What does it feel like to have a roommate with a glass heart?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-29
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think if you have such a roommate, you must be very careful when getting along with her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I'm so tired. Whatever she said, she had to go through her head, for fear of hurting her young heart. In the future, I will avoid socializing with her, so as not to have some unnecessary misunderstandings.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I feel a pity if I don't film, I feel very hurt when I say heartache for a little thing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Such a roommate is to be coaxed, for fear that one will accidentally offend such a person.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I was really speechless, we both walked together, I saw my classmate in front of me and said to say hello, she didn't speak, I went, but she was upset, the reason was that I didn't wait for her, she couldn't catch up with me. After that, he scolded me in the space, brought a group of relatives and friends to tear me up, and then sent a long, long text saying that he was very wronged, and took other roommates to isolate me.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The two of us walked together, and I saw my classmate in front of me saying hello, and she didn't speak, so I went, and she was upset, because I didn't wait for her, and she couldn't catch up with me. After that, he scolded me on Weibo in the space, brought a group of relatives and friends to tear me up, and then sent a long text saying that he was very wronged, and took other roommates to isolate me. What can I say?

    There was a girl over there who was sad and needed my guidance, and I didn't say I wouldn't go to the toilet. I explained it to her, I didn't feel like I was listening, what could I say more, and now I don't speak.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I have a roommate who is a typical glass heart, and at first I will think that she is hypocritical, just get used to it, and ignore it. As long as it's none of your business.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It should feel like his body is hollowed out, and every time I talk to him, I have to be careful and careful, otherwise I have to clean up the mess. As an old senior sister who wants to go to graduate school, she must move out if she has the conditions.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Roommates play with chicken. She made a bet with a man that girls were better at eating chicken than boys, but she couldn't play herself, so she asked me to "fight" for her. I said I wasn't available, no, I didn't agree, she chased me and said for a day and I refused for a day.

    In the end, she said in a weird way, as long as you are good, if you don't play, you won't play pretending.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    My roommate is also cheap-mouthed and glassy-hearted, all kinds of sarcasm and all kinds of cold water all day long, always hurting me and another roommate, but we don't dare to talk back to her, because she is also very glassy, she will be sad when she says it, and I think it hurts her self-esteem, but it is clear that she hurt us first. Now in my junior year, I just want to graduate quickly, although I don't want to leave college.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The drama spirit himself is not wrong. Maybe it's because I'm usually more many, so it's extremely disgusting to be this kind of person. It's very hypocritical every day.,I haven't bumped a little bit and immediately screamed like killing a pig.,Still scolding there.,It's really super disgusting.,Crying in the dormitory every night.,You comfort her.,She said she didn't cry.,And then the next day I told you that she secretly cried in the bed last night.。

    Anyway, I couldn't stand it, and all my patience and enthusiasm were exhausted.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Find a time for two people to sit down and have a good chat, don't do it, violence can't solve the problem, and if it doesn't work, choose to stay away from such roommates.

    First of all, what is a glass heart. Have a strong sense of self-esteem, are easily influenced by the words of others, and are easily injured. Actually, just having the property of a glass heart doesn't affect me, because I'm not easily swayed by other people's opinions.

    But when the glass heart and the poisonous tongue are combined, I can easily fall for it, because I can't figure out why they want to be poisonous to me, and I don't know how to correct my behavior to avoid it.

    First of all, I'm a boy and I'm also a room manager, and the longer I get along with the dormitory, the more time I will have, but being a roommate who is about to get along for four years is fate. Since the problem is with the roommate, the bell must be tied to the bell! First of all, you must be sincere, friendly, cheerful, and don't complain about everything, after all, no one likes to listen to complaining ......

    For example, today my roommate bought a dress online, I touched the fabric very soft, ** also cheap, just tell the truth, I don't like the color, but I didn't say it, everyone has everyone's preferences, take the initiative to talk to them, fart, remember not to be serious in conversation.

    Don't be submissive, it's okay to be enthusiastic about helping your roommates, but you also have to grasp the measure, don't let others do what you do, after a long time, it will become a kind of inertia, and others will take it for granted that what you do.

    Don't take advantage of this kind of thing, if you do it once or twice, the other party will not be willing to play with you. Don't take your roommate for a fool, and don't lower your worth. Getting along with roommates generously is the long-term way.

    Learn to be conscious and self-disciplined, because of the difference in work and rest time, or the difference between regions, your living habits or diet will be different. At this time, what we need to do is not to interfere with each other. Learn to be conscious, and learn to be self-disciplined, so that your roommates will like you more.

    Taking care of special groups, maybe your roommate is a minority and has his own eating habits that are different from others. Maybe your roommate is physically handicapped and tends to be out of tune with everyone. In such a situation, it is better for us to take care of them, and not just for the sake of so-called please.

    Because if you do this, you will definitely get the gratitude of your roommates. Living in a world of gratitude, you will be happy physically and mentally.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Stay away from this kind of glass-hearted roommate, and if the other party still comes to find trouble, react with the dormitory teacher, and don't have a head-on conflict with the other party.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Find an opportunity for everyone to sit together and chat, understand what the other party thinks, everyone has spoken, and if you still come to find trouble, stay away from the glass-hearted roommate.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Keep your distance from him, roommates don't have to be friends, just do your own thing, don't worry too much.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You should react with the teacher, let the teacher handle it, and keep your distance from your roommates.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think you can find a suitable time and place to talk to your roommates.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    You should communicate with her and tell her that not everything is aimed at her, but that she thinks too much.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think you should ignore her, try not to have more contact with her, and when you really can't help it, just go back.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think you should fight back against him hard and let him know that you are not easy to mess with, so that he will not look for your trouble.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think I can communicate with him first, and if I can't communicate, I can directly ask the teacher to help solve the problem.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think it's good for you to see it in your heart, don't have a lot of contact with him in the future, just have normal interactions, and don't tear your face too much.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You can't stand the glass heart, then you don't pay attention to him, it's good to have a good relationship on the surface, and you won't necessarily be in touch after graduation.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You can tactfully raise or increase your tolerance for her, after all, if you really say it, you may offend her.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I feel that the glass heart is very fragile, and everything will be very sensitive, so no matter what you do? You have to think about her.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I think you should stay away from this roommate, don't make friends with him, maybe one day you'll break his glass heart.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If you can't stand it, don't put up with it anymore, tell them tactfully, and let them pay attention to their behavior.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you can't stand it, you can communicate with the other party, if it's too serious, you can change the dormitory, and it should be okay to fight for it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    "Woo woo ......Oh, the love story of the hero and heroine is so miserable, you can see that the two of them love each other so much, but in the end they still didn't achieve a positive result, it's so sad, woo woo woo ......"I'm really drunk, I'm a glass-hearted roommate, a little thing, even a small story, she can see tears coming out, and she is really speechless.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's nice to have a roommate with a glass heart, it can improve my expression skills and speaking skills.

    Just at work, living in the company dormitory met a glass-hearted colleague, at first I didn't understand his character, I didn't pay much attention to what he said, when I offended him I don't know, I only know that he didn't talk to us for a few days, and even deliberately avoided us, and then we have been dating for a long time, and slowly learned that he is a person with super self-esteem, and he can't accept the negation of others. Now that I think about it, I miss that time.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I think it's a particularly uncomfortable experience to have a roommate with a glass heart, because it's really tiring to get along with someone like that, and we can't express our opinions, and many times we are very aggrieved, so you have to be careful when you want to get along with such a roommate.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's okay, it's good to pay more attention to her feelings when she talks and acts, just because she is a glass heart, so she is also careful when dealing with you, and having such a roommate can always remind you to pay attention to what you say, don't say everything.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    It is a better experience to have a roommate with a glass heart, because he can make you feel the warmth and warmth of the world, and at the same time, he needs a lot of help from other roommates to make his heart stronger, so that he can live better in society.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's very tiring for me, and many times a sentence that has been unintentionally affects the other party's emotions, and I will have self-blame in my heart, and of course I will have some concerns.

    Faced with such a situation, I have a lot of worries in my relationship with them, and I will think about which words to say and which words to hold back.

    Having a roommate with a glass heart may be too much for me to be myself.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    There is a roommate with a glass heart, and his life is more helpless.

    People with glass hearts are often easy to cry when they are small things, and even an expression of the other party will be misunderstood, when there is really a roommate with a glass heart around you, you will find that you have a great sense of depression when you return to the dormitory.

    The feeling of depression comes from not knowing whether to speak or not, for fear of crying if the other party says the wrong thing, and for fear that the other party will have doubts if they don't say it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    After three years with one of my roommates, I realized that she was a girl with a glass heart. Because once a war broke out between us, I am a big man, and I don't have a brain. She took some of the things I said to heart, and thought about them a lot.

    My heart was so tired, I was crying. I'm careful when I talk now, and I feel a little depressed about life.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    The glass heart is actually a kind of inner fragility.

    Now, he is both inferior and weak, sensitive and a little emotional.

    Chemical, sentimental about things, unassertive in doing things, open-minded.

    Narrow-minded, but also do not allow others to have different opinions, others to become.

    Meritorious and even jealous, etc., these all belong to the glass-hearted people.

    The basic characteristics, so how to get along with people with this kind of personality, in fact, is not so difficult, as long as from the following aspects.

    Departure can handle the relationship well.

    First of all, it is necessary to give full attention to the person with this mental characteristic.

    Understanding and tolerance, this kind of mental formation is also a variety of factors.

    Some are innate, and some are acquired.

    The influence is caused, especially acquired, perhaps by the family.

    Causes, perhaps personal reasons, as long as they can form this.

    character, hurt or blows more than their own.

    can bear it, so if you want to communicate with them, understand him more.

    Bear with them.

    The second is to respect, love, and help them, to this kind.

    For people with this kind of character, they are more or less like this.

    Personality, it's just light, it's not very obvious, get closer to them and guide them more new topics, right.

    Some film and television drama opinions, express some opinions, day.

    Help in life, care more about them in life, and be attentive.

    To be influenced and moved with affection, there will be a lot of success.

    Effective. Thirdly, when getting along with them, we must not build ourselves on.

    The high position gives them a certain amount of ideological pressure, fine.

    God endures, the most suitable first to lower the mentality, treat each other sincerely, and sincerely maintain the true feelings, this kind of character people have inferiority.

    Ge, so I am most afraid of the indifference and neglect of others, so I am on this side.

    Try to get them to behave more and give them plenty of time to show up.

    Reach some inner emotions to soothe and give them drums.

    Encouragement, support, and make them aware of their presence.

    Fourth, people with glass hearts are mainly because of the small amount of energy, the heart.

    The chest is narrow, cautious and eye-catching, but it is very selfish and always wants to make people high.

    Look, only think about yourself, be funny, and look at others.

    Small and ignorant. There are only two things to do if you want to get along with such a person.

    Fa Yi blindly flattered and praised him with a high hat, not to mention.

    She said half a bad word, and then blindly tolerated discord.

    She is generally knowledgeable, and only treats him as a child in her mind.

    Lixin people can get along with you for a long time.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Roommate glass heart.

    So now that you know this.

    You can take proper care of it.

    On the premise that you can do it.

    The main thing is to do your own thing.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    With the changes of the times, the weight of interpersonal relationships in social interactions is becoming more and more important, "seeing people and talking about people, and talking about ghosts" seems to have become the basic survival law of society. Or what about getting along with a roommate who is very fragile?

    Faced with this situation, we have two options. One kind of straightforward attitude to him, since you can't listen to words, even the slightest joke can't afford to make a few words, then we simply try to avoid talking, first, your ears can be cleaner, and second, I don't have to be afraid of hurting your glass heart, every word has to be carefully considered, don't deal with, you take your Yangguan Road, I cross my single-plank bridge, we don't interfere with each other, we can be clean. But this method will undoubtedly damage your roommates, after all, they all live under the same roof, and they don't look up every day, so there's no need to be too stiff, so this method of not having such a strong soul should be used with caution.

    The next way may be to wronged yourself a little, that is-forbearance. Isn't there a good saying, if you can't bear it, you will make a big plan, so, for your good mood, and for the "happy life" of your bedroom, since he is a glass heart, you don't want to provoke him, and don't deliberately target him, it's not easy to say a few bad words, just shut up. You have to think about it, after all, you are the one who wants to live with him for four years, and it will not benefit anyone if you break up.

    To put it mildly, if you "insult" people every day, they will have the heart to kill you harder.

    Of course, in the face of the roommate with a glass heart, you can't ignore it, you can tell him through your words and actions that life is so much troubled, everyone can't be smooth sailing, more or less will encounter some difficulties and setbacks, the glass heart is unable to survive in this "eat people without spitting out bones" society, in the future, you will experience more winds and waves, you can't stand such a little thing, then you don't want to live in this life and other inspirational and firm words. Or when you encounter difficulties, be strong and stand through, and use your practical actions to tell him that life is not as difficult as he thinks, as long as you endure and persist, you will definitely be able to get through, so that he can slowly grow into an iron-blooded man with a strong heart. When his heart became stronger, I thought that the first person he would be grateful for might be you.

    All in all, I want to tell you a sentence, "If you don't experience wind and rain, how can you see a rainbow, no one can succeed casually", for a person with a glass heart, the best help is to cheer him up when he is facing difficulties, give him enough support, so that he can practice a strong heart.

    That's all I have to say, thank you for browsing.

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