What if you can t live for yourself? If I can t live for myself, what the hell am I supposed to do?

Person. To live is to live for others and cooperate with everyone, so it is called life.

Those who know how to love themselves are qualified to love others and live for themselves.

Hehe, to be honest, people should live for themselves, but living in this society, it is inevitable to take into account the opinions of others. Man becomes an animal that lives for others and can only live for himself. Sometimes I think about it, as long as the people around me are happy, it is my greatest happiness, but the people in this society are too complicated, and I want to stay away from it and them.

But not after all, because we have people around us who love us and those we love. Therefore, I think it is for myself and for others, and when I feel happy, I say that I live for myself, and when I have to do it, hehe, I have to say something hypocritically, for myself and for the whole family. In general, if one is for oneself, one has to live for others, and for others is to live for oneself.

You say you can't live for yourself? I think this statement is wrong, you can say that you are forced to do something you don't like, or you can say that you can't help but do things that make you happy. But who hasn't been like that?

At the very least, your mind is there, you can think, you can think about how you want to go in the future. When you say you can't live for yourself, it's better that you haven't tried hard at all and want to live well. It's a process.

A process of growth.

It must be for the people you care about, your parents, brothers or the people you love, tiredness is unavoidable, you just think it's worth it.

Live for someone else? Don't be funny.

In fact, it is not so difficult to live for yourself, and it is easier to make a choice based on intuition. When you make a choice, don't think about what to do for your parents, you just think about which choice I will be happy to make, you have to live your own life, so that you don't come to this world in vain! You might as well stop thinking too much, do what you can do, give up some self-touching, I think self-moving will not bring motivation will only bring anger, you are under pressure, of course, you are constantly internal friction, it is better to do what you want to do, and finally you can try to confide, lose to talk to her, whenever you have anxiety, you can talk to you when you can't figure it out, lose all your thoughts, and communicate with your anxious events, reduce your anxiety value.

Here are some suggestions for you:

1. You can try to do something positive to reduce your anxiety value, or find something you like to do to divert your attention and gradually reduce your anxiety value. It is to make a life and career plan, then, in this plan, you have to make a long-term goal. Then divide how to achieve this goal into n small steps, and how long it will take to achieve it gradually, rather than achieving this goal all at once.

It's about breaking it into pieces.

2. You can talk to your parents about your anxiety, but they understand your thoughts and see if they really need you to take care of them now, and whether they need you to worry about them now. Communicate openly with your parents and tell them that you really like what you are really interested in and that they will understand. Only by understanding the current needs of parents can we know whether your current worries are unnecessary.

If they don't need your care at all, isn't there any point in worrying about them?

3. Change your perception of the lifestyle of stable work, and explain what you are doing now in a way that you can accept, such as the exam you are preparing for, you can think that this is preparing for your ideal life. There are many paths in life, all of them lead to Rome, even if what you are doing now may be very different from your ideals, but as long as you keep this desire, I believe you will get closer and closer to your ideal life.

Improve yourself, make yourself better and better, enrich yourself, keep yourself busy, and don't have the heart to think about anything else, so that you can live for yourself.

You have to be better for yourself, you have to be calm, you have to be happy every day, you have to face life positively, learn to live for yourself, you have to be kind to yourself, you have to study more, you have to work harder, and you have to improve yourself more.

First of all, don't think too much about things, you should do what you can and follow your heart when doing things, don't always think cranky, and read more books when you have nothing to do, so that your mind can calm down.

I dreamed that I couldn't live

It shows that you have to have hope for life and good luck in the near future. Don't worry, the goddess of good luck will take care of you.

Before the exam, I dreamed that I couldn't live

It shows that you are not confident in yourself, and your confidence is given to you by yourself. Maintain a normal level and you can achieve good results.

A pregnant woman dreams that she can't live

It means that the family loves you very much, and you just need to wait for the birth safely. Don't think too much about it.

The clerk dreamed that he couldn't live

There will be ups and downs at work, maybe it's a change of position, which is not a bad thing for you.

The middle-aged man dreams that he can't live

It indicates that the dreamer is very healthy and his life is very satisfactory, which is indeed the opposite of dream and reality.

The woman dreams that she can't live

It is a sign that there will be mental problems, which are mainly caused by excessive stress, so it is recommended that you choose to go out and relax during the holidays.

Dreaming that you can't live is taboo:

It is advisable to watch movies, Lu Trembling is suitable to reminisce about the past, and it is advisable to go on a blind date.

Don't be extreme, don't jump, don't shop.