Loneliness comes from love, can a loveless person be lonely?

I thought about it for a long time and didn't find the basis that loneliness comes from love, I think loneliness comes from the lack of love.

If a person is surrounded by love, he will not feel lonely, it is precisely because he is far away from love that a person will have a feeling of rejection, and will feel that he is a marginalized person, a lone ranger, a lone ranger, a person to eat, a person to go shopping, a person to go home, the more crowded places the more highlighted their loneliness, if it is not for deep experience, I will not say such a thing, I think the word love can be associated with the key words are often beautiful, definitely not lonely, And those who don't have love will of course feel lonely, they are on the way to pursue love alone and hurry, if there is a person around him at this time to walk with him, I don't think he will feel lonely, but this person will inevitably be in the identity of love.

Once upon a time, I was also a person who was deeply lonely, renting a rental room in a strange city alone, with mottled walls and empty rooms, I was the only one who smelled moldy, curled up in the quilt, and used my mobile phone to peek into other people's world and wonderful, the happier others lived, the more my own loneliness was highlighted, as if I was like a bird without feet, never able to land in this steel jungle and find a place to live. The taste of loneliness is like a shadow, if there is no love, maybe I will end up depressed, but God will not let the poor people be pitiful all the time, when the moment fate appears, I know that my spring is coming, the person I love and the person who loves me is the same person, we hold hands and spend love together, at this time loneliness has disappeared, I have become the happiest person in the world.

To sum up, loneliness definitely does not come from love, people without love must be lonely, a lonely prodigal son has no home, his soul has nowhere to settle, and a person's belonging must be the existence of love.

Of course, loveless people are not lonely, they will feel that a person is very free and can squander their youth.

A person without love also feels lonely, because although he has no love, he longs for love, but because he does not give love, he does not receive love, and if he does not get love, he will feel lonely.

I don't think people who don't have love won't be lonely. Because his heart will think about how to play, not think about a person.

People who don't love will definitely be lonely, because the emptiness of their hearts will never be satisfied, they will never be filled, and they will never be able to live with themselves.

Loveless people do feel lonely, and they feel very lonely, and they want to find someone to stay with them until they grow old.

People who don't love will be lonely, because they will feel more and more that they are only one person, no one cares for them, and they are very lonely.

He won't be lonely, he won't care about the people around him, he doesn't want to be close to the people around him, so he won't feel lonely.

Mr. Ringer said".AloneWhen this word is written, the realm is lofty, and there seems to be an invisible force pushing people forward, so that after you are afraid and afraid, you can see the sun through the clouds, be reborn, and understand lifeFeel at easeThe essence is—Return to loneliness, urging you to see through life and know how to behave. When I learned to feel, there was an indescribable sentimentality around me.

A moderate sense of loneliness can be profound, unique, and elegant. Life also needs this kind of profundity, elegance.

People's loneliness is to see the beautiful scenery and realize the inner happiness, but there is nowhere to tell or shareOne can discover when one is lonely that love is unique and love is important. Everyone has love, even if they are lonely. When you fall in love with solitude, you can put your mind and your soul at work.

Alone, leaning on the door to watch the moon, stopping in the courtyard to enjoy the scenery, lonely or not?

"One Hundred Years of Solitude" is not a good read**, the construction is too grand, and the combination of magic and reality is quite difficult to understand. For first-time readers, repeating names that are difficult to remember can be a challenge. Moreover, Marx himself was quite in favor of the "schoolboy style of writing", so that the whole work does not read with particularly strong dramatic conflicts, in other words, a bit like a running account.

As a first-time reader, what this century-long family that eventually disappeared left me with a new understanding of loneliness - love and non-love, it's all loneliness.

What is loneliness? The term is too abstract. This feeling sometimes flares up at some inadvertent moment, hidden so deeply that it startles; Sometimes this feeling is accompanied by every imprint of life, and with time it gradually ferments and decays, externalizes into action, and destroys people's faces.

At the moment when loneliness comes, I only feel that I am the only independent and fragile individual between heaven and earth, and I can't find an outlet for my emotions, so I can only brew in my heart until I wring out the sour bitter water.

What is the cause of loneliness? Abandoned? No one understands?

Having trouble fitting in? All kinds of small reasons are because I can't feel the love passed on by others. This is true of most loneliness.

Colonel Aureliano in the book is a typical representative of lifelong loneliness, destitute and without love. Male and female copulation is a physical need for him, driven by desire. He is arrogant, vain, cold, does not respond to the love of others, and does not give.

He has spent his whole life battling loneliness, because he locks himself in a world of solitude and loneliness, and he clings to it and does not want to step out. In fact, Colonel Aureliano is an amplification of countless people in life, and the author portrays him as a loveless man before the bend. However, it is impossible for a person in life to be completely loveless, and loneliness still accompanies a considerable number of people, even if there are tens of thousands of reasons to escape loneliness around him.

Compared to Ao, who has nowhere to seek a solution to loneliness in his life, aren't we much happier in reality?

Of course, if you are a person who is willing to endure mental loneliness for some reason that cannot be abandoned, it is also an option to stand up for yourself. Such people generally become "real madmen" or "madmen in the eyes of the world".

Colonel Aureliano is, after all, an outlier. In fact, all the characters in the book have unique attributes, but none of them can escape the fate of loneliness. In particular, there is no escape from the loneliness that comes with thirsting for love.

Love is a good medicine to comfort loneliness, but the deep love is taken advantage of by loneliness.

Two people who love each other like this can still have someone else's place in their eyes? When you recognize it, you will miss, and when you miss it, loneliness will come.

This loneliness brought about by love can only be dispatched by the other party, and there is no other solution.

I hope that this inexplicable loneliness, you and I can fall into it without an antidote.

I love you before I believe in you, and I am willing to do it.

Love and loneliness are two of the most beautiful songs in life, and both are indispensable.

A loveless heart will not appreciate loneliness, and a person who has not experienced loneliness cannot know love.

Loneliness comes from love, and people without love are not lonely.

Love and loneliness are actually the same emotion, they go hand in hand and are inseparable.

The more lonely we feel, the stronger our desire to love becomes.

A person's experience of loneliness is directly proportional to his experience of love, and the depth of his loneliness roughly determines the capacity of his love.

Loneliness and love are rooted in each other, loneliness is nothing more than love seeking acceptance but not being able to get it, and love is nothing more than the discovery and comfort of the loneliness of others.

Everyone is an orphan, so everyone longs for love and love.

The soul is looking for its own ** and destiny but cannot find it, feeling that it is an unfounded accident in the vast universe, which is absolute, metaphysical, philosophical loneliness.

The soul seeks another soul and cannot find it, feeling that it is a wanderer in the world without a traveling companion, which is relative, metaphysical, social loneliness.

The former kind of loneliness leads one to God and divine love, or to the void. The latter kind of loneliness leads people to love for others and on earth, or to fall into narcissism.

We form our spirits and feelings as a result of our associations, but we also corrupt our spirits and feelings as a result of our associations.

The former kind of interaction is a heart-to-heart communication between two people, and my encounter with you, is both full of love and respect for loneliness.

The latter kind of interaction is a bustling bargain of interests, which, as Nietzsche described it, is both a desecration of love and a humiliation of loneliness.

Life is purely accidental, so each life has to be attached to another life, dependent on each other, and walking together.

Life is purely accidental, so each life does not belong to another life, like a gust of wind, without concern.

People need companionship in the world.

I think I'm a very ego person, able to appreciate the joy of solitude, loneliness, solitude, but I just can't live without such a partner, if not, loneliness, loneliness, solitude will lose the fun, and I will feel alone in the endless desert.

I can't live without you, I can't live without you.

When one loneliness seeks another loneliness, there is a desire to love. But can two loneliness get rid of loneliness when they come together?

I guess this answer is not unique.

In the current age of the Internet, everyone's life seems to be open and transparent. The connection between people has become easier, but the distance between people has become farther away.

A problem that can be solved by a ** and a WeChat, there is less opportunity for people to meet each other; A **, a movie can get rid of the boredom of the world, and there is less fun of parties between people.

Nowadays, people gradually lack the ability to listen and speak. Sometimes, you want to talk to your heart, but you can't find someone to talk to. The people you can meet are more customers, colleagues and leaders, and not the people who can make you speak freely and open your heart.

Nowadays, people are more and more fond of a single life. Eat alone, sleep alone, commute to work alone, watch movies alone. But people always need a companion in the world, so people choose to raise cats, dogs, spiders, and lizards.

Although you can only rely on yourself for spiritual happiness, it is better to have someone to accompany you than nothing.

I often wonder if if the outcome would have been different if I had been brave in the first place. If you insisted at the time, the memories would not be ordinary. In the end, I still didn't say it, and you still ignored the silver store.

In fact, love is sometimes really random, sooner or later, love more, love less, be brave and cowardly, and the difference in one thought is another different life.

And the biggest drawback of communication between people happens to be this "difference of thoughts". You thought I'd say, I thought you'd understand. Actually, if you don't say it, how can others understand.

The biggest regret of reminiscing is misunderstanding what I wanted to say but didn't say. I call it: Youth.

Everyone will have such memories to some extent, and these memories do not need to be declared. It is precisely because of these things that keep us silent that we are more lonely in our hearts, and we are more eager to love and be loved.

But we all know how difficult it is to love, or the person who searches for the letter says that if we understand the limits of love, we can ** friendship. But we know that friendship is also difficult, or we understand that friendship is also limited, so we can only be lonely.

When loneliness has become a luxury......

What should we talk about?

It's disappointment. If we don't go to the ** when we are lonely, our lives will only be left with disappointment. So in order not to be disappointed, we can only pretend that we like solitude. As Haruki Murakami said: **Some people like to be alone, but they don't like to be disappointed.

I prefer love to disappointment and loneliness.

Even if it's just, love yourself.

Writer Zhou Guoping said:"Loneliness is a kind of love, and people without love are not lonely"。

I think so. I don't know when I started to feel lonely, but experience has taught me that it was with this loneliness that I began to find myself, and I officially grew up. Everyone is actually lonely in nature, in an absolute sense, no one will accompany them through their lives, loneliness is the background color of life, but also the beginning and end of life.

Loneliness is also a sign of a person's maturity, which in a certain sense illustrates the depth and breadth of life. Any experience and thought is meaningful only when it returns to oneself and thinks independently. A person who can think is admirable and most powerful.

One of the biggest help to me from years of reading life is that I have gradually understood what loneliness is, as well as the exact value and aesthetic significance of loneliness in the essential sense. Loneliness is good, it is one of the most appropriate ways to know oneself and be good at thinking, and its most direct good result is the old saying: those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear.

Be sober and self-aware, be self-conscious, consciously keep a sufficient distance from the outside world, and not be moved by customs; The second is to heal, be your own psychiatrist, heal yourself, and rely on yourself as much as possible, which is a helpless choice, in fact, it can also be an active posture. And a sense of loneliness to be avoided is that when you are alone, it is easy to walk into a false dead end, perhaps more negatively, such loneliness, don't do it.

Loneliness is different for everyone, and loneliness is unspeakable, it can only be experienced.

I thought I could just share thoughts. And the reason why I like this book "Six Lectures on Loneliness" by Taiwanese esthetician Jiang Xun is that I hope to have a deeper understanding of loneliness from more angles and levels. This meaning and understanding is more metaphysical than psychological.

Mr. Jiang is an esthetician, and his deep theoretical knowledge and skillful expression skills are enough to enable him to have a deeper grasp of loneliness, which is incomparable to ordinary people. I'm sure everyone who has experienced and appreciated loneliness will love this book. He made us understand:

Loneliness is the beginning of a successful life, there is no experience of being alone with yourself, you will not know how to get along with people, love and loneliness are actually the same thing, you understand loneliness, you also know love, people who have love, no matter how you go, will easily find your way home.