If you feel pain in your relationship, what should you do to break up?

Not happy? At this time, most people feel that they should break up, and it is because the two people are not suitable that they are unhappy! Judging from my own love history and my friend's love history, it is best not to break up at this time, because this time may be a run-in period, and it will be fine after this period of time.

One is myself, my ex-girlfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship, I didn't feel anything when we were together before, the two of us are in a different place, there are a lot of problems, and I am very unhappy. At that time, I broke up on impulse, and after breaking up, I suddenly felt that in fact, two people had so many problems because of different places, and if it wasn't for different places, it would be much better. Because I completely broke my ex-girlfriend's heart, I didn't chase her back.

I think a happy relationship should be happy, even if there are sometimes problems of one kind or another, but after solving them, they are still happy. If you don't feel happy and happy, it means that there may be a problem in the relationship, maybe the two of you are not suitable, so either change it and stop suffering, or break up! You should look for the next happy love.

When two people are in this painful phase, they should be quiet and have a good talk. First of all, analyze the reason, if you can prescribe the right medicine and solve the problem, the two people should deal with it well, after all, the two people have the foundation of love, and it is better to make peace than to break up.

There are a lot of painful things in the relationship, you always have to look at the painful **, if it's because of him, then let's separate, let everyone be better, if it's just because of yourself, adjust your mentality, there's no need to break up.

If you feel pain in a relationship, it may be that the other person does not bring you enough security, and under normal circumstances, every relationship makes people feel happy and happy. If the communication between the two parties cannot be resolved, then it is better to break up.

If two people do have irreconcilable hope through communication, and there is no room for reversal, why bother to suffer this torment, if you can break it, you can break it off early, and you can break it off early. Otherwise, time is consumed, youth is wasted, and hatred will arise after a long time. When the interruption continues, there will be trouble.

My friend and her boyfriend have a good relationship foundation for seven or eight years, but now their friends are more and more disgusted with his boyfriend, and the two of them are more and more fond of quarreling together. Several times they cried to me that the two of them couldn't get by. We all persuaded her to break up, but she still wanted to insist, and after that period of time, their relationship quickly warmed up, and they were about to get married.

When encountering sad things or sad things, two people should communicate more and don't break up in a hurry.

The relationship should be sweet and happy, you can't feel this feeling anymore, but your relationship has changed, don't continue to torture each other.

If two people are so miserable together, why should they be together? If I were to say it, I would definitely choose to separate and find different happiness, don't delay each other!

If a relationship is painful for you, I feel the need to break up.

There are many couples who are particularly reluctant to separate, but if two people are not separated, there seem to be a lot of contradictions, and they are not happy together After being separated for a period of time, they found that this kind of unhappiness is actually more obvious after separation. <

In fact, it is a very normal thing, because after two people are together, they will have some work problems, and then they will have their own space, but if they say more to each other, they may provoke an uncomfortable point of their own, and then slowly the feelings of the two people will have a fierce collision, and over time it will become more painful Life will become more and more chaotic, and the conflict between the two people will become more and more acute. <>

It is impossible for many young people, because they are relatively young, and there are many things that they don't want to let each other go, so everyone is in an offensive state in this matter, no one retreats, and naturally there is no alleviation There are some people he will choose to regress, but blind tolerance will also make him accumulate some uncomfortable emotions in his heart, and in the end, it will erupt, and the two people still do not get a good result. <

At this time, what I recommend is to break up, many people say that it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage, but during the relationship, if two people are really not suitable, why be together? There are many people who say that after I separated, I found myself more uncomfortable It was only temporary, when you have some new friends and new emotions in your work and life, you will forget these painful things And in your life to recall the previous love, you will find that there are more good memories left, so there are times when letting go of each other is also the best fulfillment.

Each of us hopes to be a prince and princess in love, pampered, cared for, cared for, and accompanied. Perhaps this is the greatness of love, which can control our emotional changes throughout the day, and can allow us to find each other's fun and happiness in a boring life. <>

It is painful for two people to be together, and it is also painful after a breakup, which is a problem that many people are troubled by. The best solution to this problem is to slowly accept the reality and embrace a new life. Pain when you are together, will make two people not find happiness in life, every moment together will make each other feel sad and sad, instead of suffering for a long time, it is better to break off this relationship as soon as possible, let time slowly wear out each other's love.

The most beautiful thing about love is to let each other have a sense of belonging, a sense of security, and make each other's every day happy. You can't feel happiness at all when you're together, so what's the point of this love. It's better to be ruthless to yourself and insist on letting go of this relationship, in fact, sometimes we don't care too much about the process of two people being together, and we are reluctant to let go, so we will always be nostalgic for the past.

Sometimes letting go is also a kind of love, love is magical, it can make us feel all the beauty and love in this world, and at the same time, it can also make us feel the pain of not being able to love. Life is so long, we have to choose the person who makes ourselves happy and go through the rest of our lives, instead of making every day miserable, life is short, we have to make every day meaningful. <>

Time will give us the best answer, not all feelings can make us find happiness in life, when two people are not suitable, we must learn to stop losses in time.

When two people are together, they will definitely choose to hold each other's hands after careful consideration, but with the passage of time, the relationship may go through a period of downturn, and it will be painful to be together and break up, what should I do at this time?

The first is to share the mood of the moment together, solve the problems of the two people together, and don't let the pain occupy the original happiness of the two people.

There is a fate to meet thousands of miles away, and there is no chance to meet each other, fate is really a wonderful thing, not to mention that two people can hold each other's hands in the vast sea of people. If two people feel very uncomfortable when they are together, and the breakup will also make their hearts ache, then this may be caused by the lack of communication and communication between the two people, the two people look for a comfortable environment, talk about the real feelings at this time, and work together to solve the problems of the two people, do not let the painful emotions at this time occupy the original happy time. We all hope to have a person to accompany you for the rest of your life, since you have found that person, we must work hard to overcome all kinds of difficulties on the road to happiness, although we will go through some painful periods, but after surviving, we will definitely feel the sweet taste of happiness.

Second, the past has been recalled, since you can't maintain the sweet appearance, then, make a decision as soon as possible, so as not to let yourself be struggling in the abyss of pain all the time.

Good memories always make people unconsciously raise the corners of their mouths, but the reality is often cruel, two people feel very painful together, unable to maintain the previous sweet appearance, every day is tormenting, then, why not make a decision as soon as possible, choose to let go, give yourself a chance to be reborn, no longer the abyss of pain, struggling, to pursue their own bright sunshine, let yourself feel the best look of life is not more meaningful?

If the pain cannot solve the problem and has always existed, then choose to leave in time, let go of each other, and let go of yourself.

At this time, we can solve this problem by watching movies, watching TV series, listening to **, singing and traveling, because these methods can divert our attention and also make us forget a lot of unpleasant things.

At this time, you can first try to separate for a period of time, give each other a cooling-off period, and then see if the two people are suitable and continue to be together, and make some changes.

The two of them should sit down and communicate for a while, and talk about the dissatisfaction in their hearts and what they want each other to do.

1. No longer pay attention to everything about the other party.

If you really like the other person, but you are forced to break up, then you can use some more ruthless methods to directly delete everything about the other party. Because after being with someone, you will really leave a lot of memories that you share, although these memories are beautiful, but they will also directly affect you after the breakup.

The more you look at or think about those things about the other person, the harder it is to let go of the other person, so if you are really determined to get out of the relationship completely, you should make sure that you don't pay attention to everything about the other person.

2. Enrich your life.

We can invest a lot in our relationship, but once we break up, we still have to be able to turn back, after all, the most important thing is to make ourselves happy no matter what. So if you want to get yourself out of the pain of a breakup as soon as possible, then you can do something else that interests you and make your life fuller.

Only by making our daily life full of arrangements every day, so that we don't have so much spare time to think about those unhappy things, so that we can slowly forget the pain of those breakups, and finally be able to get out of the sadness relatively quickly.

3. Return the property.

After the breakup, the coins will be returned to the other party as soon as possible to the so-called valuable property, it is best to deal with these things at one time, or you can dispose of them by mail, so as not to find you in the future under the pretext of returning things.

4. Try to avoid contact.

Can you still be normal friends after a breakup? If you can, it is enough to show that you have never loved at all before, and after the breakup, it is good to be an ordinary netizen, don't be greedy too much. After a breakup, don't get in touch if you can, if you break up and you've been entangled, then you don't expect to have the next love, the ex is definitely a potential hidden danger.

5. Don't ask for any news about him.

There are some people who can't let go of each other after breaking up and can't help but ask about the news of their ex, which is enough to prove that you still care about him and know that he is not doing well, you are not happy, and knowing that he is doing well, you will not be very happy. It's better to go back to the original state and stop asking around about him. Finally, one day, you will find that even if he has a new love, you will no longer be sad and sad for such a thing.

It is very painful to break up in a relationship, this is a very normal phenomenon, at this time, you have to find a way to solve the pain, forget the pain, you can choose to go out to travel and relax, and then make some new friends and participate in some group activities!

Hello beauty, it is very painful to break up, no matter who breaks up is very painful, it is necessary to get through it slowly, the most important thing is to put a good attitude, since the breakup must be two people are not suitable, you must find a suitable oneself, in fact, when you break up, you can talk more about happy things with friends, you can forget this relationship, slowly forget, you can also change the environment to travel, adapt to the external environment, and then find the right person for yourself will definitely slowly forget.

Distract yourself more, choose some other ways to relieve your emotions, and don't take not being in love too seriously.

Divert your attention, study hard, improve your quality and ability, and slowly get better. I wish you happiness every day and find happiness soon.

The pain of breaking up, the pain of feelings requires self-regulation of the mentality, decompression in other ways, the best is to find a girlfriend quickly, it will get better soon, if the pain is consumption, you have to see how much, if you can bear it, the next time you find a girlfriend, it will be better to consume.