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Bottom line: you don't have stress! Because there is no pressure, I don't realize the importance of learning.
But when the pressure comes, it's too late to learn. Don't always blame your surroundings, it's mostly your own. It's up to you to see if you're self-motivated.
At any time, people must continue to learn and improve in order to make a difference. Be content with the status quo, get by and get by, and you will regret it in the end. I can feel that you are very entangled, and you want to learn but you can't feel at ease.
No one can help you with this problem, only you can save yourself. Your destiny is in your own hands. Why don't you have perseverance?
Not to mention learning. There is nothing that cannot be done.
As for the question of tranquility: I wonder what environmental impact you are referring to? Games, TV, depraved friends, ......There is only one way to calm your mind – to quit all your so-called "influences".
Quit it! TV, don't watch! Games, don't play!
Friends, substitutions! Make friends who can help you and support your progress. Only in this way, there is no other way!
In short: in today's society, only by living and learning can we not be eliminated; It's not enough to be enterprising, the key is persistence; If you want to succeed, no one can help you, only on your own!
You're still young, it's time to decide everything!
Good luck!
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This is actually easy to understand, learning does not happen overnight, especially language learning. As long as you insist on studying, there is no limit to age, if you say that starting a family and working will delay your studies, it means that your willpower is too poor. Starting a family should be casual, work is to accumulate experience, simple English learning is useless, and it can be more professional when it is linked to work and life.
Therefore, it is the right choice to correct your attitude and continue to learn.
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Do you mean that the trees want to be quiet and the wind does not stop? In fact, it is not the people around you who shake you, but that you yourself are impetuous, and your heart is not firm. If you want to concentrate, calm down.
I recommend you to watch a few movies "Wind and Rain Harvard Road" and "Happiness Terminal". If you have your own goals, why should you care what others think? If you are a shrub and want to grow into a towering tree, get rid of the weeds around you first.
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Xiao Hao knows: it's very simple. But the simple road is also very complicated, and secondly, the main thing is to look at yourself, first, you have to let go of your heart, and secondly, you have to correct your attitude.
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Obviously, you're not clear enough about your goals!
A person who doesn't have a clear goal is now in vain, because in vain, so some of the things you insist on a little bit in your heart, such as studying, are vulnerable.
So, you're annoyed.
Hello, take out a blank piece of paper, a pen, put what you are worried about, what makes you flustered, whatever flashes in your mind, write it down, every analysis, unnecessary crossing, hoping to find out the real reason that upsets you. There are other ways to do it, and I don't know why you know that there is a limit to the number of words.
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