How do you make a decision when you have a difficult choice?

Difficulties in work (study) are common things, as for whether it will be the biggest problem in everyone's life, everyone's actual situation will be different, and the views at different stages will also be accompanied by time and different experiences and views, at the moment you may feel that the problem is very big, the difficulties encountered are so big that you can't imagine, so that you can't breathe, this is in many times we will inevitably encounter the process in the course of life, in this stage, to a large extent, your mentality, Your emotions and the angle from which you face difficulties and problems are crucial. The most important way to solve problems and difficulties, I personally think that the first step is to adjust one's own mentality, to withdraw oneself, from oneself, from China, from the earth, from the infinite galaxy, from this vast universe or time and space, each of us and everything, even any event under the wheel of history, from a different height to look at one thing, any one of our own seemingly big difficulties or problems, is really not as big as we imagined. In this way, you will become more peaceful, and have a better and more appropriate mindset to face and understand and solve problems.

Because I am an electrical repairman, the biggest difficulty I encountered was the electrical repair problem. I once repaired and studied an electrical appliance for seven or eight days, and finally solved the problem. Since then, I have not encountered any electrical appliances that are difficult to repair.

In fact, electrical repair is to do more, as long as an electrical appliance you disassemble, assemble and disassemble, repeat more than a dozen times, you will learn almost. In addition, the key to repair is to replace the method, and then deal with the problem of poor contact (which is covered in my article), and ensure that the line is correct, then there will be no problems. To sum up, whether it is work or study, it is necessary to ask the master diligently, work diligently, and integrate theory with practice in order to do a good job.

Why can't our students improve their academic performance? The reason is that there is too much theory and too little practice, because there is a lack of practice environment. For example, if you learn English, no matter how good your written test score is, if you don't have an English environment and don't have the opportunity to study abroad, then you are still dumb English.

This is not to say that learning English is useless, if you have a deep theoretical knowledge of English and a good score in the written test. Then if you have the opportunity to go abroad for further study, I estimate that you will be fluent in spoken English in more than two months! One of the adages I have believed in since I was young is "success comes naturally", whether you are studying or working, as long as you work hard, sometimes you don't feel that you have succeeded.

Sometimes I flip a coin when I really don't know how to choose, because when I toss a coin, I know what I want to choose.

In the face of difficulties and problems, I personally feel that action is very important, a thousand thoughts are not as good as a line, we think well or not think well must be as soon as possible to land the best solution to the problem that they think of at the moment, if it is not good, continue to try, only continue to adhere to the action of solving the problem, we have no difficulties and problems that cannot be solved and cannot be faced.

The biggest difficulty in learning is that when I was in elementary school, I faced this piece of mathematics conversion, what 153.18 million, please write it out with numbers or reverse it, every time I see this kind of question, my face is pale, my heart beats faster, I really can't write, then how many zeros to write, how many zeros are called 10 million, million, 100 million, I really can't learn. This fear is not really incomprehensible, but it is a serious psychological fear that I missed two or three harsh criticisms from my teachers. Later, I changed to a teacher, and this kind of thing of being scolded for doing the wrong question is less likely to happen, and suddenly one day, I found myself slowly calculating and counting slowly to make the question.

Calm down, figure out which of these options can have a more beneficial impact on you, or a little less loss, and then find an experienced elder and ask them to analyze how I should make a trade-off, and be an outsider's analysis.

I had a very difficult choice between liberal arts and science in high school, and in the end, I finally chose liberal arts after consulting with my teachers and parents.

Point the soldiers and generals, which point is which, the arrangement of fate, I can't refuse.

Usually I ask some experienced people to see how to solve such a thing, and let them help me analyze it.

When faced with setbacks and difficulties in life, everyone may react and deal with them differently. Running away is a common way to cope, but it's not the best option.

Running away from difficulties may be a temporary relief, but in the long run, avoiding them will only make them more complex and difficult. In the face of setbacks and difficulties, a better option is to respond positively and solve problems. Here are some of the best possible options:

1.Accept reality: First of all, we must face up to and accept the current difficulties and setbacks, and do not evade or deny the existence of problems. This attitude of facing the real situation helps us to understand the nature of the problem and the direction that needs to be solved.

2.Thinking and Planning: Taking a long-term view, think carefully about the reasons behind the problem and the solutions. Set reasonable goals and plans, and develop a series of feasible steps to solve the problem step by step.

3.Seek support: Talk to a friend, family, or professional and ask for support. Share your own confusion and frustrations, and you may get attention, advice, and help. Their support and understanding can help us regain motivation and confidence.

4.Learn & Grow: See difficulties and setbacks as an opportunity to learn and grow. By reflecting on the causes and solutions to problems, we can learn more experience and knowledge, and improve our abilities and wisdom.

5.Adjust your mindset positively: Maintain a positive mindset and have a strong foundation and patience in the face of setbacks. Shi Fengchi believes in his own ability, believes that problems can be solved, and at the same time constantly learns to endure and adapt to some unchangeable situations.

The best option is to face the problem positively and try to find a solution. While it may take time and effort to solve problems, it is only by facing difficulties head-on that you can truly grow and progress. Remember, life's setbacks and difficulties are not a shackle to you, but an opportunity to help you become a stronger, more mature person.