Can there be lies between couples?

OK! You can keep "white lies, to put it bluntly, it is to deal with the relationship between you smoothly, however, lies are derogatory, use lies carefully." The so-called lies are all things told to achieve some ulterior purpose!

Therefore, couples who love each other do not hurt each other's aimless lies.

Not a lie in the true sense of the word, but remember, don't overdo it.

There can be lies between couples, but in fact, there have always been lies in the society we live in, and I really don't dare to think about what a society without lies is like! However, small innocuous lies can exist, and some involve moral bottom lines, and big mistakes are still forgotten. How to measure that, it depends on the relationship between two people, one understands each other's words, once the other party tells a lie, you can feel it, a small lie can make our life better, but everything must have a degree! ‍‍

Yes, but it must be a lie of love, for example, between couples who love each other, they will leave delicious food to each other, lying that they don't like to eat, in fact, everyone likes to eat delicious food, but they are happier to watch each other eat than to eat themselves! In order to buy a gift to make the other party happy, the boss who lied that he did a good job gave a bonus, but in fact, it was the money given for overtime (the boy may have been avoiding smoking for a month) for fear that the other party would be uncomfortable! ‍‍

Of course there is, I believe that the deeper we love, the more lies there are, we all wrap ourselves perfectly in front of a deep lover, everyone in this world has flaws, and in order to cover up these flaws, we need to cover them up with many lies, big and small. ‍‍

Although it is very clear that in terms of social relations, lies must exist, but from the emotional point of view of the heart, I don't quite recognize, two people, no blood relationship, only rely on feelings to maintain their married life, if there are too many lies, whether good or malicious, it will destroy the trust between two people, which will play an unstable role in the relationship between two people, so I don't recommend that there are lies, the attitude of seeking truth from facts is very good, and more understanding and tolerance can be! ‍‍

Lies are a manifestation of social adaptability, and mastering the sense of proportion can sometimes be a lubricant for the stable development of feelings. However, if lying is a non-comfort zone for the other party, then it can cause a relatively large conflict. Lies are not scary, what is scary is the attitude of lying, and the communication skills of how to deal with it.

You are ready to bear the consequences, you can control the proportions, you feel that the other party has enough psychological adaptation, you can think so, if not, be honest. ‍‍

White lies can exist once in a while, and it's better not to have them, because once punctured, both people will hurt.

Lies are not scary, the key depends on what is the motive behind the lie. If telling a lie can make the other person happy and away from disaster or loss, then a lie cannot be considered a lie. On the contrary, it is better to be open and honest with each other. ‍‍

I think it's better not to have lies, if the misunderstanding gets deeper and deeper, then the relationship will come to an end.

White lies though can be understood. But it can also make people feel bad. So there should be no lies.

I don't think so, treat each other with sincerity and sincerity with each other.

I feel that some well-intentioned panic can exist. After all, they all think about the good of the other party.

First, whether lying is good or bad, in the eyes of women, it is deception, regardless of whether you are good or not, most women can not tolerate their husbands cheating on him, women's minds are always finer than men's, they will always see if you have lied from some small places, and then deduce whether you will lie to her bigger problems.

Second, your wife is very strong and shrewd at the same time, and I believe that you can rarely lie and escape her eyes, so in the future, there will be less lies and more honesty.

Third, men sometimes can't understand women, why sometimes they always use methods that make them ugly to solve problems, in fact, it is very simple, it is the nature of women, they will always test the man's loyalty to them through some small tricks or hearts, to test whether the man is honest and responsible in life.

Fourth, men always have a good face, and sometimes they can't lose it in front of their own women. Not all women are smart enough to know that some lies are well-intentioned, so they don't know the embarrassment of a man's lies when they are exposed.

Between husband and wife, it's easy to be honest, be more tolerant, have less unnecessary self-esteem, and get rid of those habitual lies. What you are doing is what you are, why lie, you have a clear conscience. Try to communicate together, let women know the difficulties of men, and try to understand women in this way.

Women are not so vexatious sometimes. Don't be confused about running a marriage.

After all, marriage is a matter for two people. None of the two of you is absolutely wrong or absolutely right, let's communicate, talk to her. They love to be heart-to-heart, really.

If the relationship between the two of you can stand the test, I think it should be the same whether you say it or not. But it is still recommended that you do not talk about it, forget the past, cherish the present, and live happily.

Her problems are the majority, husband and wife should be considerate of each other, your wife is too principled, you can communicate with her well, explain your ideas, and see how you solve this problem. You also have a problem, since you are all married and you are not afraid of being scolded by your wife, you are thick-skinned, you can tell the truth.

Yes, sometimes the occasional lie can have an unexpected effect.

Husband and wife can use some white lies, it seems that your wife doesn't want you to lie to her, you'd better tell the truth, when she believes you, everything will be easy.

I do have some sympathy for you, but your wife's situation is a psychological problem, somewhat obsessive-compulsive, similar to perfectionist, mental cleanliness. It's not serious, but it's hard to change. It would be better to have more contact with society and suffer more minor setbacks.

Yes. Couples can have their own secrets, but they can't lie, especially when the other person asks you. If you lie, on the one hand, you will think that you are unfaithful to him or her, and on the other hand, you will arouse suspicion among the other party, and create a gap between the two parties in the future.

It's your problem, first of all, you shouldn't lie to her, and secondly, your wife is a little too harsh and likes to get to the bottom of it. You two can try to sit down and talk patiently, talk about your problems separately, and then solve them cross-fertilly. Although this is a white lie, your wife has a bit of a disgrace.

It's okay to lie with white intentions, but if deceived multiple times will only make him more distrustful of you.

I'm a girl, and I think it's okay to have a proper white lie, but it can't be a vicious deception.

Alas, this problem that even experts cannot drip in, just as the law is nothing more than human feelings!

Her behavior is also very bad, you just tell him directly, secretly testing him is the behavior of a thief, and his personality is not very noble. She doesn't believe that you torture you because she loves you too much and interferes with your normal life. You can slowly tell her that people need lies to live to live, and if she can't accept this reality, she is not a normal thinking person, or a closed person in the legend.

As long as it's not a matter of principle, as long as he does it again, you can just get angry and ignore him. Because everyone has a problem with inches, the more she lets her, the more she gets stuck.

You're definitely not very old, it's normal for this to be a transition, and she just wants to get your attention, and you have to cooperate.

I think it's okay to have a proper white lie.

It depends on the level of trust between the couple.

It's obviously her problem.

Who wouldn't do something wrong, it's too hard to accept talking about you without empathy and testing you.

I think you must have spoiled her on a regular basis.

You can sit down with her and have a heartfelt conversation.

I think your wife will understand you.

After all, like you said, you two love each other a lot.

Also, don't have malicious lies, and it doesn't matter if you tell a small lie once in a while.

Who doesn't have a secret, right?

Partners will lie to each other because:Avoid embarrassment, guilt, seeking approval and material gains, and more. Most of them are white lies, in order to preserve the relationship between the two. Liang Tan Tuan.

There are gender differences in motivation for lying, and when a liar tries to impress the opposite sex, men may not truthfully report their ambitions and income, lying about their loyalty to their feelings. The above lies seem to confirm the dilemma of sexual reproduction in evolution.

Both sexes and men exaggerate their attractiveness through lies when they try to attract the opposite sex.

People who have no experience in love often deliberately hide their "little white history" in dating the opposite sex, especially in front of their favorite dates, they are often worried that the other party thinks they are unattractive or has personality defects, so they will snub or "stay away".

Human beings can't do without lies If only everyone knew in their hearts Debunk that white lie All that's left is the ugly scar When you really get to that point, everything will disappear with it Is it easy to love each other? Why bother with side branches? Confess?

It's just a joke, and everybody can say it, but no one can do it, and everybody has something in their heart that they don't want to be touched.

Absolutely? That thing doesn't exist, just go over it, don't be so naïve, okay? I'm going to get married, and I'm not thinking about it, so I'm not a kid who doesn't know anything, so let's learn to pretend to be confused. Otherwise, it's really hard to be happy.

You walk to the road and suddenly a dog bites you. You know that the dog has bitten you, should you resist? But this dog belongs to the old Wang family next door, whether to resist or not.

Then you have to endure it, sooner or later it will explode.