How much time does it take to forget the past?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-18
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If forgetting can also be painful, then don't force yourself to forget, because true love does not need to forget, and true forgetting does not require effort.

    Remember.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Everyone has their own different experiences, the depth of love, the heart of pain, can not escape the soul annihilated by love, the sweetness of love makes everyone who is deeply involved in it nostalgic to go back and forth, is there anything wrong with this, but at the end of love, it is like a dream, the dream wakes up, but it is still in the aftertaste, the fantasy is returning to the dream, but there is no way back, there is no room to go back, so it is secretly sad, secretly sad, if you want to forget, you can't forget, all the time tormenting your memory, Your every move appears in your memory from time to time, or crying or laughing, all concern your heart, you can't go into the next life, you can't forget how to take the next step, what can make you forget, how do you forget, the answer is no, as long as you are still awake, your brain has those memories, you can't erase it, be strong and hold back, only you can taste the pain.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe I can understand how you feel, but I can't forget it, and there's only one way, and that's if you're happy, you won't think about it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It depends on how you look at the past. Some people will laugh it off when they know the result. I feel the best is the "transfer method"!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I always think that time can dilute everything, and believe that I can forget everything over time, but this is not the case. I have always believed that I will not be hurt by my feelings, and I believe that I can afford to let go, but the love two years ago left me scarred and heartbroken, so I have never been able to let go of this feeling, so I can't accept a new relationship. I've been trying to let go of this relationship and forget about the past, but I can't do anything, and I'm trying to accept another new relationship, but I can't do it either, I don't know what's wrong with me, although I know I should get out of this situation, but I can't get out, it's like it's going around and coming back.

    That day I went on a business trip to the city where he was, and it happened that he also beat me that day, and we naturally came out to eat together, I thought I had forgotten about him, and I could laugh at him, but the moment I saw him, I knew that I had never forgotten him. That day he told me: Your departure is a big mistake, and you shouldn't leave without a word and then never hear from me.

    I wanted to cry, but I knew I couldn't, so I had to force a smile, but anyone could tell how reluctant the smile was on my face. What can I do if I don't laugh, what can I get back even if I am wrong, because he is already a husband, and I don't know what else I can do except smile bitterly. I didn't let him drop me off after dinner that day, but walked on the street by myself for more than two hours.

    After returning from a business trip, I changed my body up and down to give myself a new look. Since I can't forget that feeling, then I will let that feeling be buried deep in my heart forever, remember that feeling forever, and let it become my best memory. It is better to have it than to have nothing.

    Sometimes there are some things that you want to forget the more clearly your memory can be, so don't force yourself to forget something, because time can't dilute everything, and we can't really forget anything, saying that forgetting is just self-deception. In this way, it is better to face it calmly, to remember it, so that there will always be a corner of your memory that exists for it. I hope that people in the world who are emotionally confused can face themselves calmly, face that feeling, and don't deceive yourself to force yourself to forget, because your memory is beyond your control, so we can only go with the flow.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Since you've already experienced it, why forget. Forgetting is the stupidest decision. Even if time dilutes everything.

    Someday, someone, something, will touch the deepest memories in your heart. Forget to use it..? A person's life.

    It's not easy to remember a few people.、Instead of thinking about how to forget.,It's better to think about how to remember whatever he brings you.。。 But he's always in your memory. That past is still there.

    An end cannot negate everything before, if you have been happy, then remember this happiness, everything has the courage to face, in order to be calm, and face the future life.

    The memory of the past is deep in the bottom of your heart, this is your life, life is perfect because it is imperfect, it can only grow because of pain, and you will only understand when you come over and look back.

    Deliberately forgetting will only make yourself more painful, so don't deliberately forget, since it exists, why forget.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's hard to try to forget love.

    It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

    After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

    So don't try to forget that you don't want to forget.

    Remember. One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

    That's a beautiful place in your heart......

    It's hard to try to forget love. It's harder to forget someone, what is forgetting?

    After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city.

    That's a beautiful place in your heart......

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    will fall in love with one or several people in your life, inevitably be hurt, cry and hurt, a long, long time later, when you finally meet your true love, you will understand that pain is sometimes precious, it enriches life and leaves some traces to memory!

    Just do what you are happy about, just do what you want to do, live a relaxed life, there is no need to deliberately force you to forget something, this will only make your life harder!

    Let yourself go, think clearly, and don't make unnecessary offerings! There are so many things in life that you have to learn to deal with, you don't lose everything when he is gone, you still have your job, your family, your friends! Integrate into life anew, where you will have a new self.

    And you must not believe in love, you just didn't meet the right person at the right time, and one day you will definitely find that happiness that belongs to you! He will truly love and care for you, and will not let you be hurt at all, let alone hurt you at all! Stop thinking about the person who is not worth thinking about, and accumulate feelings until your person really appears before using it!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The most important thing is that you have to let go of yourself, you have to think about it, and the more you force yourself to forget, the more difficult it will be.

    In the face of pain, we often look at it with a magnifying glass.

    Life is short for decades, don't leave yourself with any regrets, laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and learn to give up when you should give up. There is no need to suppress yourself.

    Remember what should be remembered and forget what should be forgotten. Change what can be changed, accept what can't be changed.

    In life, there are constantly people leaving or entering.

    In fact, so much is just to comfort you, because you are very serious, you care, you really put your heart into it, there is no way to forget, if you can be a little more selfish, maybe it won't hurt so much, but unfortunately, love has no ifs.

    It's a process, a process that you have to go through.

    But you have to cheer yourself up.

    So, what is seen, what is not seen; What is remembered, forgotten.

    In life, there are constantly gains and losses.

    And he that which was not seen, saw it; Forgotten, remembered.

    However, what is not seen is the same as not existing?

    Remember, is it never going to go away?

    In fact, many of the injuries in life are not as serious as I imagined. If, not taking it seriously, he wouldn't be in pain. When you feel pain, it's because you think the wound hurts, and you're afraid that the wound hurts.

    The state of mind of how you look at a thing is very important, just as the optimist sees the fried ring, and the pessimist sees the hole.

    You should learn to let go and say to yourself: What is there? What's the big deal.

    When you dare to face it, you will begin to forget.

    Because your mind is already at ease, what things don't need to be remembered.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's time to forget, and one day you'll find that you've forgotten before you know it. And if you can't forget, why force yourself to forget. Nostalgia with another mood.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Sealed in the bottom of my heart, I can always miss him and the good past, but don't contact him again. And silently wish him eternal happiness in my heart! If he has a sense, he will definitely take the initiative to find you again one day in a certain year. At that time, everything in my heart will be calm.

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