People have to learn to forget, why should they learn to forget?

Writer Yang Daxia expressed, as an old man said: "Know everything, forgive everything." Forget everything, but gain everything. He was forgotten by the rivers and lakes, but when the rivers and lakes remembered him, he couldn't remember the rivers and lakes.

In life, worries and troubles are sometimes accompanied by laughter and happiness, and people must learn to forget. Just as failure is accompanied by success, if a person's mind is full of cranky thoughts all day long, and he or she also keeps worthless things in his or her head, then he or she will always feel that the future is bleak and there are many unsatisfactory things in life. Therefore, it is very necessary for us to clean up the things stored in our minds in a timely manner, keep what should be kept, and discard what should not be kept.

There is really no need for those factors that have brought people disadvantages in all respects to be reminisced or remembered after a certain number of years. In this way, people can live happily and freely. As we all know, in the big family of society, if you want to win the respect of others, you must first respect others, remember more advantages, and learn to forget the mistakes of others.

Secondly, a person has to learn to forget his achievements, and some people become proud and complacent after a little achievement, which is obviously a cause of failure. Achievements are only in the past, and everything must be started from scratch, so that you can cross a new realm in life. At the same time, the help of a person himself to others should be seen as a trivial matter, so that it is forgotten.

In this way, you will be able to gain the approval of others in your way of doing things. Life needs to be reflected, and it is necessary to constantly sum up lessons, carry forward the strengths, and overcome the shortcomings. Learn to forget, use reason to filter out the impurities in your thoughts, and retain sincere emotions, which will teach you to cultivate sentiments.

Only by being good at forgetting can we better retain the best memories of life.

People must learn to forget [The fastest and most sure way to conquer fear and build self-confidence is to do what you are afraid of until you have a successful experience. 】

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things. If you don't bother yourself, others will never be able to bother you, because your own heart makes you unable to let go.

As people grow older, they have to go through a lot of things, and things are remembered in their hearts and become memories, and memories are both beautiful and painful, but whether they are beautiful or painful, they will become people's spiritual wealth and will also become people's spiritual burden. Therefore, it is better to be forgetful in life, when things come, go all out, take this matter seriously, forget about it as soon as the matter passes, be clean, no traces, and live a chic life.

What are the things that make you unhappy?

Is it academics, relationships, family, or something else?

Different unpleasantness has different ways of forgetting.

There are three ways you can try it.

1. Empathy and identity method - "compare the heart with the heart", correctly recognize the pressure, and flexibly adjust your mentality. For example, empathize when you encounter life events that you think are unfair, relationships that are incongruous, or unpleasant emotional experiences.

2. Time Forgetting Method - Sometimes time is the best way to solve a problem. Actively forget the past and present unpleasantness, and revise your cognitive concepts at any time. Don't let the painful past hold you back from your future.

3. Go with the flow of self-liberation method - "There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain". Learn to relax yourself, talk when you want to talk when you want to (find someone you trust), rest when you want to rest (combine work and rest), and entertain when you want to have fun (self-venting) ......If you really don't want to do something, you can put it down for a while.

There are always times when people are sad and sad, forget the sadness and then supplement it with happiness, you will find that there are many happy beings in this world that you have not discovered.

Think of it this way: our hearts are so big that if we don't forget some of them, how can you let new memories enter our lives?

In fact, I am also in a very sad period of my life now, and I have always encouraged myself like this.

In the process of forgetting, we learn to be strong.

The good is to be forgotten, for the sake of. Remember what is not good.

The ungood should be forgotten, but the good should be remembered.

People always have to forget, forget something.

And I, to choose to forget.

Forgetting is not forgetting everything, but forgetting one's own pain, forgetting everything that is not worth living in memory, whether it is forgetting a person, forgetting an event, or forgetting an experience, etc.

Love begins, love ends, and the end doesn't have to be forgotten. If you feel that you are happy in love, why should you choose to forget? At least the memories are nice and sweet.

If it hurts, you can shake your head and grit your teeth and try to forget it. Because if you don't forget, you will always think about it, and if you think about it, you will get hurt again and again.

As for forgetting someone, if you really once liked or even loved him deeply, it would not be easy to forget him. But time is the best medicine, and as time goes by, you will slowly forget. You won't remember what he looks like, and then he's just a phantom that lingers in your mind, but after a long, long time, you'll forget about him.

But in this process of oblivion, you can't think about him.

This question bothers me a bit as well.

I'm also a little overwhelmed. Bother.

It's said to forget, but sometimes I think about it inexplicably.

Alas. Helpless.

Don't reminisce about the past.

The present should be cherished.

Some things are already in the past, so why should they be so nostalgic.

Let the interest be shifted to other things, and don't always think about how to forget, that is actually a reminder to remember. Take what has been lost lightly, and you won't care like that. Then turn your attention to the things you enjoy.

There is no need to learn to forget, because those people or things that are obsessed are always forgotten in the process of being oblivion.

In the dictionary, these two words mean the same thing.

If you have to pursue these two words, there is nothing different in real life.

Each has his own opinion.

Since you missed it, don't miss it, that will only hurt more, maybe the next stop happiness is quietly coming...

If feelings can be forgotten, then it's not called feelings, forget everything unless you lose your memory, in fact, a relationship will only fade slowly over time, until you can smile indifferently in retrospect, every relationship is really love when you love, if you don't love, you don't love, so what you can do is to keep that memory perfectly in your heart, and if you lose it, you can face your current life, and then let time decide everything, I believe you will have a different harvest in retrospect.

Time will take everything. Everything will pass. Then slowly get better.

After all, we have to grow up. Learn to be brave.

One has to learn to be strong.

Believe in yourself. Happiness will come to you.

There is no one wrong or right in love.

Only who does not cherish whom.

Love is all about going with the flow. There's no need to force it.

It's always going to be a memory. And then pass. Isn't it?

I wish you happiness.

Don't learn, the more you want to forget someone, the harder it will be for you to forget him, the best way is not to think about anything, or to find someone who is destined to start anew

Look away from others. The deeper the love.

The more painful it is to forget.

There are many people who will say to find another feeling to transfer, in fact, this is not right, forgetting should let yourself live a full life, but this is still a psychological problem, see if you really want to forget, as long as it is a matter of the heart, no one will forget, but even if you can't forget, then we will put it aside, first relax, and then to live your own full, don't make yourself depressed for this little thing.

The 8 best ways to forget a person.

1 If you are a woman.

You can cry. Crying and crying.

I don't want to cry when I'm done crying.

2. You can drink alcohol.

I'm going to get drunk. Drink every day until you want to be sober.

3 If you have nothing to do.

Or because of a breakup, you don't want to do things.

Then you run.

Keep running. I'm tired of running, and I'm going home.

Take a shower and sleep.

4. If so, you won't forget it.

Then you leave the city where he is.

Go to another place you haven't been.

You can be working.

It can also be tourism.

When you arrive in a new environment, you just think about how to survive.

Maybe you still miss him when you're lonely.

But it's good after a long time.

5. Find a new person.

Start a new romance.

The best way to get to a scar is to fall in love next time.

6. Find a friend.

Be your trash can.

Wait for what you say you don't want to make a statement about.

Then it hurts you.

Already in mitigation.

7 ** numbers.

The addresses have changed.

Throw away everything about him.

Start anew. 8. Love yourself.

Love yourself to know.

You are the most amazing in this world.

It's actually easy to really want to forget someone.

If you can't forget, it's because you don't want to forget at all, and you don't want to forget.

The best way to forget a person is to fall in love again, not to think about him, and to fill this emptiness by not being lively

You won't forget, the more you think about it, the more you remember it, and you can't distort whether it's good or bad!

Do you really forget that you are happy? The more this happens, the more painful it is, instead of choosing to forget him, it is better to let your past with him become your good memory, everyone has something painful for him, do you choose to forget to escape, and wait until the next person who makes your heart move appears in front of you, it can completely become a memory.

Forgetting is not forgetting, but starting a new life!

If you have been forgetting, you will keep remembering, so, use the new.

Life memories to cover, is the best choice!

People can't live in the past, everything in the past can't be changed, people can only grasp the time they have in their hands!

Wake up early in the morning, go for a run, and go to school or work! Reward yourself for your hard work by cooking at noon, and go for a walk with your family after dinner in the evening! Take a bath and sleep!

It's going to be another day!

If you can walk out of your own heart, you will find that you have neglected a lot of the happy life that you should have enjoyed.

So, use the tranquility of running in the early morning, with the tranquility of only hearing your own breath and heartbeat while running, to tell yourself that anything can be done! You can do it!

Forgetting is not learned! It's about how to face the reality yourself!

Or try to change your lifestyle!

But the most important thing is your own mentality!