How can we be old in the wilderness, not just one sided

Make them feel that you are worthy of being the old man with them.

The sky is wasted, the sea is dry and the rocks are rotten, who doesn't want to yearn for it? What is said in the book, filmed on TV, everyone has seen a lot! But in reality, how many people have gotten it?

I'm afraid I can't even reach 1 out of 100%! To be honest, I personally believe that I believe in love, in my opinion, love is the first in my heart, hehe believe in it, but I never got it!

Personally, I think that if you want to get the love of the world, you should first be honest, trusting and tolerant of your own women!

It's almost as good as these three estimates!!

When people have it, they are always accustomed to those happiness, take it for granted, think that it will never leave themselves, over time, they are used to enjoyment, accustomed to acceptance, but forget to give, forget to dedicate, forget that she also needs your care, needs your love, every feeling needs to be responded. didn't realize that the happiness that had always surrounded him would one day be far away from him. People always think that those who can't get the best are the best, but in fact, they don't realize the simple happiness around them, so too many people don't know how to cherish until they lose...

It's always coming when it's time to come, but it's not time haha.

Feelings are inherently very fragile, the deeper the feelings, the more they will quarrel over trivial things, everyone likes to be with a lover who is with them, if there are some small things that make you unhappy, then I don't know what will be done to make you unhappy? So love someone, it's better to understand, and understand a royal attacker, so that you won't say that you love someone that regrets how tired you do, feelings are to rely on two people to fight, to complete, those panicked old love is just a legend, it is already good to love her in this life...

That's not the beautiful legend of the rough Li Yu.

We're all going to be old.

It's just that when I'm about to get to the end.

There are rock people who want to quit again!

As long as you know how to cherish each other, you will grow old.

That's simple love, true love can grow old in a panic, loyalty to one's lover is better than the passage of time

This is the beautiful and auspicious view of love of the Chinese

When two people are together, you often don't know the preciousness of love, thinking that it is just ordinary life, although sweet, but plain. However, once separated, the feeling of a piece of heart being cut off will make you understand that the original ordinary life is the best gift of love. So many people think that what hurts their hearts after a breakup is love.

In fact, you are wrong, what makes you sweet is love, and what makes you miserable is only unwillingness.

Detach yourself and keep a relaxed heart Get rid of your excessive desires Keep a heart that you can let go.

I read a passage today, and it was really good: "If people don't respect me, I am talentless; I am not respectful, I am not virtuous; If people do not tolerate me, it is because I am incompetent; I do not tolerate anyone, I am immeasurable; If people don't help me, it's me who don't do anything; I don't help anyone, it's me who doesn't ......do goodIf you don't treat others with the heart of others, you will pay more and care less; If you don't treat others as you would in any way, you will be more elegant and less narrow-minded; Do not repay others with the fault of others, you will have more peace, less entanglement, adhere to inner peace, not impatient, not arrogant, more elegant,! Do it and discipline yourself!

Learn to let go, learn to forgive, learn to be relieved, learn to be tolerant!

Donor, this is going to talk about Huigen......Ani Buddha.

Hello, feelings and love are selfish, and there is no one in the world who will not care.

No one can do it at all

It doesn't matter if you look at it openly, if you look at it lightly.

Put things aside and spend more time doing some outdoor exercise, preferably a large amount of exercise, until your mind can't think. Learn to let go of yourself.

There are few people who really do it, because you still love him (her), but you can't be together, I think you can think that one day, someone will replace you, so that you don't miss him, don't deliberately, miss him don't deliberately don't let yourself think, everything goes naturally

I'm just like you! In short: everything goes with the flow! Sometimes it's just a matter of putting it all on your own!

Unswerving love will exist and be old, but in today's society, there are too few possibilities for old age, how many families are separated, how many lovers break up, aren't they all hidden dangers in material and thinking? I feel like the chances of coming to the wasteland are really small!

As far as your question is concerned, love is wildly old, and there really will be! It's just a few, maybe you and I haven't met it yet!

You haven't met the right person in the right place at the right time.

Moreover, love must be managed with heart in order to grow old, not by the contribution of one party alone.

Love should have been old in the wilderness, unswerving until death, and close to each other. It's just that now people have misinterpreted the original meaning of love, using money and material things to measure love, and it is still beautiful to say that love has long existed. Fate is predestined, and happiness is one's own.

We all live in a materialistic money society, slowly losing our hearts, fate has arrived, love will come quickly, but there are a few people who can really do it for a long time, in money, contradictions, misunderstandings. More than eighty percent of love will die. The remaining two percent, in the coarse tea and light rice, endless small problems, and small contradictions, there is no one in ten.

This creates a false impression that people are skeptical of love, and the deeper the injury, the deeper the heart. The more you dare not accept love easily, the more your belief in love will wear out over time. As long as there is love in the heart, there is love all around, love for parents, love for relatives, love for friends, love for female companions.

As long as there is light and self-confidence in your heart, the world in your eyes will be infinitely better. All the darkness and filth around him have nothing to do with him.

It's not bad to look down on a person, if you really want to fall in love, get married directly.

There must be one, but it's not easy to come across, but you can't assume that there isn't.

It is better to seek and cherish than to seek.

It was in the first place of heaven and earth to seek

First of all, what do you want most in your original intention? Figure it out, persevere all the way, don't forget, and you will eventually get what you want. For example, in a relationship, you may want to be with someone at the beginning, but for some reason, you can't be together, and you will never be together in the future, which may lead to regrets in your life.

At this time, you will regret why you didn't insist on it in the first place, and if you persist, maybe you won't regret it in vain like you do now. In fact, what you originally wanted was not a certain person, but the relationship that made you tempted, but just happened to happen to that person. Some losses are doomed, and they will be lost, which is enough to prove that the person is already destined not to belong to you, so don't insist on that person, don't forget your initial expectations for that kind of relationship, there will always be a suitable person to come to you, and you will eventually find happiness that belongs to you.

This is because only when people are "without desires and desires" can they concentrate without distractions and not be confused by external factors and lose their rational thinking.

First of all, we must eliminate dependency and be self-reliant. Secondly, you have to believe in yourself and be confident. In addition, we must constantly improve ourselves, enrich ourselves, keep learning, and let ourselves have the ability to be self-reliant and self-confident.

In practical life, pay more attention, practice more, and practice to rely on yourself to accomplish what you want to do, of course, you need the assistance of others, but you mainly have to rely on yourself.

Confucianism, Buddhism, and Taoism all have such cultivation methods, but it is difficult for us ordinary people to persist in doing it. If you do it, you can be a saint, a Buddha and an immortal. However, over the millennia, there are still some people who have done it.

I give you advice, do you think it's okay?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, but how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

A lot of times, cranky thinking happens because there's nothing to do. Or if you are too concerned or anxious about something, the most effective way to solve the anxiety is to take action and develop a business hobby and skills. Or go do something that interests you.

In short, if you make yourself happy, you will stop thinking cranky.

First, take a deep breath and then change your position: if you are sitting or lying down, stand up and walk around; Second, find someone to talk to, it's okay to talk about anything, just don't talk about what you're thinking; Third, daydream about the thing you're thinking about, and assume what I have.

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