I m frustrated today, my heart is very unbalanced, I think too much, who can comfort me

No one knows what frustration you have, and no one knows why you are unbalanced! You just need to know: your life is your own, you are glad that you can live every day is already the best favor of God, let go, your sky will become more vast!

When you cry that you don't have a pair of crystal slippers, but you don't see the happiness of wearing straw sandals; When you don't even have straw sandals, you should see the smile of someone who has no feet; While suffering from the absence of feet, you look at the crying of a mother who is about to lose her child

You've been growing up in a greenhouse, and you've had no setbacks, so you're thinking about a little thing, and you're going to know that there's still a long way to go, and you're going to adapt to this society.

Take care of yourself, some things go with the flow. Well.

The world of flowers, people make you unbalanced, which means that they don't know the goods.

Since their eyes are not good, then you quickly draw circles and curse them for walking with stones on the soles of their feet, and they have fallen for ten and a half years.

Let yourself relax and do what you want to do.

Remember, failure is the mother of success.

What kind of comfort do you want? I'm frustrated every day, can this comfort you?

After listening to "How to manage a life without regrets. >> Lectures are OK.

Anger – punishing oneself for the mistakes of others;

Afflictions – to compensate oneself with one's own faults;

Regret is to destroy oneself with a helpless past;

Anxiety – is to scare oneself with virtual risks;

Loneliness – is the imprisoning of oneself in a self-made cell;

Low self-esteem is to use the strengths of others to denigrate oneself.

Let go of these, and you can be happy without worries.

Haha, I also encountered such a situation when I was in college, and it would be okay if I wanted to open it, so what about it that wasn't pretty.

Are you incapable, do you think you're late, can't you start again, overtake them?

Don't always feel that you are not as good as others, because others are inferior to you in many ways. Physiognomy can give a good impression of a straight face, but the heart is the one that can leave the deepest and best impression on people. If you pay too much attention to the beauty and ugliness of appearance, then your most important heart is **?

There are many heartless people who go, but are they all doing well? Don't worry too much, everyone's strengths and weaknesses coexist, and there are just as many. When you discover the beauty of others, it means that you are beautiful yourself.

Because you have eyes that find beauty, but your eyes see yourself the most. So, you must have a lot of beauty in yourself. I hope you can care less about the outside and more about the inside.

A person's most precious things are always placed in the most undiscoverable places. BE HAPPY ...

To believe in yourself, your appearance cannot be changed, but achievements and talents can be worked on, as long as you work hard, remember the phrase "be the best version of yourself". Maybe you have the advantages that others don't, everyone is a unique work of art created by the Creator, and I believe that I have a unique charm.

It's a sad feeling, and I don't want to forget the people I can't get anymore, but I don't want to give my feelings to the people who are around me.

It's not that you think too much. It's that he has a problem. I can't get out of that. Then he will never be able to accept you from the inside.

It's that I think too much, you always say this, but you don't, you really feel sorry for me.

These words are really sad.

There are many psychological things, which are also given by yourself, don't make yourself so tired, just do what you should do, learn to release the version of the rest assured, or find your most powerful friend to tell him all, let him share it for you, even if you can't bear these things with you, at least he will help you share the pressure of this thing, be mature, it's normal for us to have a lot of things at our age now, think about maybe there are many people who are in the same mood as you, maybe you will feel better psychologically, or solve the problem if you have a problem.

Principled in doing things, measured in life, one thing is one thing, and things that can't be beaten can appear in your mind at the same time to prove you.

The brain volume is not small.

Feeling depressed means that you are not very satisfied with your current state of life, and the solution is to calm down yourself, make an assessment of the state before your belonging, see what the problem is, what is the key to the problem, and wait until you have sorted out the problem and need to find a solution to the problem. At the same time, you can talk to your family and friends, one is to vent bad emotions, and the other is to find more and better ways to solve the problem.

Look down on baibei, this still has to rely on yourself to change your mentality, not just say a word or two from others.

DAOs can help you change. You mainly care too much about what other people think of you, and sometimes you don't need to care so much about others, especially those who are not so important. Don't affect your mood because of someone else's words, it's not a big deal, no one will pay attention to and care about you all the time, there's no need to think so much, just let it be.

You have to think twice before you talk and do things, and think about it a lot.

To be normal, accept that you do think too much, and then find a way to change, you can try to meditate alone in a quiet night, clear your mind, let go of your obsessions, write it down in a diary, write down what makes you think too much, write down your choices, write down the pros and cons of each choice, control your own thoughts, and insist on writing out the most important and serious thoughts every day and solving them first. You can also distract yourself by learning another thing, such as swimming, dancing, practicing calligraphy, reading books, so that you don't have the heart to think cranky, cultivate new interests, talk to people boldly, overcome low self-esteem, don't compare yourself with others, don't be afraid to talk, be brave to try, know what to say and not to say at work, don't talk casually, you are a small person, don't show yourself too much, just focus on what you want to do, start slowly may not be able to integrate into the group, but who doesn't start like this, Like a pendulum, the pendulum of the hanging needle to one side must be forced to the other, so when you first start talking to people, your heart beats and blushes and you are afraid of something, and slowly it shifts to the main topic, I personally think that you have to go with the flow, don't deliberately, listen to what others say, you have to integrate into the topic, this is a manifestation of ability, and it is also a lifelong learning to get along, anyway, don't be afraid to talk to people, talk to people more.

Hello bai, a bad mood is usually on your mind.

Du, everything is born from the heart, in fact, you know what you are annoying with, if you have something on your mind, you can communicate with your worthy friends or relatives, listen to other people's suggestions and views, which may give you inspiration, this may be a solution to the problem, and do something that interests you to divert your attention, it is also helpful to relieve the troubles of the mood, and your understanding of things is the best medicine for troubles. In terms of entertainment, you can go online to play some games, but you can't indulge in it, you can also watch sketches, comedies, listen to **, sing, go shopping, shopping. Today is Sunday, it is recommended not to stay at home during the day, first put your worries aside, ask your friends to go outside for a walk and play, breathe fresh air, feel the atmosphere outside, I believe that the feeling of your return is different, I really can't stand it and can also take some healthy venting methods, such as asking good friends to go to the song hall to sing, you can go to a place where no one screams a few times, or cry bitterly.

If you think too much, you don't eat, and when you're hungry, you want to be hungry every day.

It means that I am also ...... like this

It is recommended that you go to the library for a few days, it will definitely work.

Language is just a way of expression, have you ever really thought about it?

Romance is good, but most importantly.

Whether you truly love him and care about him.

Don't get tangled in gifts, it's one-sided to look at things this way.

Hehe! How old are you, look at the past, you seem to be only in high school or even junior high school, in fact, formal things are sometimes needed, but because of this you are uncomfortable, you shouldn't, like it or not, love it or not, you can't judge from these things, let's put it this way, if two people have been together for a long time and have a deep relationship, they will pay less and less attention to these formal superficial things!

I'm a man, generally speaking, it's more romantic to tease and play (similar to acting on the spot), and if you want to live a lifetime, you naturally have to be very serious, and there is no polite thing. To love or not to love is a feeling, not a form.

This depends on your own psychological thoughts, maybe it was his first love, two years ago he may not have understood anything, saying that he misses you and the like is very simple, now that he is mature, he will be rational. So don't be unbalanced!

A QQ gift can't say anything, and his ex-girlfriend can compare with you.

Yes, because then you can see other people's jokes; Sometimes, of course, you'll be in someone else's shoes. The failures of others, you can take them as a lesson for yourself not to make mistakes, and don't let your sour grapes mentality wipe out the wealth you may gain.

Schadenfreude!? This is not normal human thinking. Dozens of people were killed on the highway during the National Day holiday, and we can be glad that there are no relatives there, but we must not use this as our own psychological comfort.

We can learn from the failures of others and get little psychological solace. It's dishonorable to hide in a corner and watch other people's jokes.

Yes, as long as you want, but you still have to face your heart.

If the person is higher, it will advance, and if the person is lower than the bottom, it will retreat.

Can you take other people's success as your own inspiration?

Not good. After a long time, you will naturally succeed others, and you will not be jealous.

Shift your focus and focus on something.

It is advisable that you write down all the things you think.

Day by day, solve it one by one, face it bravely, and slowly eat away at it.

It's important to learn to relax. Drinking a little wine, taking a bubble bath, listening to **, going for a walk, combing your hair, are all very helpful. Things, unpleasant, will pass slowly.

I think you're too idle, find something to do, and let yourself focus on something, not only to drive away the mess of thoughts, but also to live life to the fullest.

Properly adjust your mood, find some friends to go out to play, have friends will make you a lot more cheerful, if you really can't let go, you can find your best friend to talk about, I want to talk about all my troubles, it will be much better.

Sometimes getting drunk can really solve the problem, so don't you get drunk once.