Does it matter if adults are always babbling about children?

I think this must have an impact on the child, if the adult is always babbling to the child, it is easy to make the child's temper become irritable, and it will also have an impact on the child's psychology, and the child will think that this is because the parents do not love him.

It definitely has an impact, my son is a very well-behaved child, usually very polite outside, and very obedient with me. But it's very repulsive to people other than me. Very insecure.

When I go to bed at night, I have to drag my clothes to sleep, and I feel like a frightened little cat. Usually at home, I am always reasonable about my children's education and never yell. But his dad always yelled at him for a little thing, and sometimes his dad would find something to yell at him when he had nothing to do.

Every time I yelled at him, my son hid in my arms. My husband won't let me take care of him, let me go to the house, and then I heard my son crying and knocking on the door from outside the house and calling for his mother, that feeling is very painful, I go out and hug him, and his father will say that I am used to children. So my child has never felt the feeling of father's love until now, so he is very insecure.

For him, it seems that only his mother can rely on him in the world. I was worried about his future, so I often communicated with my husband, but he didn't realize the importance of this kind of problem. Therefore, I can only use my efforts to teach children to dare to face it and not to be afraid.

Influential. My parents, especially my mother, were very fond of yelling at me. At the slightest mistake, they would reprimand me loudly, and sometimes it would be accompanied by throwing things, and I would usually be scared and never squeak, and never defended.

I remember once playing with my friend in the sand, accidentally the sand entered each other's eyes, my friend cried, but my mother yelled and scolded me, I quarreled with my mother for the first and only time and scolded my mother, but it also ended with a harsher beating and scolding. I never felt the love of my parents when I was a child, and I was timid and cowardly, never talked to my parents, and always wanted to stay away from my parents. This kind of personality that borders on low self-esteem and closed-mindedness did not improve until I went to college.

Yes, if you talk loudly to your child, he will also receive your video and communicate loudly.

I still have a good understanding of the yelling of my parents. When I was a child, my mother also had a high pitch when she was angry and had a temper tantrum. So much so that sometimes I don't know what I did wrong, as soon as I saw my mother's angry look and heard what she said to me, I began to surrender, and I did what my mother said, just so that I would not hear my mother's "yell" again.

Later, when I came into contact with other classmates, friends, and neighbors, I realized that some mothers were really yelling, and I was scared to hear them. Parental yelling has a great negative impact on children, and children are more timid and passive. I don't know what mistakes I made and how to correct them, but I only remember the yelling of my parents, which does not play an educational role in helping children, but makes children have a shadow of fear.

The child is not assertive. Everything has to be arranged by the parents, because the children's opinions are drowned out by the parents' yelling, and after a long time, the children will no longer take the initiative to think. I was suppressed for a long time when I was a child, and when I grow up, I may be more rebellious and do things that my parents don't expect.

I remember when I was pregnant with my daughter, I told myself that I would never beat or scold my child in the future. And I've always tried to restrain myself, no matter what the situation, I don't want to yell and scold. Because I don't want my daughter to live the life I used to have.

I remember shivering whenever my dad yelled. My brain went blank and I didn't know what to do. Since I was a child, I was timid and afraid to speak.

Don't dare to ask questions in class. Even if the answers to these questions are ripe. Until junior high school, he became the first in the class, and seemed to be very confident on the surface.

No, in my bones, there are some questions that the whole class can't know, and I can, but I don't dare to raise my hand. Because of my good grades, the teacher will take the initiative to call me. Dare to ask questions in class slowly, and dare to play with classmates.

Later, when I went to school in other places, I didn't dare to fight for the opportunity. Afraid of making a fool of yourself in front of others, afraid of failure, afraid of taking responsibility, afraid of being laughed at by others. I'm afraid to see the kind of person who has the same straight face and serious face as his father.

Completely give up on self-growth, but I don't want to be close to my dad either. There is no warmth, only accusations and vigilance. I was afraid that my father's sudden temper would explode and make my poor self-esteem disappear.

Over time, I would also lose my temper with my daughter and even do my own thing. violated his promise to his daughter. Seeing my daughter's crying and scared little face, I saw myself as a child.

I saw some problems that I couldn't solve, and I used to use my father's yelling and scolding. This is the cycle of family tragedy. Seeing this, I feel scared, for the sake of my children and for me, I have been trying to change.

Because of the child, I am back on the road of self-growth. Over time, I would also lose my temper with my daughter and even do my own thing. violated his promise to his daughter.

Seeing my daughter's crying and scared little face, I saw myself as a child. I saw some problems that I couldn't solve, and I used to use my father's yelling and scolding. This is the cycle of family tragedy.

Seeing this, I feel scared, for the sake of my children and for me, I have been trying to change. Because of the child, I am back on the road of self-growth. The gentleman is not guilty, we have reflected, looking forward, not backward.

I believe that for the sake of love, we will do better and better.

It will definitely have an impact, after all, parents are the first teachers of their children, try to be a good parent in front of their children!

Howling parents can easily raise children who roar, as the so-called upper beam is not right and the lower beam is crooked. The child may not dare to do this to his parents, but he will yell at those who are weaker than him. Children will not learn to face and deal with problems rationally, but rely on yelling and tantrums to vent, which will have a great impact on the child's future behavior.

My child is 6 years old, I basically don't yell at my child, try to be a good parent, but it is inevitable that there will be times when my emotions are out of control. Sometimes yelling at the child will make you feel more self-blaming afterwards. The child, after I got angry, said to me, "Mom, you can criticize me for what I did wrong, but can you stop yelling."

I'm glad that the child hasn't had a psychological shadow yet. However, recently I have discovered that sometimes when children get angry, they will also yell and scream, and from the children, I seem to see my own shadow.

I don't think it will have a long impact on the child, after all, the child is big and has no backbone, so it will be difficult to produce in society in the future.

There should be, just try to control it as much as possible, and pay more attention to observation.

It will affect the child, the child is the same, the parents are the child's enlightenment teacher, it is recommended not to do this.

Of course, adults are a mirror of children, and they will learn from them.

There is a boy in my community who is in the kindergarten class, and the children in our family are in the middle class, and because they are in a kindergarten, they will often pick up and drop off together. The boy's mother was a very impatient character, and if she didn't say a good word, she would start yelling, in the subway, on the street, in the restaurants outside, especially sometimes when she was not well-behaved during meals, and she didn't care about the other people at the same table, she would yell at the child very loudly, and the child would look at her with tears in her eyes. She will always yell at the child, maybe the child was yelled at, although the tears of the yelling were not changed, so that others looked anxious.

And his children, when they play with their friends, completely inherit his mother's appearance, love to criticize others and yell at others. The most unfortunate thing for me was that once, when I was playing with my child on the community amusement facilities, I accidentally hit my head, turned around and punched my child, and yelled loudly, blaming my child for not reminding him to be careful that he would bump his head. That process happened to be seen by my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law was angry, and she felt sorry for her grandson being beaten, and she was angry that her grandson didn't fight back at that time.

I guess my kid didn't fight back because he was suddenly punched, and I didn't know why he would hit himself. Now, I don't pick up with them less, and although her mother has taken him to apologize, I think her mother's temper will always affect him, and we can't afford to mess with them.

If a very young child will snoring when he sleeps, then it is likely to be caused by genetics, which is more troublesome, because genetics are relatively strong, and some diseases inherited through genes are also difficult to change, we can only intervene through some artificial practices, but it is difficult to ** this type of disease. But if it is not genetic, then it is likely to be the child's obesity caused by snoring, according to scientific statistics, obesity is one of the main causes of snoring, in most of the obese patients, more than 80% of them have snoring, so if you want to avoid letting your child snore, then I suggest that you can start with a reasonable ** to help the child, with the loss of weight, the child's snoring state will definitely slowly decrease. In addition, the following methods can also help us relieve the state of snoring:

1. Sleep in a side-lying position

First of all, the first method is to sleep in the position of lying on the side, under normal circumstances, the position of lying on the side can help us quickly relieve the state of snoring, this is because the position of lying on the side can dredge the upper respiratory system to the greatest extent, and do not use the supine position to sleep, because the supine position can only aggravate the state of snoring.

2. Maintain reasonable exercise

Exercise can effectively reduce the state of snoring during sleep, this is because in the process of exercise, we will continue to exercise our upper respiratory system, so that the muscles of the upper respiratory tract become more and more tight, so that the friction between breathing can be avoided to a large extent, so I recommend that you should make an exercise plan for yourself and stick to it for a long time.

3. Relieved by medication

If the state of snoring is very serious, then we can also use drugs to reduce the state of snoring, this drug is generally sold in regular pharmacies or hospitals, but we must consult a doctor before using the drug, and use the medicine scientifically under the guidance of the doctor.

Some children will drool and snore when they eat too much before going to bed at night, and they will snoring if they have incorrect posture. Parents should correct their child's sleeping position and adjust his diet in time.

This must be a throat disease, and parents should take their children to ** in time for diseases like this. Avoid delaying the condition, as this can affect your child's breathing.

It may be that the child is too tired to play during the day and will only snore at night, and parents should let the child not play too much during the day.

Healthy children generally do not snore when they sleep, and their breathing is relatively uniform when they sleep, and if the child snores every day, it is likely to be caused by disease.

The medical term for pediatric snoring is pediatric snoring or pediatric obstructive sleep apnea-hypopnea syndrome (OSAHS). Pediatric snoring** is more singular and more common with enlarged tonsils and adenoids.

Snoring is not necessarily caused by adenoid hypertrophy, tonsil hypertrophy, rhinitis, allergic rhinitis, sinusitis, obesity, colds, etc. will cause children to snore, parents need to treat it according to the specific situation of the child, once it is found that the child's frequent snoring for one to two weeks without any slowdown, it is recommended to go to the hospital for a professional examination.