Can you make such a friend? It s incredible

You are very good to your "brother", think about him in everything, and lend him money. You're a nice guy and you're simple.

However, I don't think your "brother" really thinks you're a "sister":

1.If he thinks you are a "sister", why didn't he ask your opinion first when he recognized someone else as a sister? Moreover, it seems that he easily recognizes others as "sisters", which is a bit strange.

It may be that he recognized someone else as his sister because he wanted to get benefits from his sister, such as borrowing money, and so on. I doubt his sincerity.

2.You helped him, and he scolded you. It's okay to scold you, why does he break your heart with such poisonous words? Say you're more poisonous than a scorpion. A good brother won't be like this, even if he says it, he will apologize, knowing that he is excessive.

3.He is your godbrother and your elder, so why does he often borrow money from you? When I borrow money, I will say nice things to you. He just wants to take advantage of you, and if he recognizes you as a sister, he will get benefits from you.

4.Maybe he really knows if that guy has a girlfriend, maybe he really knows if that guy likes you. Whether it's true or not, he shouldn't say anything that makes you sad, he should encourage you and comfort you.

Maybe he is afraid that you will treat others better than him, that you will not treat him as he used to, and he wants to get your attention and not want you to pay attention to others.

5.He often invites you to dinner, but when you refuse and ask him not to spend money indiscriminately, he is very bored, angry with you in his heart, and what he says doesn't count, and he doesn't contact you. I think maybe he thinks you're wordy, that you're not as naïve as he thinks, or at least you'll persuade him not to spend money indiscriminately, and he may think you're too "serious" and not fun, so he won't contact you.

Just because you're sincere about being good to someone doesn't mean that that person will be good to you. He definitely doesn't really think you are a sister, he just uses you, it may be to relieve boredom, it may be financial help, it may be to get other benefits.

A good brother will definitely keep his promise and will not cheat on his sister. A good brother will take care of his sister and help her solve problems, a good brother will not spend his sister's money indiscriminately, a good brother will not be angry with his sister, and a good brother will not say things that hurt his sister.

I don't think you should pay too much for him, because he won't think about you. He only thinks about himself and is a selfish person. Don't break off friends with him, don't treat him as a brother anymore, be a very ordinary and ordinary friend with him.

Don't easily believe what he says in the future, and don't tell him too many secrets.

This is just speculation, whether he is good or bad, be careful!

Don't pay attention to him, anything, I'm angry when I see it. Dump someone...

Don't socialize anymore, it feels like he's not too good, really.

Everybody.

You should be insightful.

In fact, you already have the answer in mind.

If I had to suggest it, I personally don't think it's necessary for my friend to do this. Everyone has their own space and freedom, and if she does this, it will constrain your development and your social circle. A good friend will be your development in a good direction.

You don't have to force yourself to accompany her to follow her wishes, and if she ignores you because of this, then ignore it. Even if she breaks off her relationship with you because of this, it's not because of your fault. You don't have to pay for her waywardness.

If you still want to be friends with her, it's best to enlighten her, because it's not good for her to go on like this.

Is she gay?

Introduce her to a boyfriend, you still do your thing, you can accompany it, you can't accompany it, it's the same as ordinary friends, she won't be angry all the time, maybe this will become your new way of getting along, even if she is ignoring you, but friends are always friends, after a few years she matured, and everyone was still very close when they met.

If she treats you as a friend, you can treat her as a friend, and if she doesn't treat you as a friend, you can treat her as a friend, but the friendship of a gentleman is as light as water, and friends are in the heart, and they don't have to be expressed in reality.

It's better to keep a distance, otherwise you should be able to imagine how troublesome the consequences will be.

The gentleman only pays as light as water, so let's do it yourself!

In fact, there are some things that cannot be avoided, such as socializing with classmates during college. Even if there are some people you can't get used to, you still have to spend four years of college life with her. Your classmates are well-off and good-looking, which will inevitably attract the jealousy of that bad woman.

But if you don't have a good relationship with your classmates during college, it will bring trouble to your life, for example, if your classmate can't help but beat her, others will say that your classmate is not. So don't blame your friend for making friends carelessly, she bears a lot of pain psychologically. In addition, your classmate has a good character, and that bad woman will definitely hurt her even more, taking her silence as weakness.

So what you have to do now is give your classmates as much care as possible. Don't blame her for being careless in making friends in the first place, she needs you the most. Spend more time with her....

Is this a friend?

Take people as a mirror, and you can know the loss.

Resolutely don't make friends, you must be cautious and inspiring when making friends.

No one is perfect, and you can't have both.

Do you think you're paying more attention to his side?

An outsider's judgment based on your description alone is impossible.

I think that a person with a good heart can be friends, although he is bent on doing his own thing, but he is kind We can pay more attention to minimize the mistakes he may make, and over time I think he will understand.

Such a person is a hundred times better than someone who listens to you in everything, but stabs in the back.

No, if a person can't listen to what a friend thinks, then she doesn't need a friend.

If he or she cares about you, you should pay it; If he or she not only does things his or her own way, he or she treats you very well. Ignore it, you don't need to make friends like that!

It's normal for small citizens to be angry.

If you can't change it, accept it, if you can't accept it, don't be a friend and a nodding friend.

If you know he's kind, you should teach him to look at the bigger picture. If you are friends, you should share the burden with each other, and don't go your own way. Whoever you endure will be handed over.

Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, and we should tolerate him

You have to try to talk to him and see what he thinks

But I think friends are together when they feel right, and when they care about each other, they get to know each other better.

There's a reason why they're so close and good friends.

But I think it's good that you can trust others with a sincere heart, and I support you to be friends with them, but be careful not to be too communicative

You need to look further if you really want to make friends with the other. Of course, if you don't want to, your life won't be missing because of her absence. No one is anyone's who.

Things gather people in groups, such a statement is too extreme, isn't it, no one can judge his character based on external conditions or even the people around him, friends are handed over!

Everyone knows the face but doesn't know the heart.

Since you yourself said that the character is quite good. Do you feel like you can??

Are you a porphyre guy?? Like that girl???

Actually, I feel like sometimes. You should trust your friends.

After all, it's your good buddy who will lie to you!!

What if you want to pay it?? You have to be a peacemaker in the middle!!

Anyway, it's better to be careful

Porphyry troubles.

Face them with an understanding and kind heart, and do psychological counseling and work with each of them. I believe that everyone has a compassionate and kind heart, and if you insist on it, I am sure they will all understand you.

In fact, you have already found the answer!

Everyone has their own business. Maybe he doesn't want to lie to you either. Forgive your friends. Losing a friend is painful. Maybe you don't realize it yourself. Cherish it for a long time.

You don't have to be too angry, some people are not worth being angry with her, everyone's soybean oil is the principle of being a human being, and you don't have to deliberately maintain such a friendship if he treats you like this

Friends are precious, and knowing each other is fate, but we must be more considerate.

He lied to you for a reason. Just don't want you to think too much.

Maybe it's thinking too much, if it's really a close friend, you should trust them, the most basic thing to get along with people is trust, everything should be good, maybe they are plotting to give you some gifts, what good things to celebrate your birthday. Maybe you should make it clear to them that some things will go wrong by themselves.

My friends are like this, sometimes it just makes me unbearable, but what can I do, after all, they are all my good friends, but I forgive them again and again, but they are to me again and again, every time I am sad for a few days, but then I forgave them, a friend of mine cheated on me a while ago, and now I ignore her, of course she ignores me, I really don't know why people are like this, your love for her, she actually takes it for granted, alas, life is like this.

It's okay, my friend is like this, I don't think it's a big deal.

I'm a little confused, I can't understand it.

Go your own way and let others say it, don't care what others say.

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What they mean is, you're a little cold, and the guy is chasing you, and you should be saying what you think, like, you want to say no. Just say: I'm sorry, I have someone I like. If you want to observe it first, let's just think about it.

Part of the reason the boy fights is because of you, and you should ask for it.

As for the girl, it's dispensable. Double.

Friends don't understand each other, you see what she says about you behind her back. They don't know you at all, so it doesn't matter if you want such a friend or not.

About your class, to make friends and make good friends, you also have to say what you think, you don't say how they know what you think. Friends should talk about everything together, for example, if you share interesting things with them, they will be very happy... For example, if you are not happy today, you talk to your friends.

They're going to listen to it word for word, and then comfort your ......

Good or bad, share together, that's what a friend is.

Then you're sorry for people.

People don't like you.

That's not with you.

Or maybe she doesn't want you to know what she's going to buy?

If you want! You can be inclusive of everything.

Yes, just understand each other.

Do girls have private affairs?

Go with the flow, don't be too angry

Friends and friends are clearly distinguished!

It's okay to make friends, but it's best not to have a deep friendship with her anymore, like this kind of friend is very selfish and won't pay attention to your feelings, the more you can't figure her out, the more uncomfortable you are, and the more she will treat you like this, change a deep friend as soon as possible, you can talk eloquently, you can really understand your friend, don't waste time and energy, you can't find it if you want to find it for a long time.

What is Friend? I asked myself this again, and I was at a loss. I don't know anymore, I just know that friends are manipulators of feelings between people.

This kind of relationship is called friendship, and I value friendship very much, so to speak, I value friends very much, but the so-called friends always make me confused about this concept. There is a language among friends, I call it whispering, but I don't know why, this so-called whispering will always reach the ears of others from time to time, I am not used to such a result, I think, who else can I believe? Even if it's a friend I consider myself.

Maybe it's just my thoughts, I think of the other person as a friend, but the other person may not be a friend for me. In the past, I had nothing to say, but I think in the future, it may slowly become nothing to say, and I dare not believe in this so-called friend anymore. Friend, the one who will reach out when you are sad and in pain; A friend, the one who will share with you when you are happy and happy.

I once thought that my friends, in fact, were nothing, and they used to value feelings so much, but they let me down again and again, and they used to be so trusted friends, but they betrayed me without knowing me; Friends seem to be a bit heavy on friends, between friendship and love, they often choose the latter, is this a friend? I'm confused. There is a saying, adversity sees true love.

But when I really encounter difficulties, what about my friends who are usually in **? I can't find it, maybe it's still those people who don't usually talk much, who don't seem to care about anything, but now they are standing by my side. Rather than that, what's the use of having friends?

I used to ask myself that. There are always some friends around who fly separately when disaster comes, they always like to share happiness with you, and when you are in trouble, you don't know that they have gone, which is something that is often encountered and seen. Friends, some are a lifetime thing, some are a temporary thing, I don't know, I don't know anything.

An ordinary friend has never seen you cry. A true friend lets your shoulders wet with your tears. An ordinary friend hates you for calling ** after he sleeps.

A true friend will ask you why you're calling now. An ordinary friend is curious about your romance. A real friend comes to you to talk about your confusion.

An ordinary friend expects you to always be by his side, and a true friend expects him to always be by your side! I guess that's how friends should be! But I know that there are few real friends in this world, everyone has their own selfishness and desires, maybe it's not reality, maybe it's on TV, and I often see friends betraying each other, it's not just TV, I think the stories on TV should come from life, life is like this, what is a friend, I can't find the only answer.

Actually, I really like the feeling of having friends. Friends, the kind of friends who are sincere to themselves. There are very few true good friends in the world, but I will try my best to find those true friends who belong to me.