What do you think of what others say about you?

Don't care too much about what others say about you, and don't care about it at all, after all, when others look at us from an objective point of view, if they think we have problems, then it does mean that we still have something lacking.

You can say what others like and don't care too much about what others think.

I think other people's comments on myself are one-sided, so I don't care much about other people's comments, because it's not easy to live, so why bother to find some unhappiness for yourself, just do yourself with a clear conscience.

Maybe other people's evaluations are not comprehensive, but at least some of them prove me, I won't deny them all, I will still see some of my own shortcomings from other people's evaluations, and try to correct them.

I think we should objectively look at other people's comments on ourselves, do our best, what others think is her business, we have to do our own things well, if we really have something to do and others point out, we should also accept it with an open mind.

The mouth grows on other people's faces, and how to evaluate is left to others to judge. The only thing you can influence is to be yourself! Improve civilization literacy and be a civilized person; Promote moral sentiments and be a noble person; Enhance legal awareness and be a strict law-abiding person; Be loyal, have pure patriotic feelings, and continue to make your due contributions to the long-term development of the country!

Know how to repay gratitude, have filial piety, love, and be kind to others.

As the saying goes, listen to people's persuasion, eat a full meal, and consider what others give more pertinently, and just ignore those that are not salty or light.

Listen to other people's evaluations with an open mind, see what the content is, and know what you look like and what you want. Through comparison, the correct ones can be communicated, and those that do not meet can be communicated according to the relationship, or ignored. ‍‍

We all like to hear good things, but if someone else makes a reasonable suggestion, they should still correct it. Attitude is everything. A good attitude contributes to progress at work and harmony in life.

For reasonable suggestions, it is possible that we are not aware of them ourselves, but when others put them forward, we should thank others and try to correct them. For the unreasonable, we can take a disregard attitude, but also to express gratitude, others can put forward opinions, indicating that it is our approval or opinion, everything must be found from ourselves. ‍‍

I think this should be viewed in two parts, and there are some very sincere comments, evaluations, comments, corrections or suggestions, we all need to accept them with an open mind. Some of them are vexatious insults, and we can ignore them.

Everyone is in a different position and has different opinions. The other person is your elders, and they use their own experience to see your ideas and practices; The other party is your superior, and the requirements for you must be very high; The other party is your colleague, from life to see your attitude, from work to see your personality; The other person is your friend, who is thinking about the aspects you can't think of, and the other person is your neighbor, and he is a bystander.

Find out your own shortcomings, humbly accept the opinions of others, and correct them. Be a better version of yourself, and ignore it if it's not right.

Advice is good for action, bitter medicine is good for disease, and humility makes people progress, no matter whether other people's criticism is right or wrong, it will definitely be promoted, and there are many benefits.

In fact, I feel that sometimes it is very important to myself, there is a saying that bystanders are clear, they don't find their own faults, and they don't feel their faults, so don't point them out to you at this time, I think it's also a good thing.

Everyone knows you differently and thinks of you differently. Others don't know your past, don't know your emotions, don't know your development direction, and the opinions and suggestions put forward are your comprehensive assessment at this stage.

In life's journey, we will meet many people whose words and advice may have an impact on our lives and career choices. So, how should we look at and deal with others who propose to change their or their children's majors? Here's what I think:

1.Endorse the advice of others and change yourself.

Sometimes, when our own vision and knowledge may be limited, and we don't know where to start when we encounter a problem, some advice and guidance will be particularly important. If the advice and exhortations of others are correct and valuable, we can listen to them and implement them, and change some of our own perceptions or behaviors, which may set us on a better path in life.

2.Reject the advice of others and be firm in your choices.

When choosing a major, we also need to fully consider our interests, strengths and career development prospects, which is an important decision for personal development. Therefore, even if the advice of others may not be right for you, you need to maintain your determination and confidence and be firm in your choice.

3.For children, a decision can be made based on a combination of references and suggestions.

The choice of a child's career is also an important thing for parents, but children have their own personalities and dreams. As a parent, you can fully communicate with your child, understand their interests and professional tendencies, and make the best decisions together on the basis of comprehensive consideration of family, society and children's own factors.

Overall, everything needs to be analyzed and dealt with on a case-by-case basis. When we encounter the advice of others, we need to think and evaluate, and make the best decision based on a comprehensive consideration of personal interests, personality, career development and other factors. When it comes to children's career choices, they need to be more cautious and deliberate, taking into account all factors to make the most appropriate decision.

There was such a sentence that was engraved in my heart for a long time and hurt me for a long time.

At that time, I was still a young and sensitive teenager, and I was not confident enough in my appearance. At that time, I always felt that I was inferior to others, and I looked thin and inconspicuous. One day, I was playing with my classmates in class, and one of my classmates suddenly said, "You look so ugly." ”

At that time, my heart suddenly became heavy. This sentence echoed in my heart repeatedly, and I began to doubt my own worth, and even wanted to run away. I didn't want to go to school anymore, I didn't want to face my classmates anymore, and I didn't want to expose myself to other people's eyes anymore.

Gradually, I became more and more introverted, more and more reluctant to communicate with the characters, and my personality became more and more withdrawn.

However, time is the best medicine. As the years passed, I gradually understood some truths: everyone is unique, there is no ugly face, only an ugly heart; Everyone has shortcomings and shortcomings, but this does not affect our respect for ourselves and gratitude for life.

I began to learn to accept my shortcomings and stop being influenced by other people's comments.

Today, I am a confident and independent person. I know that my appearance is not the most important thing, but the inner quality and personality charisma. I also understood that the classmate said that he didn't mean to hurt me, but said it for a while.

More importantly, I got inspiration from it, which made me more determined in my beliefs and direction.

Everyone will experience setbacks and difficulties, but that doesn't mean we have to give up on ourselves. Instead, we should draw strength from adversity and become stronger. We must learn to be tolerant and tolerant of ourselves, so that we can truly get out of the haze and face the light.

Although this sentence has hurt me for a long time, it has also strengthened my belief and direction. I believe that in the days to come, I will continue to work hard and pursue a better version of myself.