At that time, they won't listen to what you say. When it comes to making friends with children, many parents are busy with household chores all day long, and their care for their children is limited to chemicals. In fact, children should be more cared for by their parents.

To help children, you need to get to know them, learn to communicate with them, and talk to them more. If people always show the power of their elders and make small talk with their children, we can't understand their hearts. We need to keep a low profile and talk to them like friends.

The child works very hard, but the grades are not very good, which is positively related to the daily effort and dedication. If your child's grades are not very good, it is likely that your child is not working hard enough because of failure. Children are interested in many things in their teens, so they tend to get bored of school.

And what are the aspects that harm the child's poor grades? Many children work hard in their studies and training. Why hasn't he been able to get his grades?

If your child's grades are not very good, you should also consider whether it is because of the wrong learning and training methods. Only by finding the right way to learn can children learn easily and well.