Is it okay to become a person with a dark heart? What will become of those who have experienced dark

Don't become a person with a dark heart, such a person is extremely unhealthy in his heart, and may bring harm to himself.

Of course, it's not good to become a person with a dark heart, because those who look at it will have an impact on others and themselves, so it's better to be sunny and happy and make yourself cheerful.

Of course it's not good, you still need to be kind and be a good person.

Of course it's not good, if your heart is very dark, it's very bad for your whole person, it's better to be sunny, good for everyone and yourself.

It is certainly not good to become a person with a dark heart, such a person may be beneficial to himself, but he will hurt others.

It's not good to be a person who has a dark heart. This can lead to a loss of love for life. And without a positive attitude towards life, it is difficult to make people happy.

Of course it's not good, if you think it's good, then wouldn't you just become that kind of dark person? Will you still come out and ask?

I think it's better not to let the darkness in your heart be filled with light, because those words that become dark may cause your life to be affected by yourself.

It's definitely not good, it's going to be annoying to others, and it's going to become friendless.

Of course, those dark people are not good, and they will hurt others and make themselves very unhappy. There is no harm but no benefit.

It is not good to become a person with a dark heart, such a person has no friends, no family, and he is not at ease with him.

I feel that those dark people are not good, because it is easy to lead yourself to make mistakes, or do something you regret?

People who feel at ease don't want it, and it's very terrifying, a shot, such a person can't ask for it, I think such a person is hated.

It's better to be a good person, and if you have a dark heart, you're tired, unless you're willing to be like that and you can get a lot of benefits.

Because everyone's position is different, the benefits of doing one thing are also different. And all human beings are doing things that maximize their own interests. In other words, no matter who does something and makes a choice, that choice must be in his best interest in the current situation.

The ancient Mozi once said, "The two benefits are the heavier, and the two evils are the lighter." That's it.

So you don't always think that others are good for you. Everyone is for themselves. Maybe you think people will do this, but it's obviously not in the interests of others, so your assumptions about this matter are not valid.

But I must make it clear that there are two kinds of human interests. One is spiritual, such as satisfying people's love, satisfying people's self-esteem, satisfying people's brotherhood, and satisfying people's so-called moral heart. There is also a material one, which is money.

But whether they are spiritual or material, they seem to me quantifiable. Everyone has their own different views on these things, and everyone has such a scale in their hearts to measure, such as the faithfulness of this matter and the 10,000 yuan which is more important, such as friendship or love, which is more important in this situation. The difference in these views is the so-called difference in values.

Maybe someone betrayed you because of 10,000 yuan, it is because in that person's eyes, 10,000 yuan is more valuable than your feelings. There are also people who don't do it because they think it's in their best interest to have a relationship between people.

Chinese society is a material society, a realistic society. In such a society, it is unrealistic for your values to think that people's hearts are more important, even if you have such good values, in order to adapt to this society, you have to consider material interests and bury a conscience in the bottom of your heart. Remember, conscience can only be revealed to those who have a conscience.

Why is China a material society? Is the moral quality of individual citizens low?

Before he died, he said that "in the 20 years of reform and opening up, the only thing that has not been done well is education" (there may be errors, but there is not much difference).

As well as the question of the beliefs of the Chinese, we had Confucius and Mencius in ancient times, and foreign countries had religions. Doing bad things is taboo in the presence of faith.

Then there is family planning. The only children are spoiled. Recently, however, some measures have been introduced to allow families with only one child to have a second child. Thanks to the party, thanks to the country.

That's pretty much it. Self-realization.

I'm quite objective in my speech, don't come to harmony.

Everyone has a dark side in their hearts, and some people have chosen to compromise with society for their own interests, but as long as they have enough ability and maintain their conscience and ideals, even if they have to bow their heads occasionally, they are worthy of themselves.

It's not that people's hearts are so dark, but the pressure of society makes people have to think about themselves, people's psychology should be the same, in fact, you don't have to be so serious, as long as you know your heart!

Of course, it's for your own interests, but to put it bluntly, it's money, and if it's not for money, it's good for yourself. Messy windward. )

Everyone has a dark side, so control it yourself.

Some people say that this world is ruled by the devil, maybe the first consciousness of the universe is also dark, and the dark consciousness gave birth to the universe, which cannot be changed, unless you can be like a saint without fighting with the world, so that others will not spray you, scold you, the saint cloud, often make the people ignorant and desireless, so that the wise do not dare to do it. It means that as long as you are careful everywhere and are always in a state of desirelessness, the power of the devil will not be imposed on you.

Strong people. Beauty is often boiled out.

Feng Lun, a thinker in the real estate industry, once said that greatness comes from boiling.

I don't like to use the word great, and I think it's closer to ordinary people to use beautiful, but I deeply agree with this sentence.

Because of my work, I have come into contact with quite a few real estate salespeople.

Many people do sales and exercise themselves, often just a scene, the main reason is two:

One is to make more money.

Second, the threshold is low.

**In good times, even in third- and fourth-tier cities, twenty or thirty thousand a month, that is a regular operation.

This sounds tempting, but the personnel turnover in this profession is also very large, because there are many times when there is no food, ** is not good, or the project is not good, you can only get a very low basic salary every month, and some people can't survive and leave.

People who have done this line of work should have a deeper understanding that the market is often more important than their own sales ability, and the good ones are often boiled out.

This is a bit untrue, but it is true.

Hello, in this case, it is recommended that you can go out more, have more contact with people, and then you can see a psychologist.

It's hard because a person's psyche is greatly influenced by the environment, and the environment is not something we can decide. Of course, it is difficult and not impossible, after all, people are human beings because they have subjective initiative

The reason why people are dark in their hearts is mainly because they are full of complaints about this society, and they can't correctly look at the unfair things that happen in this society, so some people are more extreme in their hearts, I think we should be calm about the difficulties or setbacks in life, and be an optimistic person.

Everyone didn't have much heart and eye when they were young, and they were all sunny and happy, but in the process of growing up, due to the different living environment of each person, their personalities were very different. At present, a person with a very dark psychology may have lived in a very bad environment in the past, but he can't just leave, and after a long time, his psychology will become darker.

I think some people are so dark in their hearts, it is caused by later life, who will be very bad when they are born, no, every newborn child is very pure in his heart, not pure, on the one hand, it is the cultivation of the family from an early age, on the other hand, it is the first time to enter the society, and the people he has come into contact with are very dark in his heart, and he has slowly learned badly.

Lack of love, this is fundamental. Graduated from college, older leftover women, it's easy to find a partner to talk about marriage, asked for a day off, half a day when the female manager called me **, reprimanded me who allowed you to ask for a day, I sold it to you, I asked for leave to say a good day, why did I find fault again, and then my colleague told me that her husband was not around all the year round, there may be someone outside, and she was obstructed by the supervisor when she promoted me, now it depends on your marriage, she can feel good in her heart, Mom, no wonder she has been giving me small shoes to calculate me, It turned out to be because of a lack of love.

Maybe the life experience is different, and it is also related to the environment in which he has grown up since childhood, because not everyone's original family is so harmonious, if a person always lives in a family atmosphere where parents quarrel or the father beats the mother and beats the child, do you think the child's heart will be sunny?

I think the reason why some people are psychologically dark is often because they have different values, they don't have a clear goal for themselves, and they are not satisfied with the status quo, but they just blindly envy others.

For such people, I think it is very humbling, because they will not have too many friends around them, or even more and more friends away from them, because when they know their hearts, many people are not willing to get along with this kind of person anymore. Therefore, when you are in this situation, you must correct your mentality and be the best version of yourself.

Encountering some unfortunate things will change a person's way of looking at things and dealing with problems, and become a little different from ordinary people, and even what we think is 'dark'. This mentality is not irreversible, when these people meet people who are bright and open in their hearts, after getting along for a long time, the dark side of their hearts will slowly disappear, and they will become bright and upright like us.

Probably because of their nature or previous experiences, they became less and less convinced of this society and willful, and thus developed the idea of hating the world.

Personally, I think this is too negative energy, no matter what, people have to face life positively, the past experience may not be erased, but we also have to try our best to get rid of those shadows and create a brighter future for ourselves, instead of complaining all day long, so that no one wants to contact him and help him.

Psychological darkness is not innate, many people are in the process of growing up, or developed in the later stage, so this is why when the whole people pay attention to physical health, they should also pay attention to mental health.

Some of the factors that contribute to the formation of psychological gloom:

Being abused by a parent.

Since childhood, I was abused by my parents and did not feel the care of the world, so I am full of hatred for society and think that there is no good person in the world, so any behavior that hurts others is understandable.

Influenced by parents.

The so-called bear child must have bear parents behind it, and people with dark psychology are also greatly influenced by their parents, and the family education they receive must be deformed, so psychological distortion is inevitable.

Being treated unfairly by society.

If a cowardly person has been treated unfairly since childhood, you can imagine how depressed the psychology is. When he feels more and more that the whole society is unfair and all of them are targeting him, the sunniest psychology will also become dark.

Driven by jealousy.

Compare yourself with others everywhere, once you find that others are better than yourself everywhere, and no matter how hard you try, you can't surpass your heart, and your psychology will slowly become a demon.

At the mercy of greed.

If you are not satisfied with everything you have, but you are not willing to work hard, you will only complain about your family, society, and the country, and over time, your psychology will naturally only have a dark side.

Of course, it does not mean that people with these factors are necessarily psychologically dark, but most people with psychologically dark factors have these factors. Besides, everyone has a dark side of their psychology, as long as they are reasonably controlled.

The root of the darkness of the human heart is comparison, everyone is greedy, the law of the forest is rampant, and the open fight is endless.

That's when I met someone like that. So the best thing to do is to watch more good things, and you will make yourself a little happier. I will also make more friends for myself.

When making friends, you must pay attention, those who have a dark psychology like to do these things the most. If you meet such a person, no matter how extensive his resources are, don't have too much contact with him.

"Psychological darkness is a very serious statement, and most people may say this because he is dissatisfied with you and angry with you, so he buries, slanders, and scolds you. Don't care, don't think about it, don't really think that you're wrong. Examples of psychological darkness, such as some murderers in the newspaper who killed many people in a row, some people who drove into people to take revenge on society, and some people who did not see others well because of some misfortune, thinking that God was unfair to them, and thus seeing others good.

People with dark psychology often prefer to disguise, on the surface they are good to you, but behind the scenes they often say bad things about you, such a person can generally be identified as long as you pay a little attention to her behavior.

In addition to identifying from behavior, it can also be seen from the usual words, generally speaking, people with dark psychology have more extreme views on things, and do not have too much love, like to complain about others, as long as they pay attention to observation in the usual chat, they can also be recognized.