Should I give up or am I not good enough?

Updated on technology 2024-05-24
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Hello, seeing your story, I think you put too much pressure on yourself, let yourself relax. As for you and your girlfriend, let it be. As I told you, she found someone else, and you don't need to remember her anymore.

    I can see that you are a dutiful son. Stop torturing yourself and keep going for the sake of your mother and yourself. Or to put it back.

    After all, I'm not a party to the question, and I can't judge your girlfriend's personality. But from what you presented, I can only give you some personal advice. If your girlfriend is like this, she is not suitable for you, think about it, your mother must want you to find someone who can love you and care about you.

    If you are attached to the feeling of being with her. It is also the love song of your youth. Not worth remembering.

    Only the best memories. You are also a member of society now. I'm sure you've experienced the ups and downs of society.

    You have to understand that you are looking for someone who will share your ups and downs, a woman who can give you a real harbor. Instead of giving you a woman who has a snowy night. is saying that you are not cheap, just because you still have feelings for her.

    It's just that you don't want to give up. You have to learn what to give up now. After all, you still have a long way to go.

    Plan for your mom and your own days, letting go will be a great option for you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your girlfriend is not the same as you grew up in! So she can't be considerate of your feelings and moods! I think since you are for your mother, you should care more about your mother!

    After all, your mother is absolutely sincere to you, and good girls are still easier to find, first of all, your first character has passed, isn't it normal for your parents to divorce! Now people are looking away, not like before. Got it!

    If you don't think it's suitable, then divide it! Since we can't get along now, I'm afraid we won't be able to get along in the future... 28 is not too big, just work hard!

    It's not too late for a man to get married at the age of 30! If you have a house, you can find it! ~~

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, you are not reluctant to her, you are reluctant to give up your relationship for more than two years, this is an ostrich mentality, some things you have to face, and then there is your selfishness in trouble, you feel unwilling, even if you are reluctant to be together, you will not be happy, just the beginning of another disaster, the current girls are not as you said, life is a matter of two people, as long as you are happy, what does it have to do with the family, there is a giving to get in fact, you will live a good life.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Regret has nothing left to change.

    Love mainly depends on how you treat it to the imitator, plain love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love, this everyone's way of loving is different, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because you do not protect true love when it will lead to love is short-lived, will think that it will not last long.

    To love someone is to trust each other.

    To love someone is to understand each other.

    To love someone, you have to be tolerant with more heart.

    To love someone is to be open-minded.

    To love someone is to respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

    If you love someone, you should support him (her) a lot behind your back, not block them.

    When you love someone and you have to face that he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm very good and happy.

    If you love someone to laugh, you have to hide the fragility and grievances in your heart, and don't let him (her) know.

    Love someone There is too much love, maybe some people can't do it.

    The important point is that love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Love is such a thing, in fact, only you know best in your heart, and only you can know the gains and losses.

    Since I am in love, I don't care about the pain of the old man, I think I have at least been happy. Thoughts bury the ascension.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you don't have to care too much, you don't need to force it, just let everything ...... with fateTwo people can't be happy, it's not as good as one person being happy; It is better for two blind men to talk about people's pain than to fulfill one person's happiness. There is a limit to love, once it is worn through ,..

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