How would you maintain yourself in college? How college students can self manage

Be yourself, understand what you are going to college for, don't try to please others too much, don't force yourself to get along with others because you don't fit in, do things that make you happy, make decisions that make you feel comfortable, and not deliberately cater to others.

Maintain a state of learning and develop holistically on the premise of having a skill. There is a saying that "the length of a hundred schools of thought is the words of a family". If you are interested in it, you will find it even more interesting.

Don't be afraid of trial and error when you're young, you have nothing anyway, and all you get is a fluke. When I first entered the university, I took a lot of courses, and I unconsciously learned a lot of seemingly meaningless courses, but I had to keep telling myself in my heart that there was one thing that I had to work hard to be professional in the four years of college, even if it was only a little better in the limited circle around me.

Superimpose that point with your best energy and resources and give more energy to it. You need to spend some time and hit some nails to find your own point of interest, which is that you are willing to spend a lot of energy and energy to accompany it, please it, and even lose all your money but you don't regret it. This is when your professional skills grow, because you will definitely work harder because you are desperate to give.

This is the process of creating self-worth, which can be spiritual or material. Find what you are really passionate about and really care about, and learn about it, and you can create value to a certain extent.

I've always kept myself up, I go to bed early and wake up early, they go to bed late, stay up late to play games and watch movies; I like to cook in the dorm by myself, and they like to eat outside, so I eat by myself; I like to be independent, I can get everything done quickly, they like to be in groups, so it makes me feel like I can do it without a partner, they will feel as if I can do everything by myself; There are a lot of things like this, and although it's a little unsociable, our relationship is okay.

Unique. Spend less time with the people around you. Attend classes, eat or even go shopping, and do your own business. You don't need to tolerate the people around you, and the people around you aren't that important. Of course, this requires you to be strong inside.

When we go through all kinds of experiences, we are likely to encounter some confusion, so we will return to zero and start again. From high school to university, more than ten years of hard study cannot be said to be not an experience of people's mind and perseverance. Experiencing all kinds of freedoms and restrictions in childhood, the restlessness and confusion of youth, and not allowing these distractions to affect learning too much, these are all things that require a lot of energy, and finally being admitted to university can be regarded as a person with a story.

At this moment, you may find that many things were not played like this before, it is not easy to study hard, it is not that you can get a scholarship by working hard to get a full score, it is not that you can become friends by sharing snacks at the front and back tables, and in a semester, maybe the teacher you like very much does not know you at all, you are obviously very gentle and considerate, but your boyfriend will still split his legs.

Keep yourself but not accept loneliness. Because people still have to have their own personality characteristics, this is called personality. Imagine what it means when you're like everyone else. And there will always be someone who can like your personality. So you just open your heart to people.

College students should be clear about what they want, study hard when it is time to study, and not be led astray by their roommates who play games.

I don't care too much about other people's opinions, I stick to what I love and keep my original intention.

6 Do you have people who admire or even admire? When you don't know what to do, or don't know what to do, think about it, what would someone you admire or admire do if he or she were different? You'll be much clearer at this point.

Some people say that gregariousness is the beginning of the degeneration of the university, and I don't think this sentence is entirely true, but in the face of a situation where there are bound to be gains and losses, you can choose what you value! Self-confidence is one of the best ways to maintain yourself, believe it or not, you can try!

1.Adjust your mindset and start from scratch. Maybe you are the best in high school, a role model for your classmates, and a source of pride for your parents.

Your classmates are just as good as they used to be at the top of high school, and in this new group, it's not clear which is higher and which is lower. When I arrived at university, I lost the feeling of the stars holding the moon in the past, and my heart was empty, so don't be depressed at this time. What you learn in high school is only the basics, and the university will gradually train you to become a professional in some field.

Everyone who has just entered the university has equal opportunities, standing on the same starting line, as for the final result, it all depends on their own efforts.

2. Do your own financial management. When you go to college, you have to learn to be in charge of your own home; Holding on to the hard-earned money of our parents, calculating the monthly food, clothing, and use, we must consider both material products and spiritual food. Otherwise, there will be a fiscal deficit, but far from quenching the thirst of the near, and the dry is in a hurry.

3. There are suddenly five more brothers (sisters) in the "family" who speak with different accents, and they have to get along under the same roof for four years. Meeting is fate, everyone has advantages and can share them together; There are also shortcomings, and we should tolerate each other.

First, I would tell myself to keep an open mind. University is a stage full of opportunities and challenges, and I was full of fear and doubt about the unknown. I would say to myself, don't be afraid to try new things, don't be afraid to face the unknown.

Dare to step out of your comfort zone, participate in various club activities, make different friends, and broaden your horizons. Only by keeping an open mind can you truly realize your potential and interests.

Second, I would tell myself to value my time. College life is full of classes, club activities, and social gatherings, and time never seems to be running out. I remind myself to plan wisely, set clear learning goals, and stick to self-discipline.

Learn to allocate your time wisely and don't delay your studies because of a momentary indulgence. At the same time, learn to relax and rest, and not overexert yourself. Cherish your time in order to achieve better grades and experiences during your college years.

Thirdly, I would tell myself to be active in club activities. The university is a diverse social platform with many clubs and organizations to participate in. I would encourage myself to actively participate in club activities, find my own areas of interest, and give full play to my hidden strengths.

By participating in club activities, you can make like-minded friends and exercise your leadership and teamwork skills. At the same time, club activities are also a good opportunity to show your talent and personal ability, which can lay a solid foundation for future employment or further education.

Finally, I remind myself to stay physically and mentally healthy. College life is full of pressures and challenges, but physical and mental health is the most important. I would say to myself, don't overwork in pursuit of perfection, learn to relax and adjust your mindset.

It is necessary to maintain a good work and rest habits, adhere to a moderate amount of exercise and diet, and maintain the health of the body. At the same time, it is also important to pay attention to your mental health, seek help and support in a timely manner, and don't let stress overwhelm you. Only by being physically and mentally healthy can you better face the challenges of university life.

There are many things in college life that are difficult to do and persevere, but you have to stick to them and do them. When doing it, it is very difficult to solve every day, and there will be many problems that are difficult to solve. For example, it is difficult to persevere in studying, and there is perseverance in exercising every day.

So, it's a very rewarding thing to stick to doing something that's hard.

Then we must establish a belief in our hearts, adjust our mentality, and do things seriously. Every time we encounter difficulties and feel down, we should encourage ourselves. Encourage yourself to try and persevere, and solve all the difficulties.

When it's hard for us to persevere, then we have to think about it, and there are even many things that can be more persistent than this.

In the face of my college studies, it was difficult for me to persevere. Therefore, in college, many students are unable to persevere in their studies. Very few students are able to make the most of their college career.

In addition to attending classes, many people just play online games or go out to eat, drink and have fun with their classmates. Even when I studied hard, it was two days of fishing and three days of drying nets.

So I think it's very difficult for people to keep learning, because it's a very difficult and meaningful thing to keep learning. Of course, in addition to being able to keep studying, we also need to keep exercising. There are very few people who can keep exercising for four years of college life, and some people have not persevered in exercising for a month or two, for example, it is too hot in summer and too cold in winter, so it is difficult to persevere.

I think that in addition to studying, there is also the exercise of reputation in life

1) Correct self-understanding.

Knowing oneself correctly is the foundation for cultivating a sound sense of self. People's self-knowledge can be divided into two aspects, on the one hand, self-characterization, that is, the influence of one's own character, strengths, interests, hobbies and family, personality weaknesses and so on. If a person is able to understand himself comprehensively and correctly, evaluate himself objectively and accurately, he will act with energy, know himself and himself in order to establish a suitable ideal, and will make unremitting efforts to realize the ideal self.

The other aspect is self-reflection, which is a lifelong process. Frequent self-reflection is the premise of progress, so as not to be self-righteous. As mentioned earlier, there are three main ways to know oneself – empirical, comparative, and reflective.

In addition, college students should also try their best to broaden the scope of life, increase life experience, expand the space for communication, actively participate in activities, and expand social practice, so as to find a variety of reference systems, and rely on these reference systems to understand themselves in many aspects and from multiple angles. It is also necessary to learn to analyze, synthesize, and compare the information about oneself obtained through various means, and to evaluate oneself comprehensively and realistically. We must learn to look at ourselves and others from a developmental perspective and a dialectical approach.

The broader the comparative horizon and the more scientific the method, the more appropriate the self-positioning, in order to give full play to their wisdom and realize their own life value.

2) Be objective to yourself.

1. Accept yourself positively.

To accept oneself is to accept oneself happily and satisfactorily, that is, to accept oneself. Self-acceptance is the core and key to developing a sound sense of self, and it is also a prerequisite for adapting to society. Self-acceptance is not determined by the amount of personal wealth, the level of status, or the quality of living conditions, but more depends on one's own psychological state.

A person who accepts himself can be accepted by others. Such people accept everything they have with a positive attitude, they are optimistic and open-minded about life, can look at their strengths and weaknesses rationally, calmly treat gains and losses, do not exaggerate or belittle themselves, can look at themselves from the perspective of development, do not avoid their current situation, and do not deny themselves with grievances, self-blame or even disgust. In this way, we can cultivate self-confidence, self-reliance, self-improvement, self-reliance, independent psychological qualities and good self-awareness, and become a strong person in life.

2. Hail controls itself well.

Self-control is the fundamental way to improve self-consciousness and self-improvement, the process of actively and directionally transforming oneself, and the process of individual's attitude towards oneself. Therefore, in the process of changing the real self to the ideal self, college students should face the reality, proceed from reality, eliminate all kinds of interference, and position themselves reasonably. And in the process of continuous self-monitoring, self-presentation, and self-correction of the self-adjustment system, we strive to cultivate our own good will quality, so as to achieve effective self-control, and finally realize the ideal self.

First of all, as contemporary college students, we should pursue lofty ideals and firm lofty beliefs. During their university years, students are faced with a series of life issues, such as the establishment of life goals, the enrichment of knowledge and talents, and the determination of development directions. The solution of these problems requires the guidance of scientific ideals and beliefs.

We must link our personal aspirations with the future and destiny of the country and the nation, and closely link our personal study and progress today with the prosperity of the motherland tomorrow, so that the flower of ideals can bear fruitful growth results.

Second, we should be loyal patriots and never forget that we are a member of the People's Republic of China. Safeguard the interests of the state and the nation, safeguard the reunification of the motherland, and take the rejuvenation of China as its own responsibility. No matter how we serve the motherland, we must consciously carry forward the national spirit with patriotism as the core and the spirit of the times with reform and innovation as the core, study hard, and master the ability to serve the motherland.

More importantly, understand the true meaning of life and create the value of life. Establish a correct outlook on life and values, pursue lofty life goals, establish a positive and enterprising attitude towards life, and guide life with a scientific and noble outlook on life. Distinguish between right and wrong, honor and disgrace, good and evil, and constantly create the value of life in practice, giving life a unique meaning.

At the same time, it is also necessary to strengthen moral cultivation and temper moral quality. The college stage is an important stage for the formation, development and maturity of moral consciousness in life. The ideological and moral concepts formed during this period had a significant impact on the lives of college students.

Firmly establish the socialist concept of honor and disgrace, strengthen ideological and moral cultivation, and be a person who knows honor and disgrace and stresses morality. We, college students, should inherit and carry forward the fine moral traditions of the Chinese nation and strive to cultivate good moral qualities.

Finally, we college students should abide by social morality, maintain social order, enhance legal awareness, and be a law-abiding citizen. In short, the process of practicing the socialist core value system is a process of strengthening self-cultivation and self-improvement. We college students should start from ourselves, start from now, and consciously shoulder the lofty mission entrusted by the times.