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Calm self-restraint,The cultivation quality of people is relatively different, but when others are malicious to themselves, they must be calm, learn to restrain themselves, don't try to be happy for a while, or take a bad breath, they will be angry, argue with each other, and even scold, and in the end they will be in a worse mood, treat the other party as a low-quality person, do not have the same knowledge as the other party, and endure it and pass.
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Others maliciously target themselves, they endure again and again, but the other party still doesn't know how to stop, or maliciously hurt themselves as always, without a trace of convergence and change, then they can't tolerate the other party, that is their own cowardice, and it will also fuel the other party's arrogance, at this time, seize the opportunity, seize the reason, and give the other party a blow, so that the other party feels that he is not not angry, but not easy to get angry.
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When others maliciously treat themselves, they pretend not to know, and then interact with each other, as if nothing happened, and they don't pick it out, and they don't mention such things, they are confused, they don't care about each other, how to get along with each other, but they are better for each other, and they use their own broad mind to tolerate each other, overcome rigidity with softness, and influence each other.
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If you can't solve it yourself, you can ask a friend for help, let the friend find the other party to understand the situation, resolve the contradiction or misunderstanding between each other, and with the intervention and help of a friend, you may know why the other party will maliciously target you, so that the contradiction or misunderstanding is resolved, and it is easier to get along.
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If the other party doesn't know that the malice is aimed at him once, then he can't bear it anymore, he can't be calm, and he can't pretend to be confused anymore, because in this case, the other party will think that he doesn't know, or think that he is easy to bully, and he must find a time to pick things out, talk about it well, and let the other party know that he is not confused, and he is not so easy to bully.
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I will think about it, see if I have done something wrong, and correct my mistake first, if it is not my own mistake, then I don't need to care about other people's opinions.
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You can't blindly complain about the other party and put all the blame on the other party, you also have to think about whether you have done anything wrong, whether you have done something wrong, hurt the other party, the other party has a grudge, and you don't know it, or you are also relatively strong, and you have inadvertently offended the other party in daily life, and it is also important to reflect on yourself.
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Be yourself, be yourself, don't gossip, there is a saying: don't talk about people's wrongs, sit quietly and think about yourself! I believe that if you are good enough, you will eventually be invincible to evil, come on, and if you are open in your heart, everything is simple, and every day is sunny.
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I think if it were me, I would definitely do my best, show my good side and attract them.
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I will do my best and will not be the enemy of the students around me, and at the same time, I will continue to serve my classmates, so that my classmates can feel my warmth and no longer hate me.
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First of all, I will consider my own reasons, reflect on myself deeply, and then make changes.
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Don't worry too much about what they think. Try to live your life well and live every day happily.
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You also pretended to be very good, treated him very well, beat him up in private, and no one believed him when he said it. Demons fear the wicked.
I think that if it is someone who is in constant contact with me, I will not hesitate to tell the truth at the appropriate time when they target me, so that they can understand what is going on, so as to prevent future incidents against me, and I also believe that with more contact, they will understand what kind of person I am; And for people who don't come into contact often, just let them go, you won't be able to interact in the future, whatever they say, maybe you deliberately explain it to make them think that you are quibbling. >>>More
Wait. Good for them.
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