Why do I feel like I m getting more and more unsociable?

Because you grow up, others also grow up, including mature hearts, you are wary of others, others also have you, because you will not pretend that you hate them, so you will not be social, that is to say, gregarious people may not really be gregarious, you go to high school and think that junior high school classmates are good, because he will always be the one who has not grown up in your heart, and when you meet again, you feel very close because the impression you give each other is innocent, even if both parties have changed each other, they will not notice it, so you still have to be vigilant, After all, you and I have changed.

Because your thinking has also begun to change, as long as you have a playmate when you are a child, even if you don't know each other, you can instantly get together to play, because children have a big playful heart, and don't care about what the people around them are, but the more you grow up, the more complex and mature our thoughts begin to become, you will begin to care about what the people around you will think, and if you think more, you will naturally find that you don't seem to want such a friend, in fact, this is a very normal phenomenon, everyone will experience, as long as you adapt, you can still find good friends, Come on.

Because you grow up and have your own concepts and ideas, you are no longer just people who eat and go shopping together, everyone wants differently, and you will feel that everyone is different.

Because when you grow up, you will also form your own three views, know what kind of people you should contact with, and through getting along with other people before, you know that dealing with others is not as simple as you imagined.

The more I think about it, the more obvious my personality. I have more worries and more understanding. More and more understand but do not recognize, more and more do not want to accept but have no choice. Efforts are being made to clear the clouds, but it is not yet clear. Come on!

You have to understand that some friends are suitable to enter our hearts, while some are just friends who eat, drink and have fun, not because we have grown up and are not social, but we think too much, and there are fewer people who go the same way with ourselves.

Because many people are just passers-by, they may have just become friends who came to say, and then they are about to leave, the distance and life circle are different, and there will no longer be a lot of contact, and they may be sad, so since they know that some people will always come and go, it is better to just become a person who knows.

1. Along the way in life, I have met many people and made friends. But later, some friends became passers-by, some friends turned against each other, and some friends never saw each other again, which was sad. There is a saying, this time, that time.

No one can stop in the past, and no one can stop for you.

Growing up, I found it especially hard to be friends. The years are changing, people's hearts are changing, and the former "dragging the family to meet each other" is just a later sentence. Your life is very different from his; What you want to talk about is not on the same channel as what he wants to hear.

2. No matter where you go, as long as the other party can leave a warm memory in your heart, so that you can recall it, and still feel that those years were not in vain, it is enough. It's not that they are separated for no reason, but the three views have long been different, and their hearts are gradually estranged, and they slowly withdraw from each other's worlds.

Don't be surprised at the fragility and transience of friendship, when the tide of time dissipates and the stone that symbolizes the truth of adult friendship comes to the surface. The truth of dating for adults is just three words: light, cold, and far. Friends, less is less, more often.

3. When you miss the days when the two of you used to stay together, you should also understand that such two parties are destined to separate, and it is better to let each other go than to force them together to increase their disappointment. Just say goodbye quietly, and go to each other's path before the two have a bigger conflict, leaving the friendship in the best period.

The reason why friends are friends is because they understand each other and take the initiative with each other. He keeps an eye on your news, and is willing to listen to you patiently when you have something to do, and see what ShBi Cong can do for you. And you, too, always remember each other and keep in touch.

4. In the end, many relationships are all about interests and each other's values, compared with the beginning, there may be less love and sincerity, and more reason and thinking. To this day, the truth is still the same. Under the interests, it is difficult to have true friends, whether we are willing to mature or not, the other party may have matured a long time ago.

Gradually, it disappears, just a symptom.

5. When a person no longer meets your needs, and a person can no longer keep up with your pace, you will consciously or unconsciously abandon him, and at the same time, you may also be abandoned by others. We will eventually become the old people of the mountains and rivers. What is a friend?

People who come together based on similar emotions or common interests. Therefore, it is also possible to drift away due to the divergence of interests and emotions that are no longer there. "Don't drag your friends on the road, look for friends on the road.

Everyone has a personality and a direction in life. If you forcibly walk with someone to slow down your wisdom, you will lose yourself. As a person who focuses on reading, if he devotes a large part of his energy to managing the world, he will be disturbed by the world and will not be able to be a "bystander of the world".

When people reach a certain age, in the workplace, there are many colleagues, but they can't be regarded as friends, everyone comes for salary and status; At dinner, people will know many people, but put down the wine glass, and everyone will be fine; There are many people in the city, but there are very few people who smile at you sincerely.

You know that in fact, in the society, everyone has no heart at all, but they have said too many hypocritical words and even they are numb, I suggest that the landlord should adapt to this kind of communication with different hearts, you must know that we are not writers, not critics, we are just people who follow the crowd in society, kindness is for those who need him, love is for those who love themselves, don't say that I teach you badly, but one day you are going to contact this society, we can't always treat those who are sinister to us with our kindness, so, From now on, we should be a confident person, enrich our lives in various ways, treat kind people with our feelings, treat people with bad intentions, we should return them with a false smile. (How does it sound like you're going to be a bad person, hey, in the end, you still have to enrich your life, and you won't care about other people's boredom when you're full).